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Accidental self-hypnosis via subspace is a delight. I once played with my partner and in the course of things, somehow pushed her into a brat space (which is highly unusual for her). We had a wonderful time, but afterward she didn't remember a thing about being a brat or what had pushed her that way. It was honestly one of the best sessions we've ever had.
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(Last Update: 04/06/26) This is the most I've ever written on one of these things, I've had a tumblr account for years and never did much with it, but well, the times, they are a-changin'.
NSFT Blog. Minors DNI. Ageless blogs get the hammer, sorry. TERFs, Yacht-sees and other such assholes, fuck off.
About me:
42, white, he/him, Cis, straight, poly, partnered, but we're all cool about it. Exclusively interested in being dominant. I have work and the crushing existential dread of reality to top me.
My nesting partner is immunocompromised, so I am turning more and more to online as a way to get this stuff out.
Currently seeking/open to NSFW hypnosis sessions with any ladies interested. (Trans women are women, but as a big ol' Cishet Man (tm), I don't want to inadvertently cause you distress if we play and I say something that is inadvertently harmful. Please be clear about your boundaries/comfort, and I will do likewise.)
About the blog:
Mostly about hypno and related stuff, since I don't especially have an outlet for that right now. (I've had some excellent subjects come along, they're just all on hiatus right now.) If I had to name a specific kink, I dunno, maybe 'trust'? I've flirted with rope/shibari, I still use canes, paddles, clamps, all manner of things, but what really gets me going with anyone I dominate is the mutual trust between top and bottom.
Have a list of kinks, I guess:
Hypnosis
Ahegao/Eye Roll in trance
Free Use/CNC (emphasis on the first C)
Body writing
Nipple/clit stimulation/torture
Orgasm control/denial/edging
Canes/paddles (I'd love to get proficient enough to whip, but I don't have anywhere safe/private enough to practice.)
Good Old Fashioned Spanking (tm)
Limits:
No blood, no scat/piss, no serious injury, no kids, no animals.
(Disclaimer: This is a kinky outlet blog. It's not real life. Respect your partners regardless of gender, practice RACK or other risk frameworks, and remember, that slut you just sent a nasty DM to is also a person, no matter how much she wants you to tell her she isn't.)
On Hypno
I'm sure this is a warm take at best, but I figured I'd post at least one damn thing here that might give people an impression of me.
I got into kink after a strange, messy divorce (there was a cult, dogs were kidnapped, no I am not kidding this actually happened), and at the time I was mostly just horny and into ladies who were in handcuffs. While the general feral nature of being single after so long being taken was part of it (and put me into a frenzy that no doubt more experienced kinksters were laughing about, I'm sure they'd seen it before), there was something other than getting off I was looking for.
Trust. Giving and receiving it. As I met folks in the community locally, and met a few wonderful ladies who were willing to spend time with me, I realized that what was really great about kink was the trust involved. They trusted me to do awful (fun) things to them. I trusted them to use their safewords and be completely honest with me. We both trusted each other through our consent.
Hypnokink to me is an ultimate expression of that. Limitations of it aside (no one is really, truly getting themselves locked into their own brains here), the idea that someone would trust me with their mind is incredibly hot to me. Bodies change, they heal, they grow. Plant a trigger, though? That may not go away so easily.
So that's what I think I want out of a hypno dynamic. I want someone I can trust to open themselves to me, and who'll trust me enough to let me in. And if, in the process, they end up a dripping, slutty mess of filled holes and empty brains, well, we all had a good time then.
When I'm inside your mind, that collar isn't just a collar. It's not even just a symbol. It's a key that unlocks a memory.
Put it on, and you remember long sessions where my voice filled your mind, and pleasure filled your body. You remember your touch being so much more potent than it ever was alone, because I told you it was, and my words were your reality.
You remember how it felt that first time, your eyes filled with the spiral, your mind on the edge, and it felt so wonderful, you begged me to push you over it and into the void beyond.
And you remember how good it felt every time after that, when the collar slipped on, and your mind drained away, and there was nothing left but my voice, and the warmth of mindless pleasure.
Because you've given me those memories, you've let me lock them away, and you've let me use your need for them to bring you back into my control, again, and again. And you wouldn't have it any other way.
Where are people going to meet others who are interested in doing hypnokink? I think I've found most of the big ones on Discord, for as long as that lasts, anyway. And of course, there needs to be spaces that are educational and not for trying to find a counterpart, those are important too. The HH subreddit is a wasteland of bot posts, it seems, and hypno is kink non grata on FetLife. Wondering where folks are going to find experiences in this?
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Discovered a love for 'defeat' of late; the idea of someone being overcome by me, or beaten by me in some contest, and that being arousing to them. The submissive who always throws it in Strip Poker. The FWB who's always making lewd bets, and never seems to win. The hypnosis subject who you program to slip deeper and dumber with every move in a game of chess. They know they're losing, and they love it, because it gives them a cover for wanting to be owned, controlled, or used.
It's OK, pretty thing. I won't judge. And it's fun to defeat you, too.
I've tried to write this three times now, and I'm finding there's a really fine line between feeling like I'm bragging and sharing my experiences. But one of my subjects pushed me to post it.
So since I last wrote anything on my own, I've met a couple of very lovely ladies online (one led to the other, and it all started through a completely unrelated Discord), both of whom were interested in experiencing trance, and finally being able to really indulge the kinky side of hypnosis over a long term with a subject has been incredible. I think the high point for me was a moment where I was able to manipulate my subject's sensitivity to stimulation; I was able to have her using a strong vibe for 30+ seconds, during which she felt almost nothing. She didn't believe me until I showed her the Lovense screen to prove I was manipulating her Lush. It was several glorious months where I was able to work with them both, and I still speak to them regularly, but for various entirely valid reasons, neither of them can do sessions with me right now. I'm looking forward to them becoming available again.
People, if you can make a place where your potential subjects feel safe and ready to trust you, they will give you the very best of themselves. They will drop like a gold brick, they will listen and obey, and they will do and believe things you didn't think you'd be able to make them do or believe, with just your mind and your words. And it will be hot as hell.
The thing they never tell you about 'in sickness and in health' is 'sometimes, it's a chronic autoimmune issue, and when it really gets cooking it's going to render your partner completely disabled for days at a time'. It makes life difficult in a whole new way, one that you can't really prepare for until it happens.
But that doesn't change a goddamn thing. It just means that you love her even more, you help her find ways to do what she can to help out (remember, for the disabled person they get to feel not only the pain/sickness, but all the guilt our society has trained into them for not working).
And when she's up for sex? You make sure she cums as many times as she can stand. Then maybe one or two more.
