#aboblog

An omega that lifts and is head-strong just as in comparison to 'regular' alpha's. They find themselves as a pack leader taking care of both alpha's, beta's, omega's, no one questioning the position.

The pack is diverse as alpha's mate with alpha's and omega's with omega's, some even mingling into three-way poly's, including people from other packs close to territory.

Omega's courting a potential alpha or beta mate, giving them flowers, catching food, asking them on dates, sending them good morning and good night texts, giving them coats/hoodies and other various items of their own. Communication is the biggest key, however.

The alpha's and beta's with omega mates using their nest and scent just as an omega would to calm themselves, rest up, or to help during a rut. An emotional support/safe haven. Sometimes made inside a den to make the alpha's more comfortable.

The beta's and alpha's and few lower ranking omega's staying back and taking care of the pups whilst the higher and stronger ranking omega's go out for food or to guard territory.

Pheromones of omega's and beta's are more dark overpowering and alluring, scaring off anyone unknown wolves or pack's and breaking out rut's in alpha's that are more flowery, calm, relaxed and less sensible to other wolves snouts.

Alpha's wearing collars to show off they are taken, the collar matching their fur in wolf form and/or flashing the rank to lure in possible mates from both their pack and others allies beside their large region.

As someone who loved hybrids for years, wrote stories based on them and praised them beyond belief, you could imagine the surprise it was for me to find ABO for the first time. 

                                                FINDING ALPHA  

Most of the people I know found omegaverse through some sort of fanfiction, I’m no stranger to that. I’ve been roleplaying for around 8 years now and most of my muses are in the omegaverse world in some way, I experimented with it, learned it, and found myself falling in deeper than how I would as a writer. I was both surprised and dumbfounded when my brain sort of.. switched? Kind of like when you hang around someone for too long and start using their lingo. While someone’s mind might say “girl.” mine might say “omega.” (not stereotyping though, I am a women alpha after all.) 

Around this time, months after being dragged down this hole, I met a girl, she had no idea what A/B/O was nor what it merely stood for, needless to say, she fell into pretty quickly along my side. I was someone literally horrified of being ‘unnormal’ and wanting to be an alpha out in the real world, not just a mere thing I roleplayed was pretty scary. Can you believe I cried over it? I felt like a child. There was one thing that stuck with me even til’ this day that she told me, “Your normal might not be someone else’s.” That was the moment I accepted it, and somewhere along the way she had too. 

This is my daily life now, being in a constant a/b/o state is completely normal to me and I have no shame with it. I found my mate almost a year ago and we’re now in a pack together, I have a lot of confidence in calling myself a pack alpha, as someone who would do anything for the people in my life under my guard. 

                                         IRL ABO SUBSTITUTES 

Nesting: I’ve found myself liking to nest more with sheets and bed arrangements as it’s the place I’m most comfortable, this isn’t different from your regular readings aside from what you feel you should use and where. Normally, I don’t realize I’m in a nest til’ my sheets and pillows are suddenly around me like a bird’s nest and I’m as snuggly as a bug. This happens usually when I’m sleeping alone, having a bad day, about to start my ‘heat’ and transitioning into my period. I could also imagine it being more frequent if being pregnant or trying to. In addition, having someone whom’s close to you’ clothing items either on you or around you might also help. (A mate, family member, friend, etc.) 

Heat/Rut: For heat’s and ruts for women I would say this would start before your monthly. Keep in mind, you have your period because you’re not pregnant. Speaking more so for myself (as I have been), I get pre-period cramps and cumming always helps relax. This is also around the time most women start ovulating. 

!  IF YOU ARE A MALE WHO IDENTIFIES AS A ALPHA OR OMEGA AND EXPERIENCES THE SAME THINGS PLEASE HELP ME AND OTHERS UNDERSTAND YOUR CLOSEST EQUIVALENT TO A RUT/HEAT ! 

Knots: This can be pretty self explanatory, as humans can’t physically knot but there are plenty of knotting dildo’s online marketing from around $10-30, this can take a toll on someone’s body but with plenty practice and prepping I say go for it, no harm no foul! Don’t forget lube. 

Mating: In omegaverse, mating is normally done when one partner is in a heat or rut. They use their K-nines to bite into their mating gland and truthfully, even in lust it’s pretty painful. Human’s don’t have sharp teeth nor any gland of that type, which is why I have thought of ways to do so.

Hickey’s. It’s unlikely they go unnoticed but isn’t that the point? To show off you’re taken? Keep in mind if done on neck multiple times, it shouldn’t be the same spot over and over as they can cause damage. 

Collars. I have found collars to be both a blessing and a curse. It’s the less subtle way to show your mate off, most people won’t bat an eyelash and think it’s a mere fashion piece. If having picked a color your wolf would be, I recommend finding a color of that color! 

Biting. This is the more traditional way and it’s most likely gonna hurt like a bitch but, if you’re careful in placement and aftercare, scarring can occur. There will be blood, but this isn’t something to freak out over, even in omegaverse it’s normal for bleeding to occur for both alpha’s, beta’s, and omega’s. Again; don’t be careless. Do your research and be careful of placement. 

Dynamics: Finding whether you’re an alpha, beta or omega (perhaps even a sigma; combination of all three) could be as easy as tying your shoelaces, or as hard as carving a pumpkin (spoopy season is coming soon folks), but it’s okay if you can or can’t figure it out. There isn’t one thing that can prove you’re an omega, beta, or alpha. Most would say more dominant people would be alpha, switches beta’s, and subby/small omega’s but there are also power bottom’s, power tops, asexual’s and everything in between. This was something I struggled with heavily but I can promise, you’ll figure it out at the right time. Patience is key. Let it come to you. 

I know it’s not a lot, but thank you for 20 followers! A/B/O has become an important thing in my life over the past year and knowing people like my take on it makes me content. 

In the meanwhile of waiting on my next posts, here’s some pics of pretty wolves~ 

It’s not official alpha day (which is August 14th) but, I’d like to thank all the alphas out there that treat every wolf as equal to them, that respects, serves, is good at heart. All the alphas that seem mean but would do anything for you, and the million I could spend forever typing out in various details. The real MVP’s.

I’d die for most of you tbh

AS PUPS/GROWING UP:

You can tell right out of the womb whether the pup will be alpha, beta, or omega. Their scent may not be as strong at this age leading up to the stage of sexual orientation and growing out of being a pup, yet it’s distinct and you’re able to tell easily if they belong to pack or not. A pup’s instinct will be shown but it will not profit hugely as this will grow the more they do and be fully aged outside of their rut or heat. The snout won’t pick up scents as much but they aren’t muted, nor will they be able to mate or court or be courted until properly aged. Betas may have no scent at all until somewhere between the ages of 16-20 when they may also be mated/mate. During this time, a pack will teach the pup slowly and surely how to hunt or take care of the rest of the pack while alphas or betas may be away for a long period of time. 

BECOMING AN ADULT/FULLY GROWN WOLF: 

Omegas usually begin with a pre-heat, their body will break out into sweats and a small ache in their lower stomach and back will occur for a few days until leading up to the actual heat while also nesting during this time. Heats last 3-6 days and the first heat is the hardest. With or without someone there by their side, they will leak an amazing amount of slick (the bodies natural lubrication)  and no one will be able to satiate them completely, and they will get very small amounts of rest in this process. The pack or whomever is with them shall make sure they are hydrated and fed when possible, though most may find it better to eat before and after, their stomach unable to keep the food down with the fever. 

Alphas ruts are different in the ways of not hurting as much, but having the urge to dominant and knot (When the base of the penis grows into what looks like small balloons to lock into their mate and breed them for 15 minutes or all the way up to an hour) multiple times with or without someone. Ruts happen once a year and last up to 3-5 days. When the first rut occurs it is best to stay away, the wolf may find it hard to hold back and may make the person submit harshly and perhaps attack with the thought of you coming for it’s mate. On other terms, they can easily manipulate omegas and trigger their heats to breed and mate. The pheromones can smell sweet and inviting to betas but they don’t feel as strong of an urge, just minimized arousal unless it’s their mate. 

Betas do not have a heat nor a rut as they are unable to bear children and impregnate another wolf. In the time of becoming a wolf, betas decide in a pack if they are one with alphas, or omegas. Some packs may find it best to teach betas both ways in case of a dead winter or protecting their territory. They grow stronger and their sense of smell picks up a heavy amount but does not become overwhelming as it may be with newly presented alphas and omegas. 

Every wolf has a ranking of some sort, this concludes where they stand in packs, in families, how to tend to mates, and how they obey. 

Alphas <-- Betas <-- Omegas 

A/B/O was originated from Supernatural, written as a fanfiction and spread everywhere in year 2010. It was set alphas were dominant, knotted, bred and mated omegas or betas (though betas cannot be impregnated) while having a rut once a year, fed their pack, protected it, and arguably held it together. They are the more aggressive wolf, and have the ability to make lower rankings submit. They can use their ‘alpha voice’ on omegas, which puts the smaller wolf into a trance to obey whatever the alpha commands. This doesn’t work on betas. 

Betas have two forms. A rare amount have the ability to use their pheromones to manipulate an omegas feelings and to help calm. They help stabilize packs from all the hovering pheromones going around from the alphas and omegas, and tend to have a clearer mind. They tend to be a switch, and can take on the rolls of protecting or staying back and taking care of pups. A beta’s scent is not as strong however, and they don’t go through a heat nor a rut. They also are unable to produce slick and may only mate once. 

Omegas are more submissive, and normally submit to alphas while also listening to betas of higher ranking. They are forced into a heat every 3-6 months, two to three times a year to mate, and are breeded the pups of an alpha. After mating, a heat is more bearable, and they aren’t at a higher risk of possibly dying due to the fever being too much on their bodies. The pack naturally feeds and takes care of omegas first since they are relied upon helping wounded members, building packs by having pups, and staying home whilst the alphas and betas are gone to protect their own liter(s). 

Sigmas weren’t, and mostly aren’t, known and tend to be extremely rare. They are the sum of alphas, betas, and omegas. They have the instincts of all, and can take on any roll they see fit for themselves. Depending on what their mate is, they decide what ranking they should be, and how they may act. They are able to knot and bare children, but do not go through a heat nor a rut just like a beta, and their scents are a bit more muted yet still able to lure in mates and calm other rankings. 

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