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ᴛʜᴇᴀ  ᴍᴇᴀɴꜱ ɢᴏᴅᴅᴇꜱꜱ ᴀɴᴅ ɢɪꜰᴛ ꜰʀᴏᴍ ɢᴏᴅ ɪᴛ’ꜱ ᴠᴇʀʏ ᴜɴᴜꜱᴜᴀʟ, ᴛʜᴇʏ ꜱᴀʏ ɪᴛ’ꜱ ᴏᴅᴅ ꜰᴏʀ ᴍᴇ ɪᴛ’ꜱ ᴜɴɪQᴜᴇ, ᴄʜᴀʀᴍɪɴɢ ᴀɴᴅ ꜱᴡᴇᴇᴛ ꜰʟᴀᴛᴛᴇʀɪɴɢ, ɪᴛ ɪꜱ ᴀɴᴅ ᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴏᴜꜱ ʟɪᴋᴇ ᴀ ᴛʀᴇᴀᴛ

ɪ’ᴍ ᴜɴᴘʀᴇᴅɪᴄᴛᴀʙʟᴇ, ꜱᴏᴍᴇᴛɪᴍᴇꜱ ᴍɪꜱᴜɴᴅᴇʀꜱᴛᴏᴏᴅ ᴠᴇʀʏ ꜱᴘᴏɴᴛᴀɴᴇᴏᴜꜱ, ᴀɴᴅ ꜱʟɪɢʜᴛʟʏ ᴀʙꜱᴜʀᴅ ɪ ᴍᴀʏ ʙᴇ ʜᴀʀᴅ ᴛᴏ ᴘʟᴇᴀꜱᴇ, ʙᴜᴛ ᴛʀᴜꜱᴛ ᴍᴇ ɪ’ᴍ ɴᴏᴛ ᴍʏ ʜᴀᴘᴘɪɴᴇꜱꜱ ɪꜱ ꜱʜᴀʟʟᴏᴡ, ᴊᴜꜱᴛ ꜱʜᴏᴡ ᴍᴇ ᴡʜᴀᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ɢᴏᴛ

ɪ ʟᴏᴠᴇ ᴅᴀɴᴄɪɴɢ, ᴛʜᴇ ꜱᴀᴍᴇ ᴡɪᴛʜ ꜱɪɴɢɪɴɢ ɪ ᴘʟᴀʏ ɪɴꜱᴛʀᴜᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ, ᴀɴᴅ ᴅᴏ ʟɪᴛᴛʟᴇ ᴅʀᴀᴡɪɴɢꜱ ᴛʜᴇꜱᴇ ᴀʀᴇ ᴛᴀʟᴇɴᴛꜱ, ɪ ʙᴇʟɪᴇᴠᴇ ɪ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ɪ’ᴍ ᴀʟᴡᴀʏꜱ ᴘʀᴏᴜᴅ ꜰᴏʀ ᴛʜᴇʏ’ʀᴇ ɢɪꜰᴛ ꜰʀᴏᴍ ᴀʙᴏᴠᴇ

ᴍʏ ᴘᴏᴇᴍ ɪꜱ ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ ᴛᴏ ᴇɴᴅ, ɪ ᴅᴏɴ’ᴛ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ᴡʜᴀᴛ ᴇʟꜱᴇ ᴛᴏ ꜱᴀʏ ɪꜰ ʏᴏᴜ ᴡᴀɴᴛ ᴛᴏ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ᴍᴏʀᴇ, ꜱʟɪᴅᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴍʏ ᴅᴍꜱ ᴀɴᴅ ʟᴇᴀᴠᴇ ᴀ ‘ʜᴇʏ’ ᴡʜᴀᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ꜱᴇᴇ ɪꜱ ᴡʜᴀᴛ ᴛᴏ ɢᴇᴛ, ꜱᴀʏꜱ ɪɴ ᴀ ꜱᴏɴɢ ꜰᴏʀ ᴍᴇ ɪᴛ’ꜱ ᴀ ɴᴏ, ᴛʀʏ ᴍᴇ ɪ’ʟʟ ᴘʀᴏᴠᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ᴡʀᴏɴɢ

“𝙄𝙣 𝙤𝙧𝙙𝙚𝙧 𝙩𝙤 𝙗𝙚 𝙞𝙧𝙧𝙚𝙥𝙡𝙖𝙘𝙚𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚 𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙢𝙪𝙨𝙩 𝙖𝙡𝙬𝙖𝙮𝙨 𝙗𝙚 𝙙𝙞𝙛𝙛𝙚𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙩.” - 𝘾𝙤𝙘𝙤 𝘾𝙝𝙖𝙣𝙚𝙡

“We live in a society that teaches women to be careful not to get raped instead of teaching men not to rape.”

Rape Culture is an environment in which rape is prevalent and sexual violence against women is normalized and excused in the media and popular culture. Most women limit their behavior because of the existence of rape. A lot of women are living in fear because of it. Objectifying the women’s bodies, cat-calling, getting grope, sexual jokes, sexual assault are one of the things that women and men are experiencing this nowadays. Many people are blaming the victims instead of teaching men not to rape. They tell us that women must not wear revealing clothes, women must speak for themselves, women must not associate with men, women must know their limitations. Wherein fact that it is not the fault of the victim if she/he is raped. Because of that, a lot of women and men are traumatized because of the rape culture. They are afraid to speak up because of what society is telling us. It gives a negative impact to the victims.

WE MUST NOT:

- Blame the victim

- Make sexual jokes/rape jokes

- Objectify the women and men’s bodies

- Cat-calling

- Blame the victims clothes

- Trivializing sexual assault

- Stop tolerating your friends if she/he raped someone

We must end this rape culture because it is not good for our society that some people are blaming the victim instead of blaming the rapist. We must imprint in our brains that rape exists because of the rapist not because of someone's clothing. If she/he says no it means no.

This is me; Jon Rodney Ramirez

A boy who doesn’t believe in himself, lacks confidence, and scared of what others will say. Things he fears that now turned into a motivation.

I thought I can please all the people I come across to. I have come to the point where people left me because of my mistakes. That’s where I thought that you should be perfect so people could love and stay for you. Until I realize that you should accept yourself before other people could accept you. I have learned to accept myself because I know I have abilities that other people can’t do. I’m unique in my own eyes. It’s right to have high confidence. If you hear some people talking nonsense about you, take it as a complimenting or motivation. If you’re not confident on who you are, start accepting yourself today. No one can ever compare to you, we’re unique in our own way. Love yourself because you’re the only one who can love yourself and know yourself.

Keep your chin up and smile, it looks good on you. 

                           Rodney Ramirez

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// From a middle-eastern kid grew up and studied half of the years in Doha, Qatar and yes, i'm the one.

• What's up bloggers!! i'm Hariet Monares; they normally called me "Hariet" or "Har" but seriously you can call me anything you want — but of course a decent:)

I'm currently attending University of Perpetual Help System Dalta-Molino campus within 4 years of studying here. 17th of age & I have a passion to be a Cabin Crew and Musical Theatre which i'm hoping to pursue it as a career. Introvert person but I can go along with extroverted person. My impact of my hobbies as the passion of dance, sing and act. It gives me joy and confident for what gifts that I have. lasty, I'm a family goal oriented in that we are very religious & silly and can be fun if we agree at some point.:)

I was born & raised in this town called DOHA, QATAR which it gives me so much memories that every childhood that i've been, i will forever cherish it. I studied my entire whole childhood at PHILIPPINE SCHOOL OF DOHA and AMERICAN SCHOOL OF DOHA. I remember one time... I was 6 years old dancing to Ne-yo's songs and mom was filming it & she be kinda like.. "YAS HONEY! YOU FLEW THAT WIG." and basically it really gained me more confidence within my ownself!! — When I was born i'm part of the religious community named:: "MISSIONARY FAMILY OF CHRIST" it's an organization of Catholic Religion which gathers worshiping God and families that will brought closer to him. Proud to say that I am a consistent servant because I still serve in him. Here's one of my my favorite quotes that I believed he will do anything that I surrender.

"Casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you. — 1 Peter 5:7."

Around 2014, I became part of the Sacristan or Altar Server in Doha and I have so many encountered throughout my service as a servant of him, made so many friends of course from different countries and nationalities must admit, it was really fun to have people who will never leave a leaf of memories but instead, as if the trees are meant be grow as it parted with. In times... so many blessings I have experienced:: Musical theatre play and casted in the play in Cinderella and it was a blast for having me there as a part. I started joining pageants that will I forever cherish it :)

Here's a song that i can barely relate sang & wrote by my favorite member of the boyband One Direction named, Harry Styles. relatable and accurate that I, myself is a sweet creature because myself know how humbled in all aspects & I am very sweet like candy <333

As my journey begins at my recent school is that, I achieved for what my passion is. in 10th grade, I was in a cast of musical play "The wizard of Oz" and I became Glinda to specified. I became choir in a seminary last 2 years ago as well joined so many activities because I have a purpose in this society and I am an advocate to those who felt uneedy and worthless, God is within us!!! •

As I transfer here in Philippines so many opportunities to take in to myself. So many realizations to become for what I have as educated, well-mannered successful course that I wish to be. the persistent decisions, the failures I made, for all struggles for what I have now.. soon as it proccess, my blessings ate gonna rain cats and dogs that I, myself will only achieve it. Thank you to all my friends out there for non-stop supporting me. i love you all.

— all the love. xo

And then the girl sighed, an action of disappointment. Pondering over drivel thought whether the universe failed her tonight or she failed to be one with the universe. Despite that, she continues. She continues to roam through the empty garden as sophisticated flowers bloom free. The sky was pastel pink married to a poetry of purple and clouds.  She's filled with heavenly softness, not giving any single care if she's alone or not. Independence speaks to her like the melodies of the wind. It doesn't matter whether it's day or night, doesn't matter whether the stars choose to shine or not- because no matter what, she will.

— With always love, Lene.

Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.

-Marilyn Monroe ⚡

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Hi! Im Zedrick L. Ogayre 17 years old born in the province of Marinduque or “The Heart of the Philippines.” 🇵🇭 because of its heart shape. Marinduque is mainly known because of its Moriones Festival, a week-long lenten event. But now I currently live in Bacoor Cavite with my parents and two other siblings 👩‍👦‍👦👨‍👧...

My Hobbies are:

- listening music 🎶

- watching movies/series (anime,k-drama )🎥

- Baking Desserts 🍪🧁🍮

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Pretty Good Is Not Enough, I Wanna Be Great. - Cristina Yang