#aaah help

im convinced a "healthy relationship" is just being best friends that kiss.

The line between romantic love and platonic love is so blurry that if I feel platonic love for someone I'd think it was romantic love.

I dont get the point of dating someone because technically,normal "couple things" can also be done by best friends

Cuddling,hand holding,going to eat dinner together....

Kissing can be done by friends with benefits,sex can also be done by fwb

And almost all of those seem like healthy relationships even when they aren't really dating

Its almost as if staying best friends is the better option than dating because in the end of most relationships are heart break

Romantic Love is such a complex thing that it cannot simply be classified as just wanting to be with someone

Even if someone tried to explain to me what romantic love feels like, I don't know if I'll ever truly know the feeling

Im not necessarily saying that I think I'll be alone forever,what I mean is that I feel as if that even if I got into a relationship I'd probably still be confused about the meaning or feeling of romantic love

Romantic love isn't just simply wanting to be with someone/date someone

Its so much more than that and I hate it,I hate the fact that I can't figure out something that seems so simple!

Its so unfair and frustrating that most people seem to understand it more than me...

I just want to understand....Why is that so hard for me?

Yeeaahhh.....uhm

Captain Hook

Oy, what's all this then?? You're feeling insecure about your amazing self??? Not if he has anything to say about it.

Hook knows a thing or two about being self conscious, so he understands where you're coming from.

With that being said, this man will make it his personal mission to get rid of those thoughts for you. Even if it's only temporary. Whatever it takes to have you feel better about yourself.

He'll do nothing but shower you in appreciation and affection. Hook will treat you to a nice dinner, the two of you alone with each other. Afterwards, he'll take you into his study and worship every part of you if you let him. He'll start by peppering light gentle kisses up your arm.

He tells you how wonderful you are in every form you take. That all of the things you see as imperfections is a lovely work of art in his eyes. He'll go to hell and back for you, be there with you on your good and bad days like you are for him.

He says no matter what, he is one lucky man to have you in his life. And everyday he thanks whatever higher power granted him such a miracle.

Because that's what you are to him. A divine miracle too good to be true. One that deserves to be cherished and loved.

Dr Facilier

Hoo boy, this guy definitely has a way with words andotherthingstoo. What's that, darling? Those thoughts plaguing your pretty little head again? Well then, just relax and let the doctor handle everything.

Facilier is a good listener when it comes to these kinds of things. He literally makes a living off of analyzing people's problems. So leave it to him to take care of you.

He'll postpone his next "appointments" to focuse on you for the rest of the day. He may be a busy man, but your well-being will always come first.

Doc will make the rest of the evening a nice one. He'll take you for a stroll around town, listening to the beautiful music as it echoes into the night. He'll take your hand and ask you to dance with him, just slowly swaying with each other as the music drowns everything out. He holds you close while kissing your neck and starts telling you how much you mean to him.

In his soothing voice, he tells you how important you are to him. He tells you that no matter how you feel about yourself, he thinks you're perfect in every way.

He'll do anything to make your dreams come true. That despite everything, you're the only good thing to show up into his life.