Hey I was just wondering if you’d be doing Lilith in the 6th house soon? I love how in depth your analysis of different placements are xx
I'm sorry for being so MIA with the Lilith series can you guys believe it took me 2 months to finally finish it😀 Haha but now that we're done with that, lets talk Lilith 6th house, the last and final post to my Lilith in the houses series;)
🏹Lilith in the 6th house🏹
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The 6th house, the house of Virgo, ruled by the intellectual planet Mercury, this is where we start to welcome other people into our worldview. What we're able to offer of ourselves determines how we handle our interaction with the outside world.
While the 1st house to the 5th house focus a great deal on the theme of self and our identities, the 6H branches out our perspective and open us to a world where we no longer just live for ourselves but also for others. An underrated house, the 6th house is often overlooked due to how mundane and real it is.
Not flashy and fun or full of childishness like the 5fth house, not overly idealistic and futuristic like the 11th house, the 6th house is crucial to us as earthly beings. From our routine, day-to-day duties – chores, responsibilities, and paying attention to the smallest of details. The 6th house talks a lot about integrating the resources we have in our 1st to 5H to further give back to the community.
Lilith, being ruled by elemental air, quickly adapts to 6H's perfectionist nature and more often than not, Lilith herself is already demanding, and as she enters this house, here we have natives with a deep need for perfection and unimaginably high expectations. Personally, I consider this house to be one of the hardest placement to have Lilith in, perhaps only second to the 4H Lilith natives.
The 6H doesn't only talk about work. It also talks about one's hygiene and wellness. There's a sense of obsession and obsessive patterns here when it comes to one's health. These native more often than not can have some issues regarding to their health. They can have certain allergies or restrictions within their diet or daily habits. 6H Lilith natives may also have issues down there at the abdomen, as the 6H also rules over this.
tw: eating disorders. I have been observing a pattern of natives with 6H Lilith to have a complex relationship with food. Yet not a lot of astrologers have talked about this, but a lot of the times, perhaps this stems from the individuals' restrictive childhood, 6H Lilith people may be prone to binging or excessive dieting. The 6th house also discusses a lot about diet and where one might find comfort in. These people when younger could have had a complicated experience with food where they find themselves indulge in it at one moment to fill up the emptiness from within, but the come down they experienced afterwards is unmatched and at the end, fuel their already scarred minds more.
A lot of natives with this placement have a hidden need to repair and save people. Perhaps this happens due to their childhood. When they were younger, they constantly find themselves in positions where they have to be the provider, the savior or even the giver. They give and give and give until they can not anymore as they're completely burned out. Earlier in their lives, they can't help but wonder why is it that they always feel this need to serve? To be useful to others? And why is it that theres always this air of inferiority around them and they can't get the respect they deserve?
As they grow up, a lot of 6H Lilith natives reject this side of them. A lot of them can come off as cold, detached and entitled to people intentionally as they fear once they let others in and they recognize their sacrificing nature, nothing good will come out of it and they, will always end up being used and drained and left behind.
!tw!! abuse&r*pe. as children, these individuals could have been abused by aunts and uncles or their father's relatives. these are all the themes which 6H Lilith rules over.
Individuals with this placement may have such a complicated relationship with death as well. Growing up, a death of a grandparent figure, a death of an important friend or an animal or a sibling/relatives may have severely affected these people. They witness close and familiar parts of their everyday life being ripped away all of the sudden and this in turns create a hidden fear of abandonment deep down everyone of them. It is as if when things are too good, they constantly feel the need to be prepared for the worst.
In their normal life, here we have people who either refuse to conform to a normal, mundane life and give into a more Lilith way of living or we have someone who are so prone to overworking themselves and perhaps even other on their bad days. They make the strictest bosses who have such big dreams and aspirations.
The standards these people hold themselves against is unimaginable. They don't want perfection, they demand it. They see things with a keen eyes and they want to perfect the smallest of details. The feeling of being in control is what keeps them stable. Lilith here don't work for power or recognition like 10H Lilith, nor do they work for resources and monetary benefits like 2H Lilith, they work because thats what they do best, they work because it is only then can they have the rare peace of mind, they work because it is work that keep them sane.
These individuals also might have a pretty intense relationships with their coworkers or employees. Prone to an office romance, theres always this sexual tension between them and the people they work with. While they know they have to keep it professional, their seductive nature seems to always tempts their colleagues. Must be extremely careful not to let people pressure them into sexual favours at work. They experience a lot of offers from higher ups for a chance of promotion in exchange for a night with them.
Naturally captivating, a bit mysterious and will always have an air of bewitching beauty to them, they can be seen as the black sheep at their workplace or someone who's inherently stand out amongst an institution.
They're actually healers and are compassionate people deep down. Under their somber facade, we have here soft-hearted individuals who live to serve and protect others.
It wouldn't be surprising to see these people question our mundane life. As they do their best trying to understand, the think the pure purpose of having a 9 to 5 job is nothing but enslavement. Some of the natives with this placement will challenge authority or goes against authority. Beneficial aspects can indicate that they can change the system, change what is considered normal and essential to our life.
A lot of them when younger were taught to follow their logic above all else. It can be very hard for these people to accept the emotional side of things. While they hate ignorance and entitlement above all else, they sometimes don't realize as they reject the emotional aspects of things, they themselves are becoming what they once despised.
They don't want sex. They need it. This is why I see a lot of 6H natives, once correctly made peace with their placement, can go on for hours and hours everyday without feeling tired or drained. Sex with them will make you crave it, sex with them is essential and crucial. They know it is one of the things that is just an everyday thing to them, so a lot of them could try their best to distract themselves and postpone having sex with their partner since when they start, they can't be stop.
May really dislike animals or may love them dearly and animals can be a big theme to their Lilith's development. I see a lot of Lilith in the 6H to be very spiritual in closet and love cats, while others simply HATE animals due to injuries caused by them when younger.
When they get sick, they get really sick. Prone to diseases that are hard to pinpoint and detect. Also I would like to point out how it is so common for these natives to have been wronged by medical practitioners, public health services or the armies.
May be very into BDSM, but more fixated in the idea of master and servant. They either love to be pleased or please others. Yet from my observations, they're often pleasers and are very sacrificing and giving in the bedroom.
A need to change and tame difficult people. As they face these outsiders, a part of them feel understood. They have this rebellious side of them that come out when others least expected it.
So this is the end to my Lilith in the houses series I can't believe I finally finish it🥲 I can move on to my Rising series now thank goodness ahaha. It has been a very fulfilling ride, I can't wait to look back in the future and say to people that yup my followers bombarded my submission everyday thats how I finish that series luv💀 jk i'm so grateful for you guys, thank you so much for supporting me since the very start<3
