#4seiji

well i WAS going to go look for fic...i don't know if i'm more angry at "silverette" because the word they're looking for is "platinum blond", or "ravenette" when "raven" is already in use, or fandom's insistence on -ette for dudes

(cont) or, y'know, hair color based epithets in the first place. why nitpick when i'm really annoyed by the whole status quo. 

Summary: “You got a family? Got a boyfriend? Cute boyfriend?” Finn wants everything out in the open. Rey's not sure what she wants, but it's not that.

Era: Post TFA

Asexual/Aromantic Character: Rey

Author: 4seiji (AO3)

Other Tags: Poe/Finn, Polyamory, Flight Jacket OT3

4seiji tagged me (thank you!), so I guess it’s my turn!

what was your

last drink : half of a Snapple lemon tea

last phone call : I butt-dialed my rp group’s dm, if that counts.  Otherwise, my cousin.

last text message : My dad, seeing if he knew why my mom was on breathing treatments during her last round of hospital stays.

last song listened to : A song about gravity on Bill Nye the Science Guy 

last time you cried : A few hours ago while visiting my mom at the hospital.

have you ever

dated someone twice : If you mean going on two dates with the same person, then no--I don’t really do ‘dates’ very often.  If you mean have I been in a romantic relationship with someone, broken up, then gotten back together again later on, then yes.

been cheated on : Sort of.

kissed someone and regretted it : Regret is a bit too strong a word

lost someone special : Of course

been/are depressed : I know for a fact I have been in the past.  I’m pretty sure I’ve gone through depressive times lately, but I’m too broke to get officially diagnosed again.  

been drunk and thrown up : I’ve been drunk but I’ve never thrown up because of it, although one time my friend copped to upping the alcohol in my drinks as the night went on and I made myself throw up for genuine fear of alcohol poisoning.

list 3 favorite colors : Purple, green, pink

in the last year have you -

made a new friend : Yes 

fallen out of love : No

laughed till you cried : Multiple times

meet someone who changed you : Nope

found out who your real friends are : Usually I read this as a very melodramatic, junior high sort of question, BUT I can actually and immediately answer it with a resounding “yes” this time, though it was technically a few weeks over a year ago.  Close enough.

found out someone was talking about you: Yes, sadly

kissed anyone on your FB list : Only in a familial way

general

how many people on your FB friends do you know IRL : On my Facebook account? Almost all of them. On Tumblr, only a tiny handful.

do you have any pets : One dog

do you want to change your name : No thanks

what did you do for your last birthday party: Ah ha ha, my last birthday (the big 30) was actually the first time I’d had a birthday party since fourth grade. My family, a few of my besties, and half the dudes in my RP group had lunch together at my favorite restaurant. It was actually really fun. 

what time did you wake up today : Woke up at about 5:30 in the morning, got a drink of water, went back to sleep and didn’t wake up again until about 1:30 pm

what were you doing at midnight last night : Sleeping

name something you CANNOT wait for : Making enough money to actually be able to put some into savings, or renting a place cheap enough to let me do the same.

last time you saw your mother : A couple of hours ago

what is one thing you would change about your life : My mom to be in good (or at least less horrible) health.  If that counts as changing her life rather than mine, then making/having more money or having fewer bills to pay.

what are you listening to rn : Bill Nye the Science Guy on Netflix (why isn’t this on the RN section, though?)

have you ever talked to a person named Tom : Yep, back when I was in high school, I think it was.

what’s getting on your nerves rn : Again, why isn’t this on the RN section?  Ugh. Anyways, the skin on my neck and over my collarbones feels too tight lately, for some super weird reason, and it’s bothering me a lot.

blood type : I have absolutely no idea, though I guess I should probably know that.

nicknames : Cicle (pronounced kick-ull), KiKi, Shad

relationship status : Happily single

zodiac sign : Pisces, Ox

pronouns : She/her

high school : Graduated

college : Also graduated (bachelor’s in English)

hair color : Eh, light brown I guess?

long or short : Long

height : 5′3.5″

do you have a crush on someone : Only the occasional celebrity (I almost never crush on people in my day to day life)

what do you like about yourself: My freckles

tattoos : None. MAYBE one day, in which case I’ll get either song lyrics (“chase the morning / yield for nothing”), or a WtNV quote (”we are eternal / we will not last”)

righty or lefty : Right-dominant bidextrous (but not AMBIdextrous, mind)

first surgery : I had my adenoids removed when I was a kid

first piercing : My ears were pierced when I was a baby, sometime before I was one. (They spontaneously closed up a couple months ago, so I have to get them done again eventually. The thought horrifies me.)

first best friend : Amanda

first sport you joined : Does marching band count?

rn

eating : Nothing

drinking : Water

i’m about : Brush my teeth and go to bed

listening to : White Collar on Netflix

waiting : For my mom to get out of the hospital and back to rehab--or even better, for her to get to go home. 

want kids : And why is this question under RN? No, no I don’t.

get married : I’ve got no real desire to get married, and given the fact that I don’t date either, I doubt it’ll ever happen. (I’m cool with that, as I feel like probably I’m demiromantic at best)

career : Are you asking what my job is right now? Because I have two: cashier and signing at Target, page at the local public library.

which is better

lips or eyes : Lips. I only ever notice eyes in closeup pics tbh

hugs or kisses : Definitely hugs.

shorter or taller : ???  Are we talking for romantic partners?  I mean, yes or no, it really doesn’t matter to me in the slightest.

older or younger : ??? Same age, give or take a couple years either way?

romantic or spontaneous : OH okay, we ARE talking romantic companions. Umm, neither. I genuinely prefer solid, regular, boring.

nose, stomach, or nice arms : What sort of random assortment of body parts is this?  Bleh.  Nose, probably. 

sensitive or loud : Why not both?  Such a silly question. To be fair I’d like sensitive, but I end up getting drawn to loud.

hook up or relationship: Relationship, as the whole ace thing rules hookups pointless.  

trouble maker or hesitant: UGH these questions are awful! I have no idea?!?

have you ever

kissed a stranger : Nope

drunk hard liquor : Several times

lost glasses/contacts : No, as I don’t have either, but I bet I’d lose them all the time if I did.

sex on first date : Definitely not.

broken someone’s heart : Not that I know of? Although apparently a girl I know crushed on me for years and never worked up the courage to ask me out, which I will never ever understand as I am SO not intimidating in even the slightest.

been arrested : I’ve been pulled over twice, but never arrested for anything.

turn someone down : Only a couple times. 

cried when someone died : Oh yes.

do you believe

in yourself : Sort of

miracles : Sort of again--I believe in chance but not like, divinely inspired happenings.

love at first sight : Nope

heaven : No, though I wish I did

kiss on the first date: I mean I don’t do it but hey, y’all knock yourselves out.

angels: Only the fictional ones

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