Something I just realized, Odysseus calls Telemachus by his name throughout Act I. Then when he get back to Ithaca, anytime he references Telemachus he calls him a familial title.
“… and hurt my boy”
“You plotted to kill my son”
“Son.”
“Oh my son look how much you’ve grown. Oh my boy, sweetest joy I’ve known.”
“My son I’m finally home!”
Then he calls his son by name while they embrace.
“Telemachus. I’m home.”
I just think it’s interesting. It’s like he’s reminding himself of what his son‘s name is throughout the Trojan War and his journey home.
When he gets back, he’s letting everyone know he’s claiming Telemachus, and reminding the suitors that Telemachus is his son, and he is Telemachus’ father.
Finally, the first time he calls Telemachus by his name, is after the two of them have rekindled their relationship. (I Can’t Help But Wonder is basically the two of them sharing how he views the other.)
