#1h lilith

NOTE: Do not take any of this personally, I am not a professional astrologer. I'm also mostly refering to the underdeveloped/immature versions of these placements. If the shoe fits, slay Cinderella, if not, congrats this isn't about you. PS I do not support misogyny!! Most mean girl archetypes are rooted in patriarchal views and villanising femininity, I'm just using these characters for fun and to base some of my observations on.

Aries placements Including 1h and mars. Known as the 'baby' of the zodiac, ruling the head, aries placents can often have an inflated sense of self, petty and childish tendencies. Because they are ruled by mars, they tend to be very easy to anger, argumentative and driven.

1h/aries mercury are straight to the point and will tell you what they really think without sparing your emotions. Will press your buttons just to rile you up and get a reaction out of you.

1h lilith + chiron placements can have have an unstable/toxic relationship with women and be extremely competitive with them. Can receive a lot of unwarranted negativity and jealousy from other women which in turn will make the native see other women as untrustworthy. (I have lilith in the 1h and I've noticed I tend to rub a lot of women the wrong way. My entire school experience was getting bullied and targeted by MULTIPLE women. I've also had to work through a LOT of internalised misogyny).

1h lilith + pluto will have an intense and heavy energy around them whether they like it or not. Command attention in every room. People will fear or respect you, most likely both. They crave power and don't care if they step on anyone along the way. Will get what they want, or else...

Leo placements including 5 house and sun. The stereotypical 'qeen b' sign. Can often struggle with extreme self esteem & self worth issues. When not worked on, they will project their feelings onto other people to regain a sense of power and control.

Narcissistic to overcompensate for what they think they lack in. Similar to Regina George, they will keep people around that they look down on to always feel on top and like theyre the star/ main character at all times. "She's the queen bee - the star, those other two are just her little workers."

They are ruled by the sun, so they feel like the centre of everyone's universe is their rightful place, they can't help it🤷. (Yes, I'm a leo, and what about it?)

Leo risings can have the typical 'mean girl' look. Attitude, confidence, great outfits and big/poofy hair. "That's why her hair is so big, it's full of secrets." Big Shelby Cummings energy.

When paired with aquarius placements, they can have an even more inflated ego. Theyre the two signs with the biggest god complex.

Virgo placements including 6h. The 'know-it-all' of the zodiac. Can come off as pedantic. Trying to outsmart anyone. Big emphasis on virgo mars and mercury.

When paired with leo placements, they can be self-righteous and very judgemental. "I'm just better than everyone" energy.

Scorpio placements can be as fierce as aries placements, as they are both ruled by mars in traditional astrology, but they will mostly keep it bottled up/hidden to maintain their mysteriousness.

Sun-pluto aspects can make an assertive and driven individual.

Scorpio/1h mercury: "So you agree, you think you're really pretty" energy. Calculating and manipulative. Will play mind games with you. Watching your every move. "Gretchen Wieners knows everybody's business, she knows everything about everyone." Like a cat playing with it's mouse.

Can come off as cold and rude at first regardless of their character (especially scorpio rising). But that's just their rbf. Unless you actually give them a reason to dislike you, then all hell freezes over.

Scorpio mars will become vindictive and spiteful. They hold onto grudges like no other. When vengefuly, they play the long game. WILL remember that time you made fun of their outfit when bumping into you 20 years later. Selective memory🙄.

Gemini placements including 3h and mercury. Stereotypically fake and two-faced. A social chameleon. Extremely charming and persuasive. Can have a tendency to lie and gossip like no other, they love the mental stimulation it gives them. They are ruled by mercury, the planet of communication after all.

Mars/Mercury in gemini or in the 3h love to argue for fun. Will start a verbal altercation just for the hell of it, if they're feeling particularly bored. Gemini-mercury placements will come up with the most creative insults lmao. "You put the "suck" in "liposuction" You put the "ooo" in "jiu-jitsu" You put the "ism" in "This is all just a defense mechanism". Truly a poet, they have a way with words.

Not easy to anger. Like they'll fight you but they don't actually care unless you really got to them. The type to make fun of you if you're really angry and riled up.

If paired with scorpio placements, girl........ They can really be scary is all I'm gonna say (and i hate to stroke people's ego's so this should say a lot).

Libra placements including 7h and venus. Ruled by venus the planet of love, and represented by the scales but don't let that fool you. When underdeveloped they can be highly superficial, shallow and fake. Love to gossip.

Libra rising look innocent and sweet, borderline angelic untill you past it and the mirage slips away~ Remember, biblically accurate angels are scary as hell. Can have the typical 'mean girl' aesthetic, very pink and feminine.

Libra mercury/ venus can be a sweet talker, very charming and persuasive.

Heavy moon aspects especially harsh moon-pluto and moon-mars. The 'mommy issues' placements (I'm sorry. Me too tho). Can become manipulative, fake, cold and detached. Can see women as the enemy and fail to make connections with them due to the maternal trauma they experienced. Have a hard time trusting other women.

Capricorn/10h placements can be dedicated and power hungry. Their workaholic tendencies, if mixed with more vindictive placements or character traits can make the person very ruthless. Goal oriented, focused on the bigger picture. Gets shit done, it's not their fault you were in their way. Big Blair Waldorf vibes! “Destiny is for losers. It’s just a stupid excuse to wait for things to happen instead of making them happen.”

“If you really want something, you don’t stop for anyone or anything until you get it.”

Yh you get my point.

Sagittarius placements are known to be brutally honest. Born without a filter, trust them to tell you the truth. Can come off as rude but usually without malicious intent. "What? I'm just being honest." Truth hurts sometimes.

Mercury-mars and mercury-pluto aspects (heavy on the mercury-mars) know exactly what to say to hurt someone. They can say some awful things in the heat of the moment and regret them afterwards. Their comments can really stick with you, they'll go right for the jugular with no hesitation.

*Remember, these are just for fun, based on my own research and observations. I'm not a professional, I don't know shit. There's no such thing as an evil sign, all placements have a dark side. It all depends on you and how you deal with your issues. I have like, a lot of these placements so I'm not targeting anyone*

~Jules💖

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Ofcourse!

As someone who had Lilith 7H, I have met (too) MANY Lilith in the 1st house people😆

Lilith in the 1st house🦇

1st house rules over the body, our physical appearance, our conscious sense of self and our focus in life. Having Lilith present here means the native literally embodies and exudes the truest form of Lilith.

Something about these people awaken others' sexuality. Whether it's good or bad depends on the aspects. Positive aspects indicate others admire, obsessed over these natives' darker energy and even dream about having sexual affairs with them. (TW!!) Negative aspects, esp towards Mars or Pluto can literally mean abusive encounters. Others yearn for their darkness and grow addicted to 1H Lilith people, disregarding Lilith's own intention and free will. It's so fucking sad sometimes.

These people once again, were not bullied when younger, but more like they received way more isolation(?) from people. 7H Lilith suffers as a child because they were criticized for their natural sexuality , mature energy but 1H Lilith simply feels as if they themself were rejected as a whole person. Not just a part of them.

Crippling anxiety, fears of abandonment can be a big theme. May have an extremely complicated relationships with sex, physical appearance, and personal expression.

Their mother/a parental figure may have been hard on them. This parental figure might have been extra harsh on 1H Lilith natives. They may have been shamed for their sexual preference, their sex life, their appearance and even how they come off by their own parents. Therefore, these natives sometimes feel "unlovable".

They tend to stay close to what they already knew pretty well rather than diving into the unknown. (but a part of them will always willing to go to the extreme)

DEFENSIVE. DONT CRITICIZE THEM FOR THEIR FEELINGS. be there for them only.

People literally want to fuck them. I'm so serious it's horrifying sometimes. People simply want to have a taste of them, to let their "darkeness" consume them even though there are no emotional attraction whatsoever . These people(Lilith 1H) are aware of this. They can subconsciously feel it or may have even experienced a good amount of incidents as such to realize this sad reality. This is why they tend to act very cold, detached and mean. They push people away. They like to test people because they need to know, do you people love them for who they are or just who they can be in bed.

It sounds very much like a joke but if these people want to be with someone for the long-term. They would hold off the sex. And they should. Let me elaborate, I've seen this happen so many times! This is their ultimate "test". Lilith 1H native would want to see how you're going to handle this, are you feelings for them deep enough to overcome your own primal need? If not, the door is wide open!

Sex with them will get you addicted. You've been warned. Especially when you're emotionally connected to them. You'll keep going back for more and more and more and at one point they'll slowly pull away as they fear you're using them for their bodies only.

Lilith in 1H can't help but struggle when it comes to self love. They spend so much nights turning and twisting their bed sheet wondering if they'll ever find someone who can love them, who is it that is their soulmate? This is especially true if you have Lilith in Libra 1H. They also attract a crazy amount of Pluto/Mars energy into their life.

A need to put on a facade. Growing up, they may have been told that they're only lovable when they act a certain way, or when they present themselves in a certain manner. They resent this yet fear finding out the real answer to whether or not it is true.

Rebels. Pure rebels at heart. Sometimes they just want to break all the rules. Break all the norms.

Developed placements may embrace the rebellious nature of Lilith. Think women who are not afraid of dying their armpits to "prove a point", or men who are not afraid of wearing dresses to go against societal norms. Simply want to send a big fuck you to the universe tbh. Activism can be a big theme. Real fighters when they believe in something.

No one understands pain and trauma like they do. Once they made peace with their Black Moon Lilith, they can become healers who send out guidance for people. Think retired alcoholics at your AA meeting:) I'm joking but not really.

Oh also may have a complex relationship with substance and drugs. They're sooooo prone to finding an "escape" when things get too stressful. This is especially true if the natives already have a lot of negative Neptune aspects in tight orbs!

Most likely to say something extremely mean and offensive but honestly didn't mean it, it was because of "the heat of the moment"

People with this placement all of have some kind of triggers. Not the "icks" but ones that would seriously get them raged up.

Tend to have darker hair or darker eyes. Looks like Scorpio Rising but less about physical appearance but rather more about their "aura".

That's all I can think of right now:) Again please take aspects into consideration for when reading these notes y'all!! Give your Lilith 1H friend a hug LOL

love,

Tired of the ego stroking ass modern astrology bullshit. Please don't get into astrology just because you want to hear good things about your placements/chart. Growth only happens through learning our flaws and challenges. (same goes for tarot tbh)