My Grandma is sick and i realized while talking to her that she doesn't plan to go into a retirement home anyday soon. I don't want to get rid of her, but if something happens there is somebody there who can do something and ahe doesn't have to wait until a family member comes by. I understand why she doesn't want to leave her flat, and there are a lot of horror stories about the employees at retirement homes....it's a complicated situation where i'm on both sides. We seperated Sheldon and Amy overnight. The Wife wasn't sure if they were fighting because there was no biting or aggressive behavior involved, but to her it seemed like Amy wanted to suffocate Sheldon. We'll put them together in the cage again tommorow as long as we are at home.