Once told some friends + our partner about something our parents did that irritated us and our partner was like "side eyeing your parents rn but considering you're a system, I feel like it's kinda warranted" and I mean yeah true they are the reason for most of our trauma but that also reminded us that our friends yknow. Care about us n stuff even though that's the whole point of being friends is for someone to care about us too? We sometimes literally need that beaten into our head because of most of our friends from childhood being more than kind of assholes to us before so. Yeah idk where I was going with this lmao just remembering things and realizing shit
















