#@sweetestfall

I'm really moody. But please don't be impatient with me. I never wanna lose you. I want you to be the first person to text me sweet morning messages and be the last one to call me late at night telling me how much you love me. I will surely have butterflies.

Convince me I’m worth it, make me feel like I’m enough for you. And please don’t leave like everyone else has.

All of you have ever experienced both loving and being loved. There have been many opinions about love. Some say it’s a feeling. Some say it’s a process in the brain. Some don’t even know. Some say love is not to be thought, it’s to be felt. And there could be many more of it.

Someone told me that love is a decision. He didn’t agree that love is a feeling, and other silly opinions. On the other side, I agree with him. Love isNOT just a feeling. In fact, the feelings are just side effects. But on the other side, I couldn’t understand what he meant with “decision”. I mean, come on! When was the last time we decide to love? Never! Right?

Did your parents decide to love you? No! They just loved you. Does a dog decide to love the puppy? You gotta be kidding me if you say “yes”. Animals don’t decide. Unlike humans, they can’t understand what decision is. So the answer is “No”. They don’t decide. They just love. 

And why is that? It is simply because God is Love! And with this, Love created us, human beings. Love created animals, the plants. It created a world where we can live together in. Haven’t you realized it? Why did It do all those things?

The decision is in the bond. You make decision whether you agree to be bound with your special someone or not. Marriage, that’s decision. Engagement, that’s decision. Being a priest, which means you decide not to marry, that’s also a decision!