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::( NPC Friends )::

::( This is Madgella (Apalla made her the nickname “Madge”) but she is one of the physically elderly people on the Mallow Helmn due to being half silver scabbardfish fishman. All things considered, I’d say she’s doing well for being around six-hundred years old! )::

::( She’s related to Apalla by blood, and is one of her more-distant aunts. Both Nova and Apalla look up to her quite a bit due to her experiences and being one of the few Hatooiens to have left the island and come back. )::

::( Munday )::

::( Well, things I’m bothered about usually change every day since it’s not common for me to hold onto something like that for a long time- unless it’s about myself/my behaviour tbh. )::

::( I have a bad habit of over-analyzing/diagnosing myself or other people. Ironically, that’s the biggest pet peeve I have with other folks too. 🤷 I guess that whole saying with hating the features that can be considered your worst traits is true in that sense. People are kind of inherently hypocritical in that sense. )::

::( There’s a specific kind of encounter that I think of that’s the thing that makes my brain just get up and leave. It’s when there’s this big “call-out” with a group of people on a discord/Skype server that’s essentially pointing out every little thing that someone has done wrong ever since they first met them (without ever having brought this up before and just sort of gossiping privately with other people about it until resentment starts to grow like weeds) so this is literally coming out of nowhere for the person being confronted. )::

::( Naturally, the person getting confronted by all this gets defensive and very upset about it and people take that as a sign that they’re “toxic” or “problematic” and vote them out of the club: But the real issue is that a bit prior these people decided they actually didn’t like this person, but because you’re “wrong” for not liking people they keep it bottled up but still look for examples or reasons to dislike them. The REALLY ironic thing is the fact that most of the reasons people find to kick that one person out are the exact behaviour that they’re displaying AS THEY KICK THEM OUT and there’s 0 awareness of it. It just gets me reeling. )::

::( As I’ve mentioned before, I’ve been on both sides of this coin loads of times. When I’m with the group pursuing someone I feel like an asshole because a part of me knows that it’s wrong and they’ve literally done nothing to warrant it, but yeah. When I’m the lone person on the other side of things, it fucks me up REALLY BAD for months, or even up to a year after. )::

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::( Unprompted Asks )::

“You bring hearts delight wherever you go- regardless of any alcohol in your system.” She smiled, holding back a laugh as she shook her head and sat up as well, pale hair following her movement sluggishly as if moving through water. 

“That is not something I would be opposed to, although I’d rather you be mostly-sober for the occasion.”

::( Munday )::

::( @despairforme said: [ 20. On 'popular' blogs. ] )::

::( To start with, everyone seems to have their different definition of “popular” when it comes to blogs. I don’t think it’s always accurate. )::

::( It really used to mess with my RSD a lot when I was new. Clearly, if the people I wanted to interact with didn’t talk to me then I was a terrible person with garbage characters and no one actually wants to spend time with me. I still struggle with those feelings a lot to this day, but things have gotten better in that I’ve stopped thinking of other people’s blogs as being “popular” or not- they’re just people that are more active/invested/enthusiastic! :> )::

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