#!psa

i’ll be tagging all valhalla posts/sets i reblog with ‘#valhalla spoilers’ in addition to ‘#valhalla’ beginning tomorrow (monday).

i’ll do this for a month or so, and then i’ll drop the ‘#valhalla spoilers’ tag.

i’m gonna say it, because you know i have to do it to ‘em:

- it’s not okay to vague post about people. even if you delete it once you calm down, this is a community; it’s not a place to run others off. 

- it’s not okay to engage in callout culture. it’s highly possible the person making the callout is a third party and only getting part of a story when they make their post. the person their post is about is getting hurt.

- it’s no one’s place to talk about someone out of character that they have never met nor have any inkling of the person behind the screen. if you can’t be bothered to get to know someone outside of their muse, you don’t have to follow them. you don’t have to engage with them, but you definitely shouldn’t be talking about them.

- taking actual time to get to know someone can be very helpful in a community. no, you don’t have to be everyone’s friend, but i’m a million percent sure if you take the chance to talk to the person you think you don’t like, you’ll see they’re probably nothing like the person you’ve made up in your mind.

- it’s not okay to play the victim when you’re told that something you did hurt someone else’s feelings.

- it’s not okay to talk about people you’ve never interacted with for the sake of being friends.

- it’s not okay to shame people for slow/selective responses.

made a new verse (hitmen au)!! not that neat but the pointers is all there, feel free to head to the verses page.

verse tag is #v; no use now

Why the FUCK IS MY DASH turning into the summer of 2012, again? Listen, everyone can have their own opinion on something and it doesn't make them a 'bad person'. To each their own.

What makes you a low (note I did not say bad. Because like I said to each their own) person is the childish way you handle it. Claim your words. Remember, what you say can HURT, and don't stick your nose where it doesn't belong.

Did you know the SPN, Marvel, and Walking Dead communities are considered the most unaccepting of all of tumblr RP?

Why is that? Ask yourself that.

STOP sending bullshit to your fellow rpers.

Just like them, you have an unfollow button.

Use it.

Y'all, we're better than this. Sending hate doesn't make you cool or get you noticed. It doesn't resolve an issue, but it does hurt the person you send it to.

Next time you consider anonymously sending hate, ask yourself: Would I say this to their face? Would I say this to anyone in my everyday? Would I tell someone I respect I did this?

If you answered no to any of those questions, don't do the fuckin thing.

Stop👏the👏stupid👏bullshit👏this👏is👏ridiculous.