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What exactly does make people feel lonely? Is it when they feel neglected by their parents or friends or perhaps their boyfriend or girlfriend? There can be a variety of things which make people feel lonely, sad or depressed. People deal with these issues differently, but I feel the worst way to deal with these issues is when you decide that the best way to not get hurt is to not attach yourself to someone or something to that extent, they become emotionally detached from the world. Its great for some time because it gives you a sense of comfort, it brings you a certain kind of numbness that helps you deal with it, not it isn't necessarily healthy but it is what it is. But what to do when you finally want to come out of that shell? When you want to share all your deepest darkest secrets with someone but you realise that even though you've made yourself available for people to come to you and tell all about their feelings, you don't feel comfortable doing that with anybody? All you’re left with are feelings that you can't seem to hold in but getting so detached that you don't know how to put them into words. And is there a feeling worse then when you realise that you feel like an outsider with your own family? 

"Fear doesn't stop death, it stops life."