You don’t have to think you’re hot but other people inevitably are going to so you at least need learn to accept that perception with grace instead of falling back on self deprecation every time someone is brave enough to call you cute
WRONG! ASEXUAL BEAM
I don't think self hating is the correct response, but I will instantaneously think;
If people tell me they find me attractive in any way. I don't hate them, I hate that they make me feel disgusting. I hate thate their first and only thoughts of me is "sex sex sex sex sex sex sex you owe me sex sex sex sex sex sex give me sex sex sex sex"
Oh okay cuz we were all wondering
I’m also ace and this is… a bizarre response
Not every person who thinks you’re cute wants to have sex with you. I’d argue most people who think you’re cute don’t want to have sex with you.
Ever been complimented by an old lady who likes your hair? Or a kid who thought your jacket was cool? It’s great
I think it might be helpful to unpack why this is your first instinct



















