terfs are biologically unlovable

So this is for any closeted trans people, whether you’re non-binary, ftm, or mtf.

If you’re closeted and you want a haircut, but can’t show a picture of the haircut you want without outing yourself, I AM HERE.

I will, for absolutely no cost whatsoever, photoshop a picture that you give me to look like your biological gender, while still retaining the original hair of the person. All that I ask is that you reblog this post to spread the word. Message  me the picture, and the gender you want it to look like, + any additional info.

Wind just moved to Colorado from Alabama after leaving her boyfriend. Her and her 6-year-old son were originally staying with a family member, but that quickly turned dangerous and abusive. They slept in our bed (in our bus) last night. While I don’t have a problem with the floor, I don’t think our school bus is the best place for a little boy to live. He asked to stay with us last night, so at least he feels safe.

Wind is so ready to get on with her life and get her little boy into their own apartment. Roy and I will help her get in touch with Colorado human services and the food bank and such on Monday and in the mean time, it would be really cool if they could stay in a motel room.

These are two really wonderful people that shouldn’t be in this situation.

If you can send anything to her cashapp, it would really help.

After her son woke up, Roy went to work keeping him busy with math, reading, and lots of rough housing.

Later today we’re gonna rearrange the bus a bit so Roy and I have more room on the floor and they can stay with us as long as they want/need to.

All the resource places open tomorrow, so Roy is taking the day off to make sure Wind can get around as much as she needs to.

We all have food right now, but we can always use gas money (paypal.me/roydieud)

Chrissi says:Unfortunately not my sweetpea…

Oestrogen does not alter your skeletal structure, unless taken pre puberty, and even then, if you have broad shoulders then it wont help you. I’m sorry lovely, there's a lot oestrogen can do, but it can’t do that… :(However, if they make you dysphoric, there are some things you can do to help with that.Here’s a Chrissi special top tips list peeps! ;

1. Emphasise your waist while balancing out your figure.

Think peplum, it cinches your waist but the flaring on the bottom balances out your shoulders. Also, omgosh pretty.

2. Avoid tops with detailing at the shoulders, or balance them out with volume on your lower half.

If you have a beautiful top with detail on the shoulder, pair it with a flowy skirt that balances out your shoulders and lower body.

3. Embrace the skater skirt, she’s your friend.

Skater skirts flare out to balance your lower body with your upper body, so even with a detailed top, proportions are balanced.

4. Yay to scoop and v-necks.

Wearing lower cut tops keeps the attention away from your shoulders, leading the eye down instead of from left to right.

5. Avoid structured shoulders and pads.

Shopping for the perfect blazer or jacket? Try finding one without structure or padding, or remove the pads for a sleeker look. If your favourite blazer or jacket is padded but awesome, pair with a flowy skirt or patterned pants to balance your lower half out.

6. Sport a long necklace.

Like v-neck tees, long necklaces bring the eye naturally downward.

7. Pair a dark top with light bottoms, creating the illusion of a narrower upper-half.

This doesn’t have to mean sticking to black on top and white on bottom, as long as the top is darker than the bottoms, your figure will appear more balanced.

8. When choosing tank tops and halter necks, the thicker the strap, the better.

The more material between the neck and shoulder, the smaller your shoulders will seem.

9. Know the types of tops that will accentuate the broadness of your shoulders.

Strapless and off-the-shoulder tops lead the eye to the shoulders, sometimes making them seem even wider than they naturally are. Avoid the extra attention by pairing one of these tops with a bottom that adds volume, or go for a full-bodied dress. Because sexy sexy sexy.

10. Make sure the seam lines on your shirts and jackets actually fall on the edge of your shoulder.

The seam lines on your shirts and jackets are made to fall on the edge of your shoulder, so if they’re anywhere closer in toward your neck, it will make your shoulders appear further extended.

11. Go for a diagonal cut sleeve, rather than horizontal.

Horizontal sleeves will add weight to your shoulders, while a diagonally cut sleeve will soften the area.

12. Choose jackets and cardigans that elongate your figure.

Cropped jackets look boxy, which can make your upper body look wide and short, accentuating your shoulders.

13. Sign yourself up for a drawer full of dolman sleeves.

A dolman top’s sleeve has a dropped seam and usually a wide top and narrow wrist opening. Due to the natural slouchiness of this garment and the dropped seam line, shoulders appear slouched downward, not outward.

14. Puffy sleeves, though cute as hell, will definitely draw eyes to your shoulders.

The puffiness extends the shoulder line and adds bulk to the top, so balance the perfect puffy-sleeved top with a patterned pair of bottoms or perhaps a skirt of a lighter colour than the top.

15. Invest in a kimono top.

The extra material in a kimono sleeve flares out past your shoulders to minimize them.

16. Choose dresses and tops with an empire line.

Empire lines cinch under the bust line, thus drawing attention to the smaller part of your torso rather than your shoulders. Dresses that are full and flared will give additional volume to your lower half, drawing the eye downward.

17. When sporting a collar or lapel, go for something thin and narrow.

For shirts and jackets: go collarless whenever possible to minimize attention to that area.For blazers: a narrow lapel will bring the attention down and in, whereas a wide lapel brings attention outward.

18. Trick an observer’s eye downward with detailed bottoms.

Embellished skirts or patterned pants paired with a plain top will bring the attention down low instead of up top. Ruffles, pleats, beading, lace, and patterns all fit the bill on this one.

19. If you’re going to wear skinny jeans, pair them with a plain top.

While glorious for boots weather, skinny jeans taper your lower body, making your top half look more voluminous. Pair with a v-neck tee or a top like the one above that draws attention downward and you’ll be good.

But honestly, do what works for you, girl.

Own it. Work it. Love it.

- do not spread the names/image of the shooter

do not give them any attention

do not glorify these types of people

and do not spread cynicism - you don’t sound clever you sound unfeeling, cold, inhuman

people are injured, dead and truamatized

this is not something to romanticize, fetishize,etc

One of my partners just broke up with an abusive partner, and is now seriously struggling to pay the bills. She took up camming to try to pay them, and she made enough to pay the bills, but her ID hasn’t come back from the DMV yet (its very overdue) and she can’t get her check until she verifies her identity. Her bills are due on September 1st. Thats only a week from now! Her credit is horrible because of student loans so her hands are pretty much tied. If she cant pay the bills she is going to end up homeless. Please help her if you can, she is so close to being in the clear and out of that bad situation.

Her Venmo is Autumn-VanSkyhawk

She needs a total of $650 to stay housed.

Another sister, a beautiful black queen lost to senseless violence. Ms. Sasha Garden was actually trying to make a difference in the community when her life was cut short, if you have anything at all please please donate so that she can have a proper burial. There has literally only been $530 donated so far, I know we can help out her family more.

just moved to a new apartment and spent almost everything I had left for the month on unexpected expenses like an extra day of renting a u-haul and having to buy take out, a new box spring that folds in half so we can get it through a very narrow hallway, and other basic but expensive stuff. I thought I had just been offered a job this month, but they gave conditional offers to more people than there were positions for and sent out training materials with no warning two days before I moved, so they filled all the spots before I could even get started. My gf is also disabled and makes $9 an hour part-time. We don’t have a car, savings, or much of a local support network, so this is pretty much our lifeline right now. If you have a couple bucks to spare please consider helping us get through the month, and anything helps! Aiming for a goal of $500.

paypal.me/helpjessicasurvive

paypal.me/amberisabellemorton

as i slowly come into my butch and nonbinary identity, i feel more and more comfortable in my own skin, and less and less comfortable in dresses. i want to give back to the trans community that i have joined this past year as i came out as nonbinary. dresses can be expensive and it can be hard to get a new wardrobe that makes you comfortable after realizing you’re trans, especially on a budget.

these are first-come-first-serve, no more than 2 per person, and you have to be comfortable giving out a mailing address so i know where to send them. no reblogs/likes necessary, just send an ask (or an IM if ur a mutual)

dresses & details of each one under the readmore!! there are 11 to start, i will remove them as they get claimed and edit this post appropriately once they are all gone. all dresses are either a women’s L or women’s XL.