destiny

i lied a bit, I do already sometimes think I'm cool. but as I've been thinking, I wanted to make a list of things I think cool girls do and they don't even know its cool.

saying I love you to friends without the friend needing to say it first or at all.

always creating and crafting things, even if you aren't good at it.

loving your hobbies loudly. I just love when I can see something and know that a friend of mine would LOVE that thing because they are proud of their hobbies.

always genuinely wanting what is better for you and those around you instead of it being a superficial way of being. like you ACTUALLY mean it when you say it.

being educated on things that are important to you and the world around you.

always having a candle lit, paired with having music on all the time.

sending cards and letters to loved ones

reading physical books (e readers are cool too in their own way)

having signature products that you know you'll always love instead of a billion you will never use, like the perfect everyday lipstick or a favorite kind of bedsheet set.

surrounding yourself with cool women in loving spaces instead of focusing on men and just romantic relationships in general

being the friend your other friends know they can count on at any time for anything is such a cool girl achievement to work for.