Is There Life Without Love?

So for as long as I’ve been an adult I’ve been in committed relationships. Never been single till now. I’ve always been polyamorous & I’ve always been criticized by other people telling me “it doesn’t work” well... it does. & if you argue it doesn’t take a step back & realize monogamy isn’t real. It’s an expectation.. we always sit there being loyal af because we think the other person wouldn’t ever do anything without you. But they do. They ALWAYS do & they always will. Maybe they just haven’t had the opportunity. When presented with the opportunity they take it. My friend who really trusts me asked me to do a favor for her. She asked me to try to fuck her bf when she’s not around to see if he says no. Well... he didn’t & in fact I barely had to talk he was very easy. Honestly before you judge... it is better being me, a trusted friend than him finding out he was with some random chick she DIDNT ask. Don’t you realize what I did? She now has a free pass to be with whoever she wants because I proved he couldn’t do it... so why should she? On top of that he was in complete ass kissing mode to her for a few weeks after. So in the long run I helped my friend & I learned that loyalty & monogamy is a bunch of bs so smile & do whatever the fuck too want. & whoever you want cause what would you rather it be? You have a say in who your bf/husband sleeps with or you tell him he can’t... so he can sleep with chicks you don’t know behind your back?