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y hasn’t anyone made a joke about how pot and pans go together, like it’s endemic

like I’m aware I may just be a little sensitive cause I’m not very outspoken, but I’ve blown up bcs of that so I’m trying to stay mindful of when it’s time for me to be a little defensive or more curious to how someone’s coming across instead of just letting things go. And I think being curious about why someone may be talking to me in a way is probably the best thing, and usually it’s comorbid and nothing truly personal, and it doesn’t always mean u have to talk it out…..but if it weighs on you…but if this also seems to be just how they come across regularly…like what…do i do

I hate having vengeance in my heart, but I hate it when someone’s personality just clashes with yours and there’s just nothing you can say without them thinking they’re a victim, cause they’re very opinionated and passionate and people take it the wrong way a lot of the time. Like I get it you’ve been disrespected often so you feel the need to be outspoken in a way that comes across either hostile or sounds like your mocking someone, I know u mean well so I just let it slide when it’s not a big deal, but that’s tough sometimes