Not Your Princess

i just found out some of my mutuals have blue eyes. this is sick. twisted. i am scared of you now

Tumblr attracts a lot of men who only understand dominance as a game, not as responsibility. They know how to write rough, but they don’t know how to hold someone safely. If you give yourself to someone who doesn’t grasp what psychological control really means, you’ll end up in something that isn’t BDSM, it’s boundary violation. And that leaves marks. Bad experiences don’t just kill your desire, they damage your trust, in others and in yourself. Once that’s gone, it takes a long time to rebuild. That’s why you need clarity, limits, and someone who actually knows what the hell they’re doing.

cockwarming while braiding her hair