Speaking of bad luck and trouble

Okay nevermind apparently map reading is not a common skill

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My former bass student is going to take my drum kit !

I think its natural to feel uncomfortable about seeing someone in pain and not being able to do anything to help. We naturally want to help people and help reduce their pain. Except sometimes there is no cure or immediate solution for someone else's pain. And so this feeling of distress and hopelessness will begin to build within them. So you might become overwhelmed and desperate to eliminate these sympathetic feelings. And I've found people will do anything to alleviate their own distress about someone else's suffering, frequently to the detriment of the sufferer's well being. Instead of just fucking accepting the discomfort.

Jakey and wm moved some of the furniture out of my room to help and to be perfectly honest if your idea of helping involves doing something without asking the other person first then I can't help feeling that you are assuaging your own feelings instead of genuine interest in helping the other person alleviate theirs