Sweet & Successful

Hey Gals, So yes big update. I'm on the train to work currently and I am tireddddd but life goes on. So my experience of sugar in the last couple years I've been doing it on and off are varied but for the most part, it is fucking hard. However recently I met a man who I'm gunna call Red purely because I find red a sexy name lol. Anyway, oh my gosh. I have fallen absolutely head over heels in love with him. He spoils me, pays lots of attention to me and is so so gorgeous. I genuinely could see myself with this guy long term. We initially met on SA with an agreed allowance of $6.5k a month and so far he's stuck to it. To be honest I would date him 'normally' but I have a lot of debt from a CUNT from SA so I'm paying that off and he knows that. He makes me feel so special and lovely. I'm hoping my luck has turned in and this is for keeps. Too early to tell but fingers crossed. I'm on and off Tumblr but this last week I've been catching up on posts. Now let's get one thing straight, I appreciate each girl plays a different hustle. However, I hate when I read 'gunna milk him for his money' etc. These are actual human beings and your success rate of getting that dollar will most likely be done through being nice to those that are willing to provide you with an allowance in some form. Milking him for his money is a short term thing and you're leading yourself to it ending abruptly. Respect your SD and great things will happen 😊

So as I said yesterday, I'm now seeing a guy and I am absolutely head over heels in love. I have no idea how my cold bitch heart has done this but it seems we are both in the same boat. He's still treating me as an SB whereby I get my allowance. I honestly want to have his babies...

Going to write a proper post soon but right now I am going to provide an overview. 1. Tumblr is unrealistic as fuck these days. Fake blogs left right and centre romanticising about cash and all the perks of Sugaring. Sugaring is shit, yes you have one good day where you're on top of the world but 6 days of hell. Why can't we just be honest on here? 2. Fallen in love with my SD. And he's fallen in love with me. Was not expecting this.

Hey, sorry for the late reply.So me experience is those guys that are genuinely serious about having an arrangement with you will bring it up first. Every guy that has made me feel awkward about it has ended up not showing the true goods. It's good he's doing ppm slightly but that isn't really what being an sb is about.Take it from someone who's wasted a lot of time waiting for the right time. Just ask. If he says no, move on - you're better than that. If he says yes, say yes.Just explain that being an sb you support each other and you'd like to be supported through an allowance to keep on top of your appearance as well achieve your goals (paying for college or something). A good SD will look after you. Hope this helps chick x

Why would he want you to send a selfie inside the bank? That screams money laundering. I personally would run a mile. Unless you have more info on why he's legit and just a bit weird?

A little confused because you say you've not gone on a date yet but you've met a pot? I'm assuming you mean online?Right now I'm in a lot of debt because of a conman pretending to be a sugar daddy. So I'm going to be blunt. If something feels off, if something doesn't happen ON YOUR terms, ditch him. It is NOT worth it. Find a guy that is also a new sugar daddy and gently ease into the game. Those that want it quick are after sex and sex only. If that's your thing fine but from your messages I'm assuming it's not.Be careful, and throw any guy away that makes you even the slightest bit uncomfortable.Hope this helps x

Hey gal,Guys, sugar daddy or not, like to push their luck mostly. However there is a fine line between being flirtatious and taking the piss.Did you in anyway flirt with him for him to produce this pic? This makes it slightly more acceptable I think.A lot of guys in the sugar daddy game are sleaze balls and are looking to use you. Whenever a guy sends me an unwanted picture and I've told him that down the line we'll fuck, I'll usually say something like this.'You're so naughty! 🙈 Once we get to know each other over the next few months we're going to have some fun.' Something like that, says you're not up yourself but putting the line out there to remind them.There are guys who will try and sleep with you on the first date, even worse try and get you to sleep with them for free. It's not ok. I'm actually sick to death of all the scumbags out there. Also, be aware, there are crap bags on SA that will lure you in to send naked pics and then ghost. They want a collection.As soon as your gut feels off, run. And I mean that. It's just not worth it and most likely you won't get anything out of it if you stick around.Hope this helps xx

$650 meet plus a lovely meal, selection of desserts, great company and a car home. Great evening. I have some stuff to update you on really gals and eventually I will when the dust has settle. A few posts back I mentioned briefly what happened but for those that don't know, a man from SA robbed me out of all my money and my credit cards so I didn't even have enough money for food. I'm talking around $13k. Pretty awful. I'm slowly rebuilding confidence, I still can't believe what happened. When I find ten minutes to play with I will write a list of all the things to look out for. It's been a massive lesson as my so called friends couldn't help even though they had the means to do so. Only trust yourself in this world girls (plus fam obvs), when you're happy it's easy to forget or perhaps miss what people's true intentions are. I was surprised that one of my so called pots who I've been seeing for around a month now, was happy for me to starve. I'm going to call it off with him tbh. I'm all for taking it slowly but I asked directly for money, he knows the situation, he's rich as fuck, and he still refused. I come from a nice background and I could have asked my parents but y'all know the humiliation that brings when you're meant to be surviving on your own. Having no money has been an interesting one in the sugar world and girls, any sense of desperation, these men really do vanish. It wasn't until I completely ditched the idea of getting money any time soon that I got some sugar! I've just about got back in the game after several pot dates and I think I'm finally happy with what I have to be honest. An update on my sugar: I currently have two sds, I'm doing per meet with them whilst we build trust. Will roughly receive $700 per meet each. They're quite busy guys so we shall see how that turns out. Met a Diamond member from SA last night which was so lovely. Like I say, it slowly was making up for the awful situation I was put in. He is an experienced SD and has had multiple arrangements which was SO REFRESHING! I am amazed how many guys go on SA to find love, fuck off! Haha, his budget per meet goes up to $2.5k the longer we know each other. He says we will do per meet to start with for the first few times then go on to a monthly allowance and layer stuff on like accommodation, bills, trainer, etc. He's absolutely lovely too, so charming. Finally I'm going on one more date with a different diamond sa member tomorrow night. He has a verified net work of over 100 million dollars and also an income of over 1 million. He's a youngster, under 30. We shall see how it goes. That's it for now girls. Take care and stay safe. Don't let these fuckers get you down, it will all work out!

Really fucking annoys me how all these men are happy to get their penis out for sex within minutes but mention cash and they run for the hills. Salt everywhere