im so tired of people being evil to transfems. like. motherfuckers talking about some “predatory man invading womans spaces!!!” and you look and she’s the gentlest most fragile creature of all time. she’s not assaulting women shes literally curled up in a nest of blankets and stuffed animals scrolling tumblr right now. and shes terrified to go outside because she might accidentally invade womens spaces. im just so tired of it all
#the amount of eggshells I walk on#hypervigilance off the charts#I think my girlfriend is my girlfriend because I was so afraid of just like TOUCHING other women#in that casual platonic way that women touch one another - cuddles & hand holding & playing with hair#that sort of stuff#that when she snuggled a bit with me at our TTRPG game#I was so utterly flabbergasted and overjoyed that I became instantly attached#and 3 years later we're dating and it's wonderful#but like... the concept that a cis woman would just share that with me was not on my radar#and it meant so much to me and honestly still does#she's one of the only women I can hang out with regularly who doesn't either annoy the piss out of me#or make me feel like a Mimikyu in a gaggle of Pikachu
