“Apparently, pal, I won and you lost because of the asymmetry of the stakes - I possess moral authority as a successful businesswoman and the householder, whereas you, as a house breaker, have none. It seems the gender and age dynamics worked in my favour too: the fact that I’m a beautiful and confident young woman whereas you are a middle aged loser, invoked feelings of fascination, humiliation and grudging respect towards me when I told you to give up and surrender. Finally, it looks like I redefined the narrative - turning you from a dangerous tough guy intruder into a decent fellow who’s made a mistake and who was looking for a way out. By the time I began to tie you up, you had already lost our psychological battle. So, although you are no doubt feeling ashamed at having been rather easily captured by a woman, you are also subconsciously relieved that it’s all over and can surrender to my competent authority.
My addition to this wonderful depiction of female non-violent power, citing the ancient Chinese general and military strategist Sun Tzu by Tied Up At The Moment who still plies his trade on Deviant Art as PerryDrake444