lover of cafés, books, warm colours and kindness

be good to people for no reason

anyway I love things like having independence, being intelligent, taking pride in my skills, not feigning incompetence, referring to myself as a woman instead of a girl, aging unapologetically, having pores, stretch marks, grey hairs, wrinkles and body fat, listening to my body's needs, eating as much as I need to satisfy my hunger, being bare-faced, wearing comfortable clothes, etcetera

actually im doing really well except for the fact that everything makes me sad and the things that dont make me sad make me angry. but other than that im fine

this too shall pass but the fuck was that for

perhaps. i do want to be loved. unfortunate.

ever since i was a little girl i knew i wanted to deny location sharing and turn off personalized ads and reject all non-essential cookies and not set up siri and face ID

no one is coming to save you not because you’re all alone in this world but because you have to be the one to do it

all i wanna do is travel and look hot

wishing everyone a warm, peaceful, stress free and healing spring 💐🍀🌷

hey when the fuck are things gonna get easier

Used to be able to have fun on the internet now all the websites are after my identity like the devil is after my soul

sometimes i fantasise about people shutting the fuck up

One of the most dangerous things in the world is not being able to say no to people because you don't want to upset them or dissapoint them. This will completely ruin your life in every way possible, at work, in your private life, your sex life and your friendships. It's a way of removing your own consent in your own decisions and go against your wishes, it is always a crime against yourself. Let yourself have a say. Upsetting people is better than traumatizing yourself.

"Just because I'm right, doesn't mean I'm being helpful" is a vastly underrated thought process that I strongly encourage others to get comfortable with