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So, since @nicoise-trash blessed us with another sinday, let’s celebrate by doing more smut!

Marisa Tomei as Mona Lisa Vito

bucky feeling confused and lost about his place in steve's life post-serum and then finding out that within a month of his death steve immediately fucking dies. steve did still need him, even after everything. he feels a brief moment of vindication, of almost relief at their codependency being mutual, and then he's overwhelmed with guilt for that feeling and for 'failing steve'. he wasn't there and steve died. he blames himself for it.

I forgot about this draw heheh

i finally know why i didn't like his endgame look as well as his character!! they actually went the extra mile and erased all character development that happened through the evolution of his outfits too. that sounds a bit silly, but it's actually really important. like natasha still wearing double braids while she and clint had the mission in budapest to kill dreykov, right when she joined shield, and then afterwards her changing her hairstyles throughout the movies because she has the freedom to do that. she even cuts it short and dyes it, something she couldn't do since she was a kid. and... i don't know, i just think that character development through clothes/hairstyles/etc is really important to actually making that development!! am i making sense

His hair was longer and wilder, his beard grown out, something going straight against army regulations. Fitting for a guy who was never on the side of the rules when he deemed them stupid. Making it obvious he was making his own choices now and was done playing nice. "I'm not looking for forgiveness, I'm way past asking for permission."

His suit was more comfortable, practical, and had darker colors, unlike the brightly colored incredibly tight fitting previous suits he had both during the USO tour and after he was out of ice that was made to complement his body shape and make him stand out as the American he was representing with the red white and blue. He wasn't representing anyone or playing for the looks no more, he was doing what needed to be done however it needed to be done

IW Steve was unapologetic, brutal, blunt, while also keeping his core values of righteousness, compassion, and desire to help close to his heart. But also knew he couldn't achieve the goals he was aiming for by peaceful protest anymore. They couldn't have that in endgame

Conservationist trad values were at an all time rising point when Endgame was out, Trump supporting groups more loud everyday, pushing the belief that the only true happiness came from nuclear family and traditional values and none of that silly little "found family of outlaws doing the right thing" which I will always believe was a huge contributor to the how the movie turned out at the end. It's a Disney movie, of course the evil capitalistic mouse is going to promote the ideals of whoever it was dick-riding at that moment, which was Trump. And Steve wasn't even the only victim of that

Tony was also out in the woods in a cabin raising a kid with a woman who said won't have kids with him unless he gives up the hero life. Iron man wasn't a part of Tony, Iron Man was Tony, and Tony was Iron Man. He wasn't inventing anymore, instead sitting in his cabin after the snap, not even trying to do anything about it anymore, and wasting his days away

I'm not saying Tony wasn't happy with his family, he LOVES Pepper and his daughter, nothing will ever change that. What doesn't makes sense for him is that he gave up everything for that life, which, please, all of us know Tony

On another side, Nat was the one to die at Vormir because Clint had a family to get back to, which I support fully. I didn't want him leaving his family either. But the woman sacrificing everything for the man, and the man going back to his family, will always be a very subtly played bullshit to me

Commission for @midnightfoxsinger

This post talks about a new DM feature in youtube. What it fails to mention is that as part of this new feature is that when you send someone a link to a video, and they open it in the youtube app, they will see who sent them the link. Specifically, your channel name.

If your google account name is your real name, so is your channel name by default.

This means the new default behavior is that everyone you send a youtube link to will see your full name if they open it in the mobile app.

To turn this off:

Go to your youtube app settings

Go to Privacy

Turn off "Channel visibility for shared links"

The kid was picked up by an ambulance 30 minutes later.

Now as an adult working in security I get SO MANY folks- upper-middle aged mostly- coming to me to 'rat out' people they think are faking it.

I was once sent into a bathroom because a client demanded that the "fucker won't get out, so go drag them out"- I was NEVER going to do that, so I did a wellness check instead. You know who it was? A person recently released from the hospital after a car accident. They had a hole in their skull and major hearing loss. They couldn't answer the owner because they couldn't HEAR the owner.

Another time about a homeless man who got around town by kicking the ground from his wheelchair. "You know he doesn't actually need that thing, his legs work fine, it's just for pity points"- Oh, so he's not paralyzed, his wheelchair is performative? Funny story Dale, I actually know that guy, he was backed over by a truck and has chronic pain from his shattered pelvis. But sure, let's make him stand up and walk everywhere so nobody feels too bad for him and tries to help him or something.

"She doesn't need that scooter, I've seen her get out of it."

"Look how fat he is, because he just rides around and refuses to get up."

"She doesn't really need that cane- she comes here without it all the time"

I was severely injured years ago and couldn't stand or walk at all for a month, and needed a cane for six months after. Do you know how much that sucked? How difficult it was to get around? Go to the bathroom? How exhausting it was to strategize how to run errands and get places and do basic shit like catch transit? I never took those things for granted but holy shit was that experience eye opening. A total of two people held a door open for me. A *ton* of people eyed me skeptically. I had to be seated amongst the first of those boarding a plane and other passengers were furious. Those same people would also have been furious if they were stuck behind me as I slowly hobbled onto the plane with the main group.

No one would fake a disability. I mean, there might be someone out there trying it for unfathomable reasons, but humans are hugely independent creatures and deeply, deeply pressed by our culture to feel shame over not being able to do things alone. I think the idea that anyone is faking a disability is fucking ludicrous. Needing a mobility aid is painful and difficult and exhausting, both physically and mentally. You'd only use one if it made your life legitimately easier. If you're fully mobile, IT WOULD NOT BE EASIER.