sup kids, itās been awhile huh? sadly, nope not here to return, but here to right a very fucked up wrong. ten months ago i was involved with a callout against mox, i am here to denounce that callout. it was wrong, it was in its own right, harmful and abusive, and a part of a culture i have always spoken out against.
i was in the wrong for being involved with it in ANY capacity. callout culture is despicable and hurtful and to have people still out there attacking, harming, and abusing people over it? is. wrong. knock it the fuck off. move on. you dont like someone? great, block, unfollow, blacklist, move the fuck on. do NOT send anon hate, make blogs, harass, gaslight, or try and use FEAR MONGERING to continue your agenda. what the fuck is wrong with you? who raised some of you?
when that callout was being talked about, i was being manipulated into being involved with it. i was NOT forced to help no, but i had whispers in my ear, screenshots of other people talking about it, and i was micro-aggressively coerced into helping and help posting it that night. someone else made the google doc, talked about it with others, was on voice with me relaying things to me and i added in my own screenshot from it. a screenshot i should not have included. now it wasnāt illegal, it wasnāt personal information persay, but it was still wrong to put it on there, it was fucked up to use it and it was fucked up to put it out into the world where people can then turn around and use it to spread hate, and abuse. it was a gross misuse of my resources.
i have shared every screenshot of that night with the person in question, mox is aware of everything and how it truly went down. she has heard from multiple people i am still good friends with about this entire situation and we finally know where this manipulation, lying, and abuse stemmed from and who really was the catalyst behind all of it.
mox and i do not hate each other. we have spoken, honestly and transparently and i happen to know people involved on that callout had their screenshots used without permission despite me begging to wait until permission was asked, as well as being involved in a different chat and asking for definitive proof before posting anything. the person who pushed this knew all of it and i have witnesses in the larger chat as well that can provide the fact that two of us wanted to wait.
this was not allowed, deemed unnecessary and to push this narrative, i was delivered with things that was used against me to manipulate me into being mad enough and hurt enough to help post it. it doesnāt make it right, its not an excuse and it shouldnt have happened. i do not endorse nor back anything in that callout post and do not agree with it, people using it, or its existence. it should be deleted, and people should NOT EVER use it as an example of mox or anyone else. bottom line.
i leave this here as my parting words on this blog in response to what has come to light, to speak my truth and be transparent. while i will always remain a part of what happened, i will work through that with the people who deserve to hear from me and denounce any further involvement. i have not spoken about mox to ANYONEĀ beyond a small core group of friends who were involved in the drama directly. i have never spoken out about her publicly, spread lies, hate, or anything else that has been received to her.
i urge people to follow in my footsteps and leave things as they are. leave people alone, and do not go using abuse tactics to further your own narrative. cancel cancel culture, work on yourself, and do fucking better.
