vrash pronouns: she / her / hers 23 years old I cannot donate to any posts; I can only repost them neurodivergent as heck here meaning im disabled here too: officially diagnosed with dyspraxia + been told I've a migraine condition/ condition called migraine if I'm not mistaken + self diagnosed with ADHD use tone indicators / full form of tone indicators when u talk to me Hindu, brown, south Asian, south Indian, queer gender non conforming ( even tho idk how to be my own kind of gender non conforming- being gender non conforming) + cis female 🏳️🌈🌈 fuck off : if you are a zionist; pedophile; pedophile supporter, radfem, radfem supporter,radqueer supporter, radqueer, transphobe, transphobe supporter in any sense, kind of sense, heartstopper Stan( sorry not sorry your oh so "beloved" nick nelson is just a white neurotypical boy btw ); tw- transphobe; abusive dickhead of any kind; tw- queerphobe of any + all kinds supporter n/or person; Modi supporter because he and u can die btw; trump supporter;Kamala supporter; zionist supporter; Obama supporter, the USA Presidents' supporter; tw- homophobic ;tw- lesbophobic; tw- biphobic; tw- acephobic supporter n/or person; racist;Joe biden supporter; bully; straight cishet person in general who wants to push their version n only their version of sexuality ; of what my sexuality should be + look like according to them n/or shows off their PDA n/or career lives proudly in anyway whatsoever no keep that to yourselves I don't need to know that shit all that shit so stfu; anti- black; tw- islamphobic; ppl who spread their tw- hindutva bs everywhere like some virus; like it's some virus nope f that shit I'm out; Hitler supporter ill practically nail you; ableist freak;JKR + HP supporter no just no ok BC JK is a tw- transphobic racist and Zionist bitch; little bitch ; fascist+ fascist supporter; Elon musk supporter; TERF; TERF supporter + lovebomber + lovebomber supporter + SWERF + SWERF supporter.
I need a permanent ceasefire now ! I call for a permanent ceasefire now !! I demand a permanent ceasefire now! It makes me so really angry that innocent children, babies, families, civilians, women + men have been killed through bombing - have been killed ! Queer Palestine folks are being hurt and are suffering so much ! Babies n children have been given toys as a fucking replacement for their food; what the fuck???!!! Justice now ! I demand justice now ! Palestine journalists + reporters have also been killed, which's so fucked up and terrible , my gods! They are all so innocent and they have done nothing wrong; same goes for the indigenous people! Free Puerto Rico, free Gaza, free Syria, free Myanmar ( Burma), free Armenia, free Palestine, free Congo, free west Papua, free haiti, free Sudan, free Yemen, free tigray, free Lebanon, free Afghanistan, free Cameroon, free Tibet, free Afghan, free Iran, free iraq, free Hawaii, free cuba, free Jews, free Ukraine and free indigenous people in new Zealand + free indigenous people every single where now! I cal for demand for, demand a complete, full- on, permanent liberation, collective liberation, and ceasefire for all of these places now !Zionists, y'all aren't fucking welcome here on this account; good fucking bye bye, Zionists ! Fuck off Zionists; y'all shall be blocked; y'all will be blocked! free Tamil nadu too!!
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WTF FUCK FUCK FUCK There is absolutely no mercy. My sister cries all day long, her body is covered in sores, and she's become unable to move. When I asked the doctor for help, he told me the hospital pharmacy didn't have any free medication. My sister is still crying from the intense pain I urgently need to buy four boxes of smallpox medication for her. I trust you won't let her down.
The war took our father. Our home is gone. My mother is dying. My little siblings are living in a tent on the street, and I am suffering from severe anemia.
Reblogging this again bc people in the notes are asking a lot of "Am I included? Am I disabled if I have x?" and I just wanted to add the flag here to show people who the pride month is for.
This is the new flag, the old one was more vivid and in a z shape, but it's been made more neutral to be inclusive of people with seizures or sensory issues.
Each stripe represents a different aspect of disability:
Red: Physical disabilities
Yellow: Cognitive & intellectual disabilities
White: (And this is the key one I think) Invisible AND undiagnosed disabilities
Blue: Mental illnesses
Green: Sensory disabilities
If you're autistic or have ADHD? this is your pride month. If you have a mental illness, it's your pride month. If you're hard of hearing, this is your pride month. If you have an autoimmune disorder, this is your pride month. If you are not diagnosed with anything but you know something is up with you: THIS IS STILL YOUR PRIDE MONTH.
I'd like to add onto this — because I myself wasn't aware before my university professor of disability studies told us this — that any physical or mental impairment that makes things in your daily life more difficult to navigate and lasts over 6 months, is in fact, a disability. Yes you can be temporarily disabled. No it doesn't have to be an illness classified as a disability by your doctor. If it disables you, and it's not short term, you are disabled and you have a place at disability pride.
me because im a disabled queer brown person who's also indian and south asian; south indian to be more precise - yea when overstimulation occurs to me, I'm too exhausted and tired n overstimulated which can cause my self diagnosed ADHD to kick in; causing me emotional impulsivity; poor emotional dysregulation; both of which that relate to each other, sigh.. and which can lead / lead to poor amount of emotional control.. then which causes me to keep bumping my head and body parts here n there.. and causes me to like do impulsive kind of decisions which can cause me bullshit in the end sigh..
And then I've dyspraxia which kicks me on my ass..and I feel dyspraxic wala carefulness has something to do w adhds perfectionism and vice versa in general too..
And then when I'm alrdy overstimulated as fuck btw, yk what happens? I really hate being rushed.. because then I'll be less careful then and go bump my body part here n there sigh 😑😵💫
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This pride month our daughter experienced her first transmisogyny
Our last post isn't moving
We had to spend many days in a hotel room after grandpa tried to force a haircut on our daughter because she is trans, she needs a new haircut to fix what he did to her.
On top of that weather has been shit, we keep getting blackouts and low voltage, our connection has been unreliable, we also have had our water supply cut alongside many other people in the neighborhood, the water company swears supply will be up shortly but we've been like this for over a week.
The blackouts spoiled our food and insulin, we need help getting insulin while we file for a refill with their healthcare.
We also want help being safe at home, grandpa is willing to go visit his siblings in back on his home town, don't see it as helping a transphobic man, more like helping a trans family feel safe for a while.
Our trans son has missed his last two weekly T shots, it is pride month, he shouldn't be depressed and spiraling due to dysphoria, please, help him.
And the mold is coming back full force due to the constant rains and humidity.
My partner is recovering from an ankle injury after his dad pulled his cane from him during an argument and my mother in law's sciatica and disc pain has been horrible, she needs to go to her doctor.
Im ashamed to say we're still unemployed, we do have a new student but our connection has been so unreliable i can't be sure to give a proper class if this continues.
Please consider helping us, maybe check the stuff we need on throne like some phones or the Ensure suplements, or the cart so we can carry water easier.
And my healthcare renewal notice came in, I need $138 to keep my healthcare please 🙇
we're back home but have had no peace since we arrived, everything is falling apart, we can pay rent but there's so much to do, so much to clean and grandpa is still being the biggest threat in this house even with the full room of black mold and rust
i cant even open the laptop without him trying to smash it shut so "my lazy ass" can get to cleaning and "being useful"
we need help affording some stuff to be safer here like affording a couple of doors so we can hide from him and such, we know it's not the perfect plan but we can't just throw a disabled elderly man to the streets even if we hate him
CAN'T MAKE NEW POST WE HAVE SO MUCH IN OUR HANDS BUT WE NEED LIKE $350 TO MAKE SURE MY IN-LAWS ARE SAFE AND NO LONGER A DANGER FOR OUR TRANS KIDS AND MYSELF.
$0/$350
Check our throne, we need almost everything from our diabetics, chronic pain and hygiene list please!!!!
This situation cannot be blamed solely on the ongoing conflicts in the country, which have been responsible for the death of over six million people since 1996.7 These conflicts, which involve a range of actors, are a consequence of significant wealth inequality. But beneath the violence and institutional attrition of the state apparatus lurks a more malign force, one that has been active in the region for almost two centuries and which we will describe in this dossier. This force has led to the pillaging of the land and its resources for profit at any cost. The DRC of today is haunted by the transatlantic trade of humans (from the fifteenth century to the nineteenth century) and by King Leopold II’s colonisation (1884–1908) and its continuation by the Belgian state (1908–1960). It is haunted by the sabotage of the country’s sovereignty through the assassination of its first democratically elected leader, Patrice Lumumba (1925–1961), and by the subordination of its elites to the agendas of major multinational mining companies. The wealth gap, in other words, is easily explained, but equally easily buried in the morass of centuries of racist propaganda and decades of resource mismanagement.
This dossier argues that the Congolese people have been fighting against the theft of their wealth not only since the 1958 formation of the Mouvement National Congolais (‘Congolese National Movement or MNC’) – which sought freedom from Belgium and control over the Congo’s extensive natural resources – but even earlier, through working-class resistance between the 1930s and 1950s. That fight has not been easy, nor has it succeeded. The DRC continues to be dominated by exploitation and oppression at the hands of a powerful Congolese oligarchy and multinational corporations that operate with the permission of the former. Furthermore, the country suffers, on one hand, from wars of aggression by its neighbours Rwanda and Uganda, aided by proxy militia groups, and, on the other, from multilateral institutions such as the World Bank and IMF that enforce neoliberal policies as a requirement for receiving loans.8
The price of digital commodities is further cheapened by the low revenues earned by the Congolese state. To take the example of one multinational corporation that is key to the extraction of resources from the DRC, Glencore posted market-adjusted earnings of US$3.5 billion for 2023 (before interest and taxes).10 It is the ‘subsidy’ of suppressed wages (partly facilitated by coerced and forced labour) and lowered state revenue that provide this company with such high earnings. Without the blood, sweat, and misery of the Congolese portion of the ‘bottom billion’ and the raw materials they produce, companies in the Global North would not be able to extract such high profits.
...[O]ver the past decade Glencore has encouraged artisanal miners to work on its leased concessions in order to increase its cobalt production. During this period, the price paid to miners collapsed from $40 a pound to $13.50 a pound.40 The real wage for all cobalt miners, whether they work independently or are on a company’s payroll, is not much more than the bottom billion wage of US$1 or US$2 a day.
Less than a decade after the Congolese government nationalised all mining and mineral rights (in 1966) and then Union Minière (in 1967), countries across the Global South came under pressure from international finance to privatise their nationalised mining sectors as neoliberalism spread across the globe during the 1970s. In the DRC, pressure from the IMF and World Bank led to the beginnings of privatisation in the 1980s, though it was not until later, with the mining code of 2002, that this trend began to devastate the economy, largely because of the political turmoil and period of war that defined the country from 1996 to 2003. The weakness of the state due to this war, the callousness of the new political leadership in Kinshasa, and the advice of the World Bank pushed the DRC to offer deals that were advantageous to multinational mining companies at the expense of their population.
In 2002, a new mining code in the DRC provided foreign companies – all from the US and Europe – with favourable taxation, incentives for exploration, an open door to expatriate profits, and the right to circumvent labour and environmental regulations. The code forbade amendments for ten years and contained a clause that any changes to the fiscal regime could not come into effect until 2022. The Lutundula Commission of 2005 later revealed that then President Joseph Kabila and other officials secretly colluded with corporations to receive small personal gains, which paled in comparison to the massive advantages given to foreign companies.45
At an African Development Bank meeting in December 2008, then President of Botswana Festus Mogae said that tax and royalty exemptions given to multinational mining companies prevented African states from retaining a fair share of profits from the extraction of resources, which is why, he continued, ‘it is necessary to renegotiate some of them’.46 In 2011, the DRC tried to revise the mining code, but that attempt only provided more benefits for foreign firms.
The entry of the Chinese state and private Chinese companies into Africa over the past two decades has provided competition against the Global North countries and their mining companies. This was the first time that these multinational corporations faced direct competition, a shift that provided the space for the Congolese government to amend the mining code in 2018 on more beneficial terms. This new code stripped the ‘stability clause’ that guaranteed mining companies ten-year protection, and it increased the Congolese state’s royalty rates for non-ferrous and base metals (such as cobalt and copper) from 2% to 3.5% and allowed royalty rates to be raised to 10% for ‘strategic substances’ such as coltan and lithium.47 Furthermore, the Chinese state entered the African market with a development agenda that was very different from the pressure campaigns waged by Global North governments, as we shall see.
Chinese companies, helped by lines of credit from Chinese banks, began to buy major cobalt operations, eventually taking control of fifteen of the DRC’s seventeen mining complexes. In the extractivism debate, the Global North, its eyes set on furthering its own agenda, has fixated on China’s role in the region as the world’s leading consumer of cobalt, nearly 80% of which it uses in its rechargeable battery industry.48 What is often left out of the discussion, however, is that, as the largest manufacturing country in the world, China uses Congolese minerals and metals to produce goods that are consumed across the globe, including in the DRC and the Global North.
Chinese interests therefore lie in keeping mineral and metal processing within the DRC and building an industrial base for the country. This is a policy that diverges from the IMF-driven agenda for the DRC. Angered by the deepening ties between the DRC and China, the United States government used its influence over the IMF to sabotage the DRC’s attempt to renegotiate a deal with Sicomines, which is a joint venture between the China Railway Group and Power Construction Corporation of China, (PowerChina) as the principal shareholders as well as Zhejiang Huayou Cobalt (with a 1% stake) and the DRC’s state mining company Gécamines (with a 32% stake).49
Shortly after the DRC’s President Félix Tshisekedi took office in January 2019, he indicated the need to renegotiate an agreement between the DRC and China in 2008 that designated $6 billion from Sicomines to fund local infrastructure projects. Why would Tshisekedi attempt to jeopardise $6 billion in infrastructure funding? Because Western donors and the US government were using it as a reason to deepen their sabotage of the DRC’s economy in order to punish the country for its growing proximity to China. Right after the 2008 agreement was signed, Western donors, who held the lion’s share of the DRC’s external debt, withheld $11 billion in debt relief for the DRC.50 The Chinese ambassador to the DRC at the time, Wu Zexian, criticised this call for renegotiation as ‘blackmail’.51 When the DRC refused to accept the donors’ demand, the IMF – backing the donors – said that the agreement with Sicomines had to be renegotiated before there could be a discussion about further debt relief. The US Secretary of State at the time, Hillary Clinton, travelled to Kinshasa to discuss the situation with the government of President Joseph Kabila, and soon thereafter, the deal was amended to accept only half of the Sicomines funding.52 China’s Exim Bank, the primary financier of the deal, withdrew over disagreements with the IMF conditionalities, which left Sicomines with no stable financing arrangement at a stage when no mining operations had commenced and, therefore, no revenue was being generated. This is partly why the projects stalled. Since the amendment, less than a third of the revised $3 billion allocation for infrastructure, influenced by the 2009 IMF agreement, has been disbursed.
Knowing that the deal remained on the table, President Tshisekedi reopened the conversation with China in 2019. On 20 January 2024, the DRC finalised the renegotiation of their minerals-for-infrastructure contract with China, which provided $7 billion in financing. The agreement is rooted in a joint venture for copper and cobalt mining between Gécamines (the DRC’s state mining company) and Sicomines. According to Bloomberg, as part of the deal, Gécamines will receive a 1.2% royalty on Sicomines’ proceeds and the right to market 32% of its production.53 In addition, the 2024 renegotiated agreement updated the financing to focus primarily on the construction of national roads. This is key not only for the mining sector to function, but also for the well-being of the Congolese people, as the DRC has fewer all-weather paved roads than any other country of its size in Africa (for comparison, Saudi Arabia, whose land area is roughly the same size but is inhabited by less than half the DRC’s population, has twenty times more paved roads). The agreement also secured the DRC a 40% stake in the Busanga hydropower plant, a joint project between the two countries that was built by Chinese companies.54
Threatened by the renegotiations, the United States government intervened to undermine them. According to Africa Intelligence, the US initiated a programme that allegedly aimed to bolster anti-corruption efforts and reform mining law in the DRC by deploying a team of experts to the office of the DRC’s president and relevant ministries in early 2020.55 In addition, as part of a wider endeavour to secure access to debt relief from Western donors by ‘enhancing’ governance, the Tshisekedi administration contracted the US law firm Baker McKenzie in late 2019 and made plans to hire US legal experts to perform anti-corruption audits, which would be financially supported by the US State and US Treasury departments (this was not transparently declared, with the only public statement being that these audits would be funded by ‘third parties’).56 The consultants focused on Sicomines and ignored the wider problems in the mining industry.
When the completion of the DRC’s renegotiation was announced in 2024, the US – displeased with the outcome – hastened the discussions around the Lobito Corridor project, an infrastructure initiative driven by the US and the European Union that spans the DRC, Angola, and Zambia and aims to facilitate the transportation of minerals from the region to global trade markets through Angola’s Lobito Port.57 This project, too, is designed not to benefit the people of the DRC but to contest the role of Chinese capital in the DRC and to ensure the longevity of the Global North’s corporations in the country’s mining sector. None of the Global North’s recent ‘concerns’ about the well-being of the Congolese people have addressed its own role in fuelling violence over resources in the African Great Lakes region. As Amos Hochstein, Biden’s senior adviser for energy and investment, put it, ‘An electric vehicle is essentially a battery, and what’s in the battery is Africa’. ‘There is no time to waste’, Hochstein added; ‘We have been absent from the scene for far too long’.58 In other words, the corridor, along with other projects such as the US-initiated Partnership for Global Infrastructure and Investment (an attempt to challenge the Chinese-led Belt and Road Initiative), are part of the US geopolitical strategy to counter China. With the push away from fossil fuels towards wind, solar, and electric energy, the Congo will continue to be at the centre of the discussion.
Interestingly, it was just as Chinese firms began to supplant Global North mining firms and just as Chinese investment began to build new infrastructure that a wave of interest grew in the Global North about the exploitation of the DRC’s workers – an interest that both ignores the grave violations committed by Global North companies and feigns concern for the well-being of the Congolese people in order to further geopolitical interests. When the private Chinese company CMOC (China Molybdenum Company Limited), which produces minerals key to green technology, bought the Tenke Fungurume mine from the US mining company Freeport-McMoRan in 2016, fear grew within the US state apparatus that the Chinese would control all the key elements of ‘green technology’.59
Given its powerlessness to contest China’s purchase, the US moved in two directions: to delegitimise China’s interventions in Africa through complaints about Chinese exploitation of child labour and to put political pressure on African governments to break links with China.60 This demonstrates the focus of the US and its allies on securing their economic and geopolitical interests by reviving Cold War tactics.
US intervention on the African continent to advance its own project and maintain hegemony is further illustrated by the tenor of the US-Africa leaders’ summit in December 2022, where the governments of the DRC and Zambia signed an agreement with the US to develop an electric vehicle value chain in their countries, from mining to the assembly line.61 However, it is worth noting that the two African countries had already signed an agreement with each other to establish a value chain to manufacture electric batteries in April 2022.62 So the new deal, announced with great fanfare, was less about coordination between the DRC and Zambia or the needs of the African people and more about the attempt to block China from the African continent and to guarantee the flow of resources under the control of the Global North firms.
The cost of survival in Gaza is very high right now. My friend Fadel (@fadell-aldany) needs a number of medications and supplements to manage his blood disorder, chronic pain from untreated injuries, and severe anemia from inconsistent access to medication and food. This all comes to about $800 a month (without accounting for medicine for breakthrough pain which is $100 per pill). Please donate to his campaign so he can survive.
Fadel survived the bombing of his home over 800 days ago, and has still not raised enough money to get to a hospital where they can remove the shrapnel from him. He has raised 25% of his fundraising goal of $60,000, but all of these funds have been used on water, food, medication, and hospital bills. The longer it takes him to raise these funds, the more his health deteriorates, and the more expensive survival becomes. Please donate as soon as you can. Help him stabilize!
This is how the genocidal occupation tries to kill him and other disabled Palestinians every day. When people survive bombings, they are prevented from healing and stabilizing. It is continuous, systematic cruelty on every level. @fadell-aldany needs support to survive this.
My friends, You are my last hope. I am still in the hospital and my health is verv poor. I need money for my hospital stay and my medication You are the onlv ones who can save me. please stand by me.
I beg y’all please help or share. Lost my job June 16 alongside 2 Black employees. I currently need help with an urgent utility hardship. My electricity has been disconnected since June 24, leaving me without refrigeration, cooking access, or laundry.
Please keep boosting this 🙏🏿 A friend has been bringing me a charged portable charger every day so I can keep my phone on so I can apply for jobs. I’ve been eating mainly peanut butter sandwiches due to not being able to refrigerate food right now.
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what are your thoughts on asian characters living in the usa going by more typically american names to "fit in" better with their peers? I know it's pretty common amongst immigrants in general to take on a more white name, but I'm wondering if that's a good thing to portray or just something that comes off as whitewashing your characters.
more specifically, I have a trans Vietnamese-American character whose parents aren't very supportive of his transition, so he goes by a more masculine name under the guise of wanting to sound more American.
I've had a couple of friends with non-white names but white nicknames, but I figured as a white person I should ask for a second opinion before committing to this plotline.
I love talking about names so I'll do my best to hold myself back and only answer your questions instead of going on tangents (but also because this will hopefully be part of the name post or series depending on how long it ends up being)!
I don't necessarily mind it, but it depends on what Asian group you are talking about specifically. There are a lot of East Asian Americans in particular who have more anglicized names ("non-English name modified to fit English spelling or pronunciation norms, or a similar English name substituted for the original"). Frankly, I find that South Asian and West Asian groups tend to still give their children more traditional names. Though this isn't always the case (Simone Ashley's real name is Simone Ashwini Pillai). This is often attributed to wanting to speed up the process of assimilation (Chloe Bennet's original name was Chloe Wang and she had to change it because she was not getting roles with her original name) or because East Asian languages have very different linguistic structures compared to Latin languages. I don't remember exactly what the infographic was called, but it was kind of a scale between English and languages like Mandarin and Arabic. If we're looking from an English speaker's perspective, it makes sense why other Romance languages (like Spanish) tend to be easier to learn compared to languages with more complex syntax/grammar drastically differing from English. This is not to say languages like Spanish are just easy to learn, but for an English speaker, Spanish shares more familiar word roots compared to a language like Arabic. The reverse is also true, which is why native speakers of these Category III or IV languages tend to have more difficulties becoming fluent in English (also just because English is pretty messy).
East Asians tend to have two names. One Asian, and one American. I have known kids whose immigrant parents use their Asian name at home, but use the American name outside the house. Mostly, because it is just easier. Some Asian names can be very hard to pronounce correctly for native English speakers.
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I will say this trend isn’t as common for the South Asia diaspora. My parents chose to give my younger brothers and I traditional names. The children of their friends also have traditional names. In school it was only kids who have parents from east Asia have English names. It’s a really stark difference. My parents said just correct others to pronounce my name.
Reddit: "Why do first-generation immigrants prefer to name their children with American names? Are they ashamed of their culture or do they just want their kids to get Americanized as fast as possible?"
People may get tired of me saying this, but it's important! If SOME of your Asian characters have americanized names, it's fine as long as it is intentional and makes sense within context (My friend is from Kerala, a state in India which has a larger Christian population. Thus, Indian people having anglicized names is very possible). Maybe your Asian character's parents didn't want their child's name to be butchered or they gave them a more anglicized first name but more traditional middle names/surnames (which was the case for another friend of mine). They could even be 3rd/4th/5th generation immigrants who feel more attached to their american identity over aspects of Asian culture. It isn't always whitewashing or self-hatred, maybe they're simply trying to survive in a world that puts them at a disadvantage. But if ALL of your Asian characters have americanized names, then you need to examine why you feel the need to do that.
I also think, and this isn't directed at you specifically it's more of a general thing, but before forcing an Asian person to give in and make a 'palatable white nickname' TAKE THE TIME TO LEARN THEIR NAME. Listen to them, learn how to pronounce their name before giving up. My name doesn't seem to be very common and I love that my mom made that choice. One person tried to ask if they could use a nickname because they couldn't remember my name and I realized how much that annoys me. Some Asian people are fine with the nicknames, but some are not and just go along with it because they don't want to feel like they're causing trouble. Take the time to learn how to pronounce people's names, there's no negative impact in putting in effort.
Maybe I'm just reading this at a time where I'm very tired 😭 but I am a bit confused by the "whose parents aren't very supportive of his transition, so he goes by a more masculine name under the guise of wanting to sound more American." I get the first half of going by a more masculine name to appease his parents, but I think I'm missing the link of wanting to sound more american? I think a lot of Vietnamese names are unisex with a few exceptions, but they are also given gender-specific middle names? So having a more traditional masculine american name is an effort to fit into that binary? If I'm interpreting this incorrectly, feel free to correct me with additional information!
This ask brought back memories of The Name Jar when I read it for the first time in elementary school!
A heartwarming story about the new girl in school, and how she learns to appreciate her Korean name.
Being the new kid in school is hard enough, but what happens when nobody can pronounce your name? Having just moved from Korea, Unhei is anxious about fitting in. So instead of introducing herself on the first day of school, she decides to choose an American name from a glass jar. But while Unhei thinks of being a Suzy, Laura, or Amanda, nothing feels right. With the help of a new friend, Unhei will learn that the best name is her own.
From acclaimed creator Yangsook Choi comes the bestselling classic about finding the courage to be yourself and being proud of your background.
as of june 30th, my friend Amal's ( @moatasim-ashour ) campaign hasn't received any donations for two days. not only are 12+ people depending on these funds for food, water, shelter, and necessities, but Amal is currently in urgent need of treatment for kidney stones, which she's developed as a result of the enforced scarcity of water and nutritious food. although this is a common condition, Amal and her family's circumstances are not: given the near impossibility of securing more water and a better diet due to the blockade, she needs medical care as soon as possible to avoid running the risk of developing a more severe or even life-threatening condition like renal failure or rupture. according to cedars-sinai hospital, kidney stones are among the most severe physical pain a person can experience. please don't leave Amal to weather this alone—any donation brings her closer to receiving the care she needs and being able to recover in as much peace as possible. the Ashour and Shehab families' campaign is just $501 USD from the next thousand milestone; truly anything you can do helps!
Hello friends, I'm Sahar! Lia & I are friends of the Ashours & Shehabs, and we'll be helping them run this campaign. Both families have had
Verification info: Amal's former fundraiser is #175 on @/nabulsi, @/MohAyesh, and @/el-shab-hussein's spreadsheet and was shared by @/bilal-sala7 and @/90-ghost. The Shehab family's former fundraiser is #764 on butterfly effect project's spreadsheet, was additionally verified by @/el-shab-hussein, and shared by @/90-ghost. Their current joint campaign has been shared by @/bilal-sala7.
The cost of survival in Gaza is very high right now. My friend Fadel (@fadell-aldany) needs a number of medications and supplements to manage his blood disorder, chronic pain from untreated injuries, and severe anemia from inconsistent access to medication and food. This all comes to about $800 a month (without accounting for medicine for breakthrough pain which is $100 per pill). Please donate to his campaign so he can survive.
Fadel survived the bombing of his home over 800 days ago, and has still not raised enough money to get to a hospital where they can remove the shrapnel from him. He has raised 25% of his fundraising goal of $60,000, but all of these funds have been used on water, food, medication, and hospital bills. The longer it takes him to raise these funds, the more his health deteriorates, and the more expensive survival becomes. Please donate as soon as you can. Help him stabilize!
This is how the genocidal occupation tries to kill him and other disabled Palestinians every day. When people survive bombings, they are prevented from healing and stabilizing. It is continuous, systematic cruelty on every level. @fadell-aldany needs support to survive this.
My friends, You are my last hope. I am still in the hospital and my health is verv poor. I need money for my hospital stay and my medication You are the onlv ones who can save me. please stand by me.
Alhamdulillah, my mother survived the surgery!
But she is still in a critical stage, and we are facing an immediate crisis: we urgently need $120 to cover her post-op treatment and medication TODAY.
The Goal: $120
The Solution: Just 6 people giving $20 right now will fully secure her care.
We are so close to bringing her home safe.
Please don’t stop helping us now donate immediately and help us clear this final hurdle.
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My name is Mahmoud. I live in Gaza with my family, and we are going through a very difficult financial situation. I tried to create a donation link for my family, but I couldn't find someone to help organize and manage the campaign 🥺💔So my friend Ahmed decided to support me by sharing his own family’s donation link, and we agreed to split the donations between our two families.
Right now, we have almost no food, and the cost of living has become unbearable due to the siege, soaring prices, and the closure of all crossings.Everything has doubled in price in an unimaginable way 🥲🥺
We might be forced to flee to southern Gaza after the announcement of a full invasion of Gaza City 💔
The bombing and destruction never stop — not for a single moment. There is no longer any real life in Gaza. We are just struggling to survive, trying to secure the bare minimum: water and food.
Winter is coming, and we have no winter clothing after our home was destroyed and we were displaced multiple times 😭🥲Please, we urgently need financial help to buy food and store some in case the situation worsens.
This is our donation link.
Please remember: donations are shared between two families. So, for the sake of God, help us, my friend. Save our children, my younger siblings, my parents, and even my older siblings — we are all homeless and hungry 🥺🥲💔
My Story: From the Hell of War to the Search for Safety My name is Ahmed, a 20-year-old young man from Gaza. Since the war began, my life ha
Yesterday, seven students from Gaza received a free workshop to help them pass the English language test at Isnad, empowering them to gain admission to American universities!
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We aspire to offer this experience to more people. Donate $25 now and give a student a place.
We plan to hold a new workshop in the coming days for 20 students, at a cost of $10 per student. This means we need $300 to host the workshop, covering the instructor's fee, the venue, and refreshments.