i have a degree in english literature and am getting my master's in children's literature!
interests: reading, film/television, baking, collecting stickers, travel, theatre, disney parks history, paddington bear, sanrio, strawberry shortcake, marine biology, the color pink, and, ofc, tom hiddleston
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video games: animal crossing: new leaf, stardew valley, fields of mistria, earthbound, hello kitty island adventure, disney dreamlight valley, undertale, omori, kirby superstar ultra, tomodachi life
consoles: nintendo 3ds xl, nintendo switch lite, PC -- mutuals please ask for switch/DS friend codes!
tv shows: bee and puppycat, the x files, adventure time, gravity falls, twin peaks, otgw, the good place, psych, sex education, derry girls
i am a huge disney fan (and critic) but i do love their movies a lot! my favorites are beauty and the beast, mulan, princess and the frog, and emperor's new groove. i love the princesses so much.
other fave films of mine include: crimson peak, nope, ponyo, challengers, coraline, enchanted, who framed roger rabbit, jurassic park, and the birdcage.
books: the color purple, the miraculous journey of edward tulane, the soul of an octopus, junji ito's "shiver"
Links: letterboxd || serializd || storygraph || listography || bluesky || mutuals only blog
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✧ if you have made it this far ily and i hope you have an amazing day!
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(for people who don’t know kathleen stock is an infamous British terf who triggered a whole “free speech” university row over her views)
this is what people mean when they say that transphobia and ableism are interlinked. because *of course* the same person who refuses to believe people when they assert their gender also refuses to believe them when they assert a disability. because who knows their bodies better than a random british upper-class white woman!
and at the end of the day it really boils down to this vindictive need to police and bully strangers because 1. why do you care about someone saying they’re a woman, dressing like a woman etc. and 2. why do you care about someone using a walking stick if they don’t 100% need it? the answer is, neither of those things affect your life, and you shouldn’t.
golly its almost like there was some kind of virus going around recently that gave a bunch of people lifelong disabilities. does anyone remember anything like that?
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Consider: it is the healthiest and most normal thing in the world to go to your close friends and loved ones with problems in your friendships and relationships. Not to gossip, not to talk shit, but I go "Hey, me and (x, not related to my current partners) are on the rocks right now, can I talk it out with you?" and then you get input, advice, you get to process your feelings through conversation, then you're probably more equipped to go back to the person and go "hey I've been thinking and processing, I feel xyz."
Two major thoughts here:
Don't let anyone convince you that this type of conversation should only exist in therapy. Your friends and loved ones are there for you. Its called a support system for a reason. Getting advice and comfort is entirely different from talking shit.
If someone gets upset with you for talking about your interpersonal problems with your friends, its worth examining that dynamic. Why are they so worried other people will find out how they're treating you? This isn't like 100% always a bad thing, but like. Consider if there's other parts of the relationship that feel controlled. Consider how listened to and respected you feel, how safe you feel, how independent and free to act you feel.
absolutely hate it when the pleasurable activity procrastination hits. i’m going to do something fun that brings me joy but not yet. yeah, not yet. not yet. maybe i shouldn’t do it at all, it’s not that fun
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