Sep 13, 2025
people who dont experience it cannot comprehend how awful executive dysfunction is. I WANT to do the task, i have the resources TO do the task, i will feel better having DONE the task
but i cant fucking do the task
#True story two long lasting friendships of mine ended over me asking these people to speak kinder about ADHD around me#They said that it's IMPOSSIBLE to be physically unable to do anything because of ADHD#They were like “people with ADHD can get jobs dohoho - therefore they can do things but they're just making excuses”#I explained why the language hurt my feelings and they doubled down and called ADHD an excuse again#One of them was like “I'm not being ableiest or anything” out of the blue and said they refused to talk about ADHD differently near me#Like okay I didn't claim you were ablest I just expressed some language hurts my feelings and provided context but thanks for treating me#Like an enemy for speaking to people I thought were my friends about language that was hurting me specifically#Literally two friends of like 10+ years ended our whole friendship over it out of nowhere???#Their responses were literally so abusive and uncalled for#When I tried to explain the reasoning they also refused to listen and claimed I was being defensive#Like two neuro divergent people saw my context I was trying to provide to helpfully explain my feelings and doubled down so hard#The world is full of cunts and I'm glad they're gone lmao
