Cat Trash

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❤ : Would my muse have sex with yours if they asked.

✉ : What would they say in a love letter to your muse.

☼ : What kind of outfit they think your muse should wear.

£ : If our two muses went on a date, who would they expect to pay for it.

★ : What their favorite thing is about your muse.

♚ : What my muse thinks your muse is good at.

♋ : Who would be the big spoon and who would be the little spoon.

♒ : How my muse would describe yours in one sentence.

☢ : If they view your muse as a friend or enemy or love interest.

✘ : What one thing they would change about your muse.

Who is a fussy eater and who will eat food even if they’ve dropped it on the floor?

Who constantly tries to get the other to shower with them?

Who was popular in high school and who lies that they were just to impress the other?

Who is incredible in bed and completely knocks the other off their feet the first time they have sex?

Who plays video games and who snuggles up next to them as they play?

Who is horny ALL OF THE TIME?

Who is sleepy and cuddly ALL OF THE TIME?

Who knocks on the other’s door crying at 4am?

Who would have 10 pets if they could and who is adorably shy around animals?

Who takes like 10 minutes of persuading to get out of bed each morning?

Who collects rocks and shells when they go to the beach and who thinks it’s dumb?

Who picks fights for no reason just so they can have kinky sex?

Who secretly admires the hell out of the other and thinks they’re the bravest person they’ve ever met?

Who has an adorable sneeze and who sneezes so aggressively they pull a muscle?

Who wants to have sex at work/school and who is terrified of getting caught?

Who smells the hell out of the other’s shirts when they’re away but pretends that they don’t?

Who believes in astrology and who doesn’t care and just wants the other to make out with them?

Who would survive the apocalypse and who wouldn’t stand a chance?

Who is majorly ticklish and who is the tickle-attacker?

In honor of us hitting a thousand followers, here are some OTP questions!

1: Who spends almost all their money on the other?

2: Who sleeps in the other’s lap?

3: Who walks around the house half-naked and who yells at them to put on some clothes?

4: Which one tells the other not to stay up all night and which one stays up all night anyway?

5: Which one tries to make food for the other but burns it all by accident and which one tells them that it’s okay and makes them both cookies?

6: Which one reads OTP prompts and says “Oh that’s us!” and which one goes “Eh, not really”?

7: Which one constantly wears the other’s clothes?

8: Which one spends all day running errands and which one says “You remembered [thing], right?”

9: Which one drives the car and which one gives them directions?

10: Which one does the posing while the other one draws?

11: If they were about to rob a museum, which one does backflips through lasers and which one is strolling behind with a bag of chips?

12: Which one of your OTP overdoes it on the alcohol and which one makes the other stop drinking?

13: Which one likes to surprise the other with a lot of small random gifts?

14: Which one keeps accidentally using the other’s last name instead of their own?

15: Which one screams about the spider and which one brings the spider outside?

16: Which one gives the other their jacket?

17: Who keeps getting threatened by the other’s overprotective older sibling?

18: Who’s the first one to admit they have feelings for the other?

19: How good would your OTP be at parenting?

20: Which one types with perfect grammar and which one types using numbers as letters?

21: Who gets attacked by a bully and who protects them?

22: Who makes the bad puns and who makes a pained smile every time the other makes a pun?

23: Who comes home from work to see that the other one bought a puppy?

24: Which one gives the other a piggyback ride when they’re tired?

25: Which one competes in some sort of activity and which one does the overzealous cheering?

26: Who takes a selfie when the other one falls asleep on their shoulder?

27: Which one would give the other a makeover if they asked?

28: Which one owns a pet that the other is absolutely terrified of?

29: Which one holds the umbrella over both of them when it rains?

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abalone:what kind of situations compromise my muse emotionallyChione: Family being hurt emotionally/physicallyStevie: It’s hard to determine, but I guess having to face any situation that she feels strongly about. I’m really not sure with herYaeger: Noctis not doing well, whether it be emotionally or physically. Shiranui: loud shrugging noises I don’t knowRaybin: The thought of Sylvani or anyone else she’s grown close to dying. She’s had enough of the whole death thing. ;;

aegerine: my muse’s opinion of the supernaturalChione: Pretty frightened by anything supernatural. It’s an instant nope for herStevie: Thinks it’s a load of bologna Yaeger: Doesn’t care/believe in itShiranui: Doesn’t careCielo: Finds the concept interesting, but does not care beyond that.Raybin: Doesn’t care/finds it frightening.

agate:how my muse calms downChione: Running or hanging out with someone she likes. If she needs to be alone, then just running or toying around with her lightning/watching the weatherStevie: Ignoring her problems and just focusing on other things. If she she is beyond being able to do that, she probably goes and talks with Finnick.Yaeger: Takes a long, calm walk.Shiranui: Hangs out with Lotus. He is all she needs to calm downCielo: Reading in human au, and herb sorting in catverseRaybin: Sticking to the shadows so she can think about it in silence. 

blue lace agate:my muse’s favorite form of communication (verbal, letters, texting, etc.)Verbal for all but Raybin, who would prefer texting. It’s a lot easier to be confident over texting for her

fire agate:if my muse is brave or cowardlyChione: BraveStevie: Excessively braveYaeger: CowardlyShiranui: BraveCielo: In the middleRaybin: Cowardly

moss agate:if my muse has a high or low opinion of themselfChione: High. She’s grown really confident in herself. :’)Stevie: It depends! In most situations, I would say high, but in other things it’s really low. It all depends!Yaeger: Medium? Is that allowed? He’s content with himself, but sometimes he does have doubts about his abilities and who he is. Shiranui: High! She’s very content with who she is!Cielo: High. She has no issue with herself in most circumstancesRaybin: Incredibly low. She only views herself as a problem most of the time. 

amazonite:what kind of situations call for my muse to be dishonestChione: Trying to make others feel reassured. Sometimes she has to be a little less honest.Stevie: Any situation that involves her personal well being. She frequently lies about things such as how she feels and how she’s doing. Yaeger: He’s honest at all times. He has no desire to lieShiranui: She wouldn’t lieCielo: Honest as heckRaybin: Everything and anything concerning herself. 

amethyst:what my muse would most like to be able to shape-shift intoChione: “A Mako shark! They are so badass. They’re smaller, but they’re also the fastest shark in the world! That’s cool as fuck.”Stevie: “Perhaps a snow leopard? They are incredibly gorgeous and are overall quite majestic animals.”Yaeger: “A dragon. Nahh, just playing (sort of). I would totally love to be able to shapeshift into maybe an Asian water monitor. They’re pretty wicked.”Shiranui: “Maybe St. Croix sheep. -grins- They’re really pretty…” Cielo: “A hawksbill sea turtle. It is quite a shame that they are endangered though.” Raybin: “I have, uh, been told I look like a giraffe… But, uh, maned wolves are cool….”

ammolite:how lucky or unlucky my use isChione: Fairly lucky I guess?Stevie: Pretty unlucky in most instancesYaeger: Fairly unlucky a majority of the timeShiranui: LuckyCielo: InbetweenRaybin: You tell me

angel aura quartz:my muse’s opinion of LGBT+ issuesAll of them want them want to see it as something normal in the future. I may be wording this oddly, but they want it to be perfectly normal to go out with your girlfriend/boyfriend/or none of the above in public and smooch and all of that and it be perfectly 100% normal to anyone. I’m probably wording this badly sorry about that.

apache tears:a sadness headcanonChione: She sometimes goes to the pawprint she and Yvette made in suncoves and just presses her paw to Yvette’s print. :’DStevie: She brings flowers to Tabitha’s grave and just…gives her updates on the living world. Generally leaves there an emotional wreck and probably just curls up by tree roots to sleep there for the night.Yaeger: If Noctis ever dies, he’ll just curl up by her and never wake up. He’d die of a broken heart.Shiranui: I can’t sad with herCielo: (Okay I do have one for her but it’s way too real and I should not discuss it here.)Raybin: Hnn, I actually don’t have any for her! She’s had so many bad things happen to her that I just can’t come up with anymore.

apatite:a headcanon about my muse’s intuitionChione: Pretty intuitive! Stevie: Honestly, she’s so ruled by logic and reasoning that I can’t see her being very intuitive. Yaeger: Intuitive as heckShiranui: Fairly intuitiveCielo: Sort of intuitive.Raybin: Not really intuitiveThis isn’t answering the question but I can’t think of any

apophyllite:my muse’s religious/spiritual beliefsChione: She is pretty religious! She does believe in the spirits and does pray to the spirits. She does not rely on them in times of despair though.Stevie: Not particularly religious. She has acknowledged that the spirits are indeed real, but she doesn’t particularly like them/care for them. What a great deputy.Yaeger: Not religious at all. Does not care at all. He can respect other’s beliefs though.Shiranui: Pretty religious! Cielo: Doesn’t careRaybin: Not religious at all.

aquamarine:where my muse feels most calm/relaxedChione: Out in storms or anywhere where Yvette or Ashon are.Stevie: Anywhere near Finnick (not like she’d admit it ever woops) or in the comfort of her own home/den.Yaeger: Anywhere with Noctis tbh. Shiranui: She really likes the Flower fields! In the humanau, she’s a huge fan of meadows and flower shops.Cielo: Herb stores pft. Raybin: I am not sure actually. In the shadows by herself probably.

biotite:the biggest problems my muse is currently dealing withChione: Daughters are sick. Stevie: Majority of family being sick, injuries, feelings.Yaeger: Sick. Worried about Noctis overworking herselfShiranui: Pretty sick. Sister went blind. :cCielo: Best friend is sick and partially blind. Father, mother, and brother are really sick. Raybin: Everything. Papa just died.

bloodstone:how my muse sees themself as part of the world at largeChione: Not a big part of the world, but she’s okay with that.Stevie: Fairly important? Only because of her position though.Yaeger: He’s just a tiny spec in the world at large.Shiranui: Doesn’t care! She doesn’t really mind where she stands in the grand scheme of things.Cielo: She wants to be important in the world at large, but she is not.Raybin: Tiny grain of unimportant sand. :C

calcite:my muse’s social tendencies (introverted vs extroverted, parties vs one-on-one conversations, etc.)Chione: SUPER extroverted. She loves being loud and having the spotlight on her. She’s the life of the party.Stevie: Incredibly introverted. She would rather avoid social interaction if possible. She, of course, needs to try now, even if she’d rather not. In a party setting, she’d be the one who stick to the wall by herself the entire time. Yaeger: Extroverted! He knows how to give life to conversation.Shiranui: Very extroverted! She is incredibly good at being the conversationalist. Cielo: Extroverted with introvert tendencies I think would be the best way to describe her. Raybin: Introverted! She has a hard time dealing with social interaction, and often dissolves into awkwardness.

carnelian:an art-related headcanonChione: She probably loves photography and has a ton of really beautiful pictures of storms and clouds in her house. She’s a nerd.Stevie: She loves and is super good at dancing. Like really really good. She does not really have time to dance though, nor someone to dance with, so she just grumbles about it. As for visual arts, she can draw a sick stick figure. She has sent in professional diagrams of stick figures because she just can’t draw at all.Yaeger: He’s fairly alright at drawing, but more so in the designing way. He had a part in designing his brace for the special case with his arm. He probably really likes art though and would love to give painting a try sometime.Shiranui: She loves to sing! She kind of sucks at it though woops. Music makes her v happy though.Cielo: She can make a sick line graph does that count. She never really got involved with the arts in school, but probably would have loves playing instruments.Raybin: Loves every aspect of art. Sylvani got her into it while young and honestly I wouldn’t be surprised if she had a profession in it when she’s older. I totally headcanon that she designs tattoos for Samira.She probably has a good deal of tattoos she’s designed on herself

celestite:how my muse deals with anxietyChione: Goes to things that calm her. Will talk it over with Ashon and YvetteStevie: Doesn’t deal with it. Stores it away so she doesn’t have to. That doesn’t work out well for her.Yaeger: Noctis is magical and can calm him in .5 secondsShiranui: Hmm I have no ideaCielo: Tries to rationalize why she’s feeling that way and tries different methods of stopping it.Raybin: Just stews in silence.

chalcedony:the saddest my muse has ever beenChione: Probably after Kronk rejected her hmm, or the initial rush of feelings when she found out Yvette died.Stevie: She his a particularly bad low in the time while she was away from the tribes. The first time she visited Tabitha’s grave was also something that made her incredibly deeply sad.Yaeger: When Octavia left or when Tayliah died :cShiranui: Hnn, probably Chimera or Izanagi’s departure. Cielo: The betrayed look her dad gave her when she wouldn’t initially move him over to Saph. Raybin: c:

chalcopyrite:how my muse deals with ending relationshipsChione: Gently, so it’s not even worse than it already isStevie: Honestly and with little remorse probably OTL.Yaeger: Carefully and awkwardlyShiranui: I have no idea honestlyCielo: Quickly and bluntlyRaybin: very weakly. She’d be the one who breaks up over text weeps

charoite:who my muse looks up toChione: Her dad!Stevie: Her momYaeger: KtoriShiranui: Her mom or Saphiria or Aniu. ouo Or mister LullyCielo: KtoriRaybin: Sylvani and Kokkinos! In time, Rowan too

chrysocolla:a money-making headcanonChione: Makes a good amount of money. Spends a lot of money on her kids kekekeStevie: Does NOT make much money, but no one needs to know that. Very prickly about her money and seldom gets things for other people woopsYaeger: Spends a lot of it on food tbh. And rocks. Lots of rocksShiranui: …I have no idea but she probably does not spend muchCielo: shrugsRaybin:  LOUDER SHRUG

copper:how I think my muse will end up when they’re olderI have no idea for any of them.

coral:how my muse views the natural worldChione: Fricken sweet. She finds nature to be awesome, especially some of the things that can happen in nature. Stevie: Fascinating.She thinks the natural world is absolutely incredible and she wants to learn more about it.Yaeger: He finds it super beautiful. He probably does go out in nature a lot.Shiranui: SHE LOVES THE EARTHCielo: P sweet. She wants to explore nature moreRaybin: She thinks the earth is beautiful and amazing and she just wants to protect it okay

diamond:a sex headcanonoh boyChione: She loves experimentation. Like….she can get into a lot.She has done a lotStevie: She’s…also down for experimentation. Probably has the highest sex drive of all of mine, but she represses it hella hard. She loves to dominate woopsYaeger: neighborhood aceShiranui: she’s still weethe rest are babies

dolomite:a sleep headcanonChione: Wears like a bra and panties to sleep. She loves the freedom. Sleeps like she’s actually deadStevie: She has an awful sleep schedule, and tends to sleep very lightly so she wakes up easily. She’s also the one that sleep mumbles if she’s like deep asleep. She also never sleeps in her bed basically. Couch or desk in her chair for herYaeger: Cuddles with his pillow. He doesn’t even know he does this. Also sleeps in weird positions that most would consider grossly uncomfortableShiranui: Can fall asleep in .5 seconds if cuddling with Lotus. It’s amazingCielo: Only gets like 4-6 hours of sleep each night. She tends to fall asleep working on stuff, so she wakes up with an awful crick in her neckRaybin: Somehow manages to throw every blanket from her bed. Probably the one that has oodles of plushies. Has a giant whale plush. It’s her favorite.

emerald:how my muse tells someone they love them without wordsChione: It’s all written on her features. Stevie: The way she touches. I…don’t know how to explain it, but contact is major for her. Yaeger: Holding them closeShiranui: loving smoochiesthe rest I don’t know

fluorite:what my muse’s room looks likeChione: Covered in pictures of storms. Has a massive bed so her kiddos can join and sleep with mam and dad. Very simple room in terms of designStevie: Her room basically only has a closet and bed in it. There are tall piles of notebooks, normal books, and other science shif.Yaeger: Massive rock collection, Harry Potter merch, and other odd things. His room is fairly organized and is kept clean always. Shiranui: Dude there are plants everywhere. Cielo: Very simple, with a very large bookshelf. Has all her medals and shif right where she can see them.Raybin: A disaster of doodles, clothes, and other things. She sucks at keeping her room clean. Has a cactus

fossil:what my muse’s dream job isChione: Being a weather lady/meteorologist/occasional storm chaser. She’s living her dream jobStevie: I have no idea. She’s content with what she’s doing… Being recognized as a Physicist would make her p happy thoughYaeger: Something in the medical field. He loves helping othersShiranui: Probably a florist tbh Cielo: Maybe a neurologistRaybin: Graphic Designer 

galena:what it’s like to be in a relationship with my museChione: Fluff love and sex Stevie: I have no ideaYaeger: Being showered in love. He’d be a really good boyfriend weepsShiranui: Pure fluff and love always. 

garnet:what my muse’s perfect partner would beChione: Yvette and Ashon ;)Stevie: Someone who understands who she is and is willing to deal and work with some of her worse traits.Yaeger: I have no ideaShiranui: Lotus. that’s all

gold:my muse’s financial situationChione: P well set tbhStevie: Not very good.Yaeger: Pretty alrightShiranui: Pretty good! 

hematite:how squeamish my muse isChione: Not squeamish at all.Stevie: generally not squeamish. Eye stuff will make her sick thoughYaeger: Not squeamish. Shiranui: Sort of squeamish? I guess it’d just be smell and sound for her. If she could see, she’d probably be more squeamishCielo: Not very squeamishRaybin: Not squeamish at all tbh. 

hiddenite:how much of an “inner child” my muse hasChione: Massive inner child in a lot of situationsStevie: She lost her inner child a long time ago.Yaeger: Lets his inner child take the reigns a lot of the time.Shiranui: I can’t tell if she just acts on it all the time or if she’s just very happyCielo: Not much, but it’s thereRaybin: ^

iolite:my muse’s drinking habitsChione: Probably doesn’t drink much now that she has 6 kids. Does enjoy a glass of red wine frequently thoughStevie: Drinks whenever she’s unhappy about something. Tends to drink to excess more often then not. It’s not good. Bad binge drinking habitsYaeger: Goes out with Balban sometimes when he’s older. Shiranui: Does not like drinking really! the rest are children

jade:if my muse would ever cheat on a partnerNO TO ALL

jasper:what my muse would be like as a parentChione: She’s a pretty great mom. She is vulgar a lot of the time, but she’s incredibly lovingStevie: She’d be an awful mom I think. I have no clue. It’s not that she wouldn’t be loving, but she wouldn’t know what to do more than half of the timeYaeger: would be shaky at first, but he’d be a great dadShiranui: SHE’S BE A SUPER GOOD MOM

kyanite:an anger headcanonChione: It’s super hard to anger her nowadays, but she tends to get rather sparky when mad. Like literal sparks will fly.Stevie: She tends to feel cold anger, but one day I want her to get hot angry and just snaps verbally. It would be ugly, and she’d probably feel pretty awful about itYaeger: He doesn’t really show anger, but if he does it’s by being passive aggressive.Shiranui: what is anger???Cielo: Gets frigidRaybin: Can she even experience anger?

lapis lazuli:where ‘home’ is to my museChione: With Yvette, Ashon, and her kids.Stevie: None.Yaeger: With NoctisShiranui: Lotus and her family ;u;Cielo: I’m not sureRaybin: Earth-Tribe in due time will feel more like home

lodestone:what kind of people gravitate towards my museChione: Fellow loud people. Or happy peopleStevie: For some reason louder people tend to gravitate towards her. Why, I have no clue.Yaeger: playful and kind charactersShiranui: I’ve seen so many different personalities gravitate towards herCielo: other quiet smart kidsRaybin: I don’t know

malachite:what my muse as a child thought they would be when they grew upChione: She was that kid that wanted to be presidentStevie: A scientist. And she is one.Yaeger: a dragonShiranui: “a professional flower” chione tells usCielo: No ideaRaybin: an astronaut she wanted to see the stars

mica:what my muse views as their worst personality traitChione: Nothing tbhStevie: Her antisocialness? She doesn’t really think about it thoughYaeger: His stubbornness. Shiranui: noneCielo: noneRaybin: Everything

moonstone:my muse’s opinions on outer spaceChione: P coolStevie: Finds it to be incredibly fascinatingYaeger: Terrifyingly magnificentShiranui: InterestingCielo: Incredibly fascinating she wants to know how everything worksRaybin: SHE LOVES IT SHE WANTS TO GO TO SPACE

mother of pearl:if my muse tends to lift people up or bring them downChione: Lift them upStevie: Bring them down on accidentYaeger: lift them upShiranui: lift them upCielo: Lift them upRaybin: Lift them up

nebula stone:how good my muse’s memory isChione: It’s alrightStevie: Incredibly good. She does not forgetYaeger: Pretty goodShiranui: It’s alright.Cielo: GoodRaybin: Incredibly good OTL she hates it

obsidian:which of the seven deadly sins my muse would beChione: LustStevie: Pride (but envy, wrath, and lust are up there too)Yaeger: GluttonyShiranui: NoneCielo: GreedRaybin: Sloth

opal:how creative my muse isChione: creative in very weird contexts if u get my driftStevie: Incredibly creativeYaeger: Pretty creativeShiranui: Not that creativeCielo: Sort of creativeRaybin: Very creative

petalite:what my muse would do if they found a wallet on the streetChione: ….turn it in but hesitateStevie: Turn it in but swipe some money probably woopsYaeger: turn it inShiranui: She’s blind that’s not happeningCielo: turn it inRaybin: turn it in

pyrite:a physical health headcanonChione: Still has some lung issues, but otherwise in great shape.Stevie: Has a lot of tension in her shoulders, so massages are really nice. Has some issues with her health, such as a poor immune system and ability to drop weight quickly, but otherwise alrightYaeger: His arm is dead, but otherwise he’s great!Shiranui: Blind but in super good conditionCielo: needs to see a chiropractor probablyRaybin: Uncomfortably thin, but she just cannot put on weight. 

quartz:how my muse thinks other people see themChione: Hopefully as a cool badass migitStevie: an intense asshole. Serious and elegant. Yaeger: A kind of clumsy but nice guyShiranui: A nice person!Cielo: A smart kidRaybin: a disaster

rhodonite:if my muse prefers elegance or convenienceChione: ConvenienceStevie: Both. She will make both workYaeger: ConvenienceShiranui: ConvenienceCielo: eleganceRaybin: elegance?? 

rubellite:if my muse has any 'triggers’ that inspire painful memoriesChione: any reminder that Yv’s deadStevie: There’s a lot really. Right now death is a p big one thoughRaybin: take a guess

ruby:a happiness headcanonhmm

sapphire:if everyone my muse knew was hanging off a cliff and they could only choose three to save, the rest certainly dying, who they would chooseWhy is this a questionChione: Yvette (if she were alive), Ashon, and hnnn I DON’T KNOWStevie: …Kendis, Roran, and Finnick I think I DON’T KNOW I HATE THISYaeger: Noctis, T’io, and BalbanShiranui: Lotus, Aldan, PyraCielo: Qiarah, Ktori, GnaeusRaybin: Sylvani, Kokkinos, and Corvus

serpentine:how my muse would seduce another [alt: how my muse makes their money]Chione: flirting hella hardStevie: sweet talking, tiny bit of contact that are just enough to make your throat go dry, a look that is v much not appropriate lmaoYaeger: ??? being himself or being extra charming? I don’t knowShira: ??????

silver:if my muse prefers masculinity or femininityChione: masculinityStevie: simplicityYaeger: masculinityShiranui: FemininityCielo: ???Raybin: masculinity 

tsavorite:if my muse believes in destiny or fateChione: fateStevie: neitherYaeger: fateShiranui: destinyCielo: neitherRaybin: nothing

ulexite:how empathetic/sympathetic/compassionate my muse isChione: Pretty good at empathizing and sympathizing. Stevie: Sucks at all of itYaeger: Great at relating and helping!Shiranui: SUPER COMPASSIONATE AND EMPATHETIC Cielo: Pretty empatheticRaybin: very all three

unakite:what my muse’s ideal pet would beChione: A fat catStevie: BIG DOGYaeger: snek or lizardCielo: birdRaybin: rock

zebra stone:what gets my muse excitedChione: anythingStevie: SCIENCEYaeger: rocksShiranui: everythingCielo: her interestsRaybin: interaction that could turn into friendship

…don’t forget that some of the flags of an abusive roleplayer are identical to the ones for abusive RL relationships.

The Idolize > Isolate > Devalue > Discard cycle that we see in a lot of abusive RL relationships is actually creepily common online and devastating to the victim, despite the lack of physical damage in most cases (I say “most” because I have seen people driven to self-harm or suicide attempts by online abuse of this type).

Idolize: the abuser is desperate to roleplay with the target. They lavish them with attention, gifts, plots, writing, and/or art. The abuser will do anything to become the target’s new best friend.  Some abusers will become irrationally angry if rejected at this stage and transition into stalking and/or harassment.

Isolate: the abuser begins peeling the target away from any existing friends or RP partners. They’ll attempt to occupy all their online time and suggest they do a lot of one-on-one roleplay in private with them. When in multi-person scenes, they will deliberately alienate the target’s other friends either by acting out, attacking them, or intentionally making RP awkward or impossible for everyone but their target. Gaslighting starts. They may complain the target’s friends are “mean” or “jealous” and attempt to instigate arguments where the target will feel the need to defend them and further alienate their friends. Lavishing with gifts continues in this phase.

Devalue: when their target is cut off from everyone else, the honeymoon ends. Gaslighting ramps up massively. They still want to roleplay with the target, but the target suddenly can’t seem to do anything right.  The target’s self-esteem is systematically degraded. Plots revolve increasingly around the abuser’s character with the target’s being an expendable, breakable prop. They attempt to push their target into roleplay they don’t enjoy or are actively afraid of, and respond to objections or refusals with manipulative behavior like crying, insults, or threatening abandonment.  In extreme cases, the abuser may feign self-harm or suicidal impulses and present them to the target as the target’s fault, i.e. “LOOK WHAT YOU MADE ME DO.”  Gifts only come as “makeup” presents after a fight and are generally presented in public so that all seems well to anyone not involved. They are now the target’s only major roleplay partner and use that as a weapon. 

Discard: the abuser finds a new idol. Gaslighting hits maximum, convincing the target that they’re the reason the abuser doesn’t want to play with them anymore and that no one will ever want to play with them. Finally, they drop their current target and ignore them or harass them, often resorting to scorched-earth tactics and spreading rumors to make sure their victim has difficulty reconnecting with others. The target and their character are usually badly damaged, possibly irreparably.

Abusive roleplayers like this usually leave a trail of shattered guilds and broken people behind and often move games or servers when chasing a new target. Due to their habit of giving gifts in public and abusing in private, they may even have a good reputation in the community and staunch defenders (especially if they’re well-known for their writing, art, or crafts). 

In other words, good fucking luck catching them before they hurt someone.

Since this kind of abuse is hard to see from the inside until it’s already too late, the biggest thing you can do is watch out for your friends and guildies.  We’re all weirdos here, and we need to keep each other safe.  If you feel like somebody’s new RP partner is trying to separate them from their support system, don’t be afraid to speak up.  I don’t care if they write like the next Hemingway or their art appears to have been shat right out of Da Vinci’s asshole, they don’t get a pass.

I am an impulsive roleplayer.

I let my muse take the reins and decide what threads to start or reply to in a given day. If the muse doesn’t feel it, it isn’t happening. That doesn’t mean that I hate you or that I no longer want to interact with you; I probably either lost our thread or my muse just said, ‘nah bro.’

I’m sorry I drop threads. I’m sorry I don’t reply to memes. I’m sorry I ignore my asks. I’m sorry I plot things and then don’t do them. I’m an impulsive roleplayer: my muse guides me.

Roleplaying isn’t my job: it’s my hobby. I do it for fun. My muse isn’t my coworker: my muse is my friend. We have fun together. If I started treating this as a job, it wouldn’t be enjoyable for me anymore, and the quality of my content would diminish greatly!

And while we’re on the subject, just because a thread gets dropped does not mean the relationship between our muses is dead!! Thread =/= relationship! We can start something new and continue building their bond! Relationships are important to building new aspects of our muses!

Draw ‘em all, or have someone send you a character and a number… it’s your wonderland, Alice. Reblog, add your own. Have a good time.

hasn’t slept in 48 hours

tasted something gross

in a long, slow line at the DMV

listening to blind date talk about their ex

reading YouTube comments

favorite song just came on

song they hate just came on

had their favorite show spoiled

just fell in love (a.k.a. “Dreamweaver face”)

saw a wasp

had a fist fight (they won)

had a fist fight (they lost)

food coma

hello darkness, my old friend

“was that Batman?”

forgot what they were about to say

“oh no, they’re hot…”

their best friend’s cooking is not as good as they think

brainfreeze!

texted the wrong person

check out this box of kittens/puppies/bunnies/ducklings/whatever’s cutest to them!

their favorite TV show character dies

having an increasingly awkward conversation with Bob of Modus Operandi

parent/guardian is showing their baby pictures

stepped on a Lego

stepped on an Eggo… you know… the waffle

102 degrees indoors and there’s no A/C

watching the end of The Iron Giant… or maybe the opening to Up… or w-when Shadow is stuck in Homeward Bound…??

woken up out of a dead sleep

nailed it.