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I'm not dating or married or related to anyone I live with, and our household of four adults can't get any kind of financial or food or housing aid because we count as three separate households despite our semi-blended finances and living together for a decade. There are laws that have been proposed (at least, I don't know if any passed) that limit housing to nuclear families.

Because, haha, it turns out? Most people actually don't need to be constantly right, always in control, and perpetually being reassured. And they'll feel funny (negative) when you treat them like they do. Because people mostly assume that how you treat them is a direct reflection of how you perceive them, and they will never assume you're treating them that way because of someone who literally isn't currently in the room.

Wild, I know.

In actuality, people already know you have a preference because that is a very normal thing to have. And because you're never as slick as you think you are, you definitely won't fool anyone by pretending you don't. So the actual kindest choice to make is to just be honest about what you want, because most people will feel most comfortable when they know for sure that the decision you've both made is truly a mutual agreement.

Context since I’ve been posting about it for a bit on and off: I was homeless for a year and have unstable housing, I was able to get a room because the guy said I’d only have to pay half of my deposit, but I owe him the rest of it at the end of the month which totals to $1100. I was charged an NSF fee on my bank of $50 recently because I used Klarna to get groceries a few weeks prior to this. I’ve been trying to get more shifts from my job but still haven’t heard back from them for a week, I’m looking for a second job but I really want to be able to keep this room so I can go back on tesosterone because I wasn’t able to confidently do it when I didn’t have a safe place to shower, etc.

A lot of people have been helping out but I still don’t have enough for rent to secure the room, I have only 20 days to make the goal or I’m back to being homeless again. My partner is able to help feed me sometimes but everyone I know is struggling so any amount helps a shit ton. Please share if you can.

My p4yp4l. Please share!!

Please please consider helping me out financially to get my best foot forward as a small time educator. Thank you.

Current Goal: 0/750

Link to a post with all my pay apps and gfm info below: