So itās finally time to talk about To All The Boys: P.S. I Still Love You, and why it was not only a weaker film than the first, but an incredibly big let down considering the book series.Ā
Before I dig in, I want to make a few things clear. One, I know that films canāt fit in everything from a novel when theyāre doing an adaptation. This isnāt my first rodeo. Second, for all youĀ āthe book is ALWAYS going to be better than the movieā cronies, please keep in mind that I loved the first movie. Loved it.Ā
Iām going to name a few major plot points that PS I Still Love You chose (for some reason?) to leave out, and then iām going to follow up with why this hurt the overall narrative of the story.Ā
And, yes, this mostly is all going to focus on John Ambrose McClaren because, wellā¦he got done really dirty, and it needs to be addressed. Snubbing the Josh/LJ plot line in film one made sense (setting up the story, thereās a love triangle in the second movie anyway, you need to get invested in Peter and LJ, etc). But to snub John Ambrose? Now we have issues.Ā
1. Thereās no game of Assassin. In the book, after the kids meet up at the treehouse, they all decide to play a long game of assassin like when they were younger. If youāre not familiar with the game, you each get a name, and our goal is to keep tagging people out until youāre the one left standing. Lara Jean is obsessed with playing-and winningāthis game, because she canāt get over Peter seemingly always picking Gen over her, and she wants to be the one who wins, even if itās just one time.Ā
Her first name? John Ambrose. She and Chris get together and make an elaborate plan to knock him out. When he falls for it, she gets the name he hadāPeter. John Ambrose then promises to help her win, and this leads to the two of them bonding, but also eventually pulling up at the school and seeing Peter/Gen together, holding each other.Ā
Why does this matter?
-This comes way earlier in the book version, and Lara Jean and Peter stay broken up for a long period of time. This allows all the Lara Jean/JAM stuff (besides writing the letters to each other) outside of her relationship with Peter. Therefore she doesnāt look like sheās emotionally cheating on him.Ā
-Structurally, this plot line ties everything together. Itās how John and LJ bond, itās now Gen and Peter get caught, itās how LJ eventually finds out about Genās parents splitting up. The pacing of the film is wildly off, lagging for the majority of time, bringing real conflict only in the last fifth, and has so much filler that could easily have been cut. I CAN NOT EMPHASIZE THIS ENOUGH, THE ASSASSINS GAME DRIVES THE ENTIRE PLOT.Ā
-Thereās also this really great moment in the book where LJ and John are at the USO party (aka Star Ball) and they jump in a red mustang convertible (because John picked her up in oneā¦yeah, heās THAT great in the book) and speed away from Gen and Peter, who show up to tag LJ out of Assassin. They then ride down the road with Johnās arm around LJ and LJ laughing, feeling free and ready to take no the world. Itās pretty much epic.Ā
2. Lara Jean and John Ambrose donāt write multiple letters to each other. In the book, LJ gets Johnās letter and does write him backāmultiple times. It should also be noted that Peter is not jealous of these letters from the get go.Ā
Why does it matter?
It gives them a solid foundation (it starts out as merely friendship, really) and gives their relationship more time to flourish.Ā
3. John Ambrose Isnāt Stormyās Grandson. In the book, John Ambrose is coincidently Stormyās grandson, and she keeps talking bout how LJ has to meet him because theyād love each other. When they do meet, itās a big surprise.Ā
Why does it matter?
It doesnāt, really, but there isnāt much sense to why they took it out? Stormy is great, and itās a lovely flourish (that carries over into book 3), and JohnĀ ārandomly volunteeringā at Belleview felt odd, especially after they hadnāt even written multiple letters to one another.Ā
Also, it means that the two werenātĀ āforcedā to spend time together. In the film, they have to bond. In the book, they choose to be around each other all the time.Ā
4. Thereās no night stuck at Belleview during the snowstorm. In the book, John and LJ get stuck at Belleview during a storm, and they have to spend the night. During this time, they stay up and play in the snow (way more than you see in the 15 seconds of the film) and John ends up kissing LJ.Ā
Why does it matter?
Youāll have to read the book, but it showcases how John and Lara Jean are connected, now. I mean, itās a HUGE moment/chapter in this story.Ā The film does this pivot in narrative that makes it seem like she really liked John as a kid, and that confuses her, but Peter is the only person sheās connected to in the present. Thatās not true in the books. John and LJ click, and she enjoys the kiss. Also, itās romantic as HELL.Ā
5. John Ambrose doesnāt give Lara Jean the snow globe. In the novel, itās LJās birthday and John Ambrose shows up at her school to give her a snow globe (you know, to remember that night in the snow together?). Peter comes stalking up and gives LJ back her necklace, and claims that as his gift for her (more on the necklace fiasco later). This is where John and Peter square off, and itās a huge climactic moment, bringing the two boys head to head, and LJ has to make her final choice. She leaves with John, but she picks Peter.Ā
Why does it matter?
Well, again, because the snow night was a huge moment between the two. It showed how good they are for each other. Itās also structurally, the climax of the book and itās weird the film never bothers to go there. Instead, the save the breakup for the climax, which ultimately comes too far into the film, and everything feels rushed and tied up way too quickly.Ā
6. LJ offers up her necklace to Peter after they break up. In the book, Peter comes up to LJ after they break up and says he wants his necklace back. In the film, she gives it back to him, and heās sad about it.Ā
Why does this matter?
The book wasnāt about glossing over Peterās insecurities and flaws, while the film is. Honestly, itās probably because the third movie is all about Peter/LJ and they didnāt want audience to turn on Peter. But that in turn makes LJ look like the bad guy. Like she was emotionally cheating, like she left him and he didnāt deserve it, like he makes no mistakes. And Peters arc is about growing within his relationship with LJāitās what makes the third book feel like such a good payoff when he finally becomes a great boyfriend and heās all in. Making your female protagonist look bad so the male love interest can look better isnāt a strong choice, andĀ thereās no reason why Peter canāt be imperfect. If anything, these mistakes make their relationship more realistic (they are SIXTEEN), and make Peter a more complex and believable person.Ā
7. LJ and JohnĀ donāt have any closure. In the book, LJ tells Peter that she couldĀ āfall in love with him so easilyā and sheāsĀ āhalfway there already,ā but she canāt stop loving Peter. John answers thatĀ āit wasnāt our time then, and I guess it isnāt now, but maybe one dayā before letting her go.Ā
Why does this matter?
Because in the film, she just leaves him out in the cold! LITERALLY! I mean really, what the actual fuck was that? She kisses him and just dips. Itās rushed, itās lame, it gives their dynamic no levity or credit. Itās actually absurd. Even without ANYTHING else from the books, this was an easy bit of dialogue to fit in, and no narrative had to change. Again, this paints LJ in a really negative light and makes her, dare I say it, pretty damn unlikable in the moment. It just undermines the whole point of the second book.Ā
8. Peter doesnāt even have to pay for what he does to LJ. This is a huge one. In the book, as previously stated, LJ and Peter break up way earlier. She finds out he lied about the hot tub, knew about Gen making the video, lied about writing the poem, refuses to stop putting Gen first and calling her/seeing her constantly, and LJ breaks up with him. They then stay apart for a long time before getting back together in the last scene of the novel.Ā
Why does this matter?
Because the film paints LJ as the problem! She has to apologize to Gen, she has to admit that she was overly obsessed with Peters past, etc. And while thatās true, she is, she also has a right to be? Peter lies and manipulates and is selfish and wants to have his cake and eat in too in the second book. Itās actually outrageous that in the film, LJ breaks up with him just to immediately get back with him and he never has to even apologize or admit his wrongdoings. This is ruining LJās characterization, and again, Peters growth arc.
The thing about the book? You hated Peter when you needed to, loved John when you needed to, but also forgave Peter when you needed to. It had a way of creating scenarios that felt balanced and understandable, and wasnāt glossing over a guys bad behavior just because of the actorās celebrity.Ā Ā
9. John Ambrose generallyĀ wasnāt a contender. In the book, JAM is a real contender for Laraās heart. He picks up the pieces with her after Peter breaks her down, and their time together heals her in a really special way.Ā
Why does this matter?
Because the film wasted time on emphasizing their past, while it was also about them connecting in the present. There was a lot of filler throughout the movie where John and Lara Jean just kind of sat around and did nothing. That doesnāt get you rooting for those two to get together, and does nothing to build a bond between characters. John has almost no standout moments in the film, and it feels obvious from the beginning that he is just a way to pass the time before everything with Peter gets worked out.Ā
John Ambrose helps Lara Jean understand what she wants and most notably, DESERVES from a relationship. And while itās a bummer she learns that from JAM and then goes on to find it with Peter, thatās still way more of an interesting story than watching LJ and Peter play bingo at Belleview and talk about 5th grade for 40 minutes. The film relied on Jordan Fisher to be charming, but it did nothing to making John Ambrose that way.Ā
Again, this reason for this feels like theyĀ didnāt want people to be disappointed in movie three, when she ends up with Peter (*spoiler, I guess*).
20. Creative Choices. I just felt like some of the creative choices were weird. I didnāt like how they went up in the air while they were kissing at the end, and I wish they had their bigĀ ābreak my heart, do anything you want with itā moment in the treehouse, like the book. I thought Lara Jean singing and gliding through the hallways didnāt work. I thought there was too much inner monologue and it made no sense she was thirsting after John the second she got his letter.Ā
There were things I liked, aspects they executed nicely, and interesting additions (iām here for Trevor and Chris!), and the aesthetic was great. Lara Jean and Peter had some really lovely Ā moments, and Stormy was absolutely iconic (as she should be). They cut a few things they didnāt need (Margot/Josh) and made sure to nail a few others (Lara Jean/Lucas talk at the party was beautifully done). Jordan Fisher was excellent at exuding true JAM energy. Lana Condor slayed, obviously.Ā
But overall, This could have been such a better film.Ā
Last Thoughts? Donāt worry about the third film. I know people who are let down by PS I Still Love You are now worried they wonāt do Always And Forever justice, but they probably will. Itās all about Peter and LJ, and how great Peter has become, and how much they love each other, etc etc. I have no doubt in my mind they will dig into all of that, full force.Ā
And just for the record? I love Peter and LJ! I do. Especially in book three. He fully wins me over there. And thatās kind of the point? Should have made film three so good, it doesnāt matter if in film two, they showcased all the grimy stuff he did in book two.Ā


















