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why have romance when you can be a ro-menace?

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"A marriage ending isn't a failure at all. I spent eleven years with her. We were so in love that we couldn't image life apart from each other. We got our own place, adopted a dog, and supported each other through school. I thought if tow people loved each other enough the rest would fall into place, except... love isn't everything.
And I didn't want to believe that, but we were sitting in counseling one day, talking about our future and I realized we were describing two completely different lives. Where we'd live, what kind of life we wanted, what made us happy. And it hit me that- I love this woman and this woman loved me. And after eleven years of loss, grief, career changes, we were so deeply in love... but we weren't aligned. And I kept thinking 'We just need to try harder. We can find some compromise to make this work,' because that's what you're supposed to do when you love someone, right?
But the reality was, we had just become different people. Her trade school took her in one direction, my graduate degree in another and trying to force us back into who we were five years ago wasn't coming from a place of love. It was coming from a place of fear. Fear that, if this ended, it meant we wasted eleven years. But sitting there across from her, I realized: That's not how love works.
Those eleven years happened. They were real. The dog, our home, showing up for each other through grad school and trade school. I wouldn't change a single thing because loving someone doesn't mean you're meant to stay with them forever. And letting go doesn't erase what you had. We measure marriage by whether it lasts forever or not, but what if we measured it by whether it mattered?
What if we measured it by the love we gave, the life we built, and the people we became? Because love's job isn't to last forever, it's to help you become fully completely yourself, and sometimes the most loving thing you can do is give each other permission to be yourselves, separately. But the dog doesn't know were' divorced. He just gets two Christmases now."
Pulled this from this guy Preston Rakovsky's Instagram (@prestonrack) because it is a beautiful perspective on love, marriage, and relationships in general.
happy valentines day friday! 💚🤍🩶🖤
It's somewhat frustrating as an aroace person myself that aspec rep can't currently be shown off or talked about in mainstream media without attaching a giant PSA about what it means to be aspec because a good chunk of people, even queer folk themselves, don't know what it means to be aspec. It's nice to educate people, sure, but I really yearn for aspec rep that is more than just a sex-repulsed alloace and or repulsed non-partnering aroace being shown in the most sanitized and digestible way possible. I want to see alloaros join the convo and be given attention. I want aspecs to have art that they can call their own that isn't just a coming-of-age slice-of-life narrative with the only difference being that the main character is ace. I want something more. Is that too much to ask?
hand to god I spent over two decades thinking crushes were just a figure of speech and all these years later they still sound like a plot device
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Whoa, this film opens up with the main character saying she rejects the idea that you need to fall in love/get married to have happiness and she isn’t interested in finding a partner, surely THIS time she won’t fall in love by the end of the movie
You guys will never believe what happened
gonna start reverse-shipping. that canon couple is not dating actually. that kiss was entirely platonic and i dont see why you’re reading into it any other way. their parents are clearly roommates with benefits. when they say “boyfriend” they actually said “boy friend”. every character will become aromantic when i’m done with them
oh what? you're in a marriage together? haha well, okay, but don't you ever wish you could be something more? you're not really planning on being in that forever, right? don't you want something deeper one day? i mean romance is sort of shallow, don't you think? don't you want to be friends one day?

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I cannot begin to explain to you the disappointment I felt on finding out that “match my freak” was a sexual thing and not a level of how insane you are with your friends
I cannot begin to explain to you the disappointment I felt on finding out that “match my freak” was a sexual thing and not a level of how insane you are with your friends
I think next thursday is gonna be the best day of my entire life tbh
reblog for next thursday to be the best day of your life
I haven’t platonicposted in a while

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not aromantic but I believe in their beliefs.
"there's no platonic explanation for this" try harder bucko
love is a beautiful wonderful multifaceted nebulous thing that shouldn't be reduced to the strict bounds of Tier One: Romance and Tier Two: Friends. get weird with it. love your friends deeply, wildly, passionately and platonically. cowards
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