Tony’s definitely used the suit for sex. Getting himself off, getting his partner off, he’s not going to limit himself. Sometimes he has JARVIS control the suit, because no one understands what Tony likes more than JARVIS.
FUCKKKKK YESSSSS SOMEONE ELSE UNDERSTANDS THE SUIT KINK 😭😭🙏🙏
everytime i see an iron man edit of the suit i actually think i enter ovulation. it's so hot. i don't know what it is. the face plate. the armored layers. the power. the gadgets. the technology. the tony inside of it. im actually going crazy just thinking about it.
in my head, there's two ways this can go.
you and tony are dating and he slowly acclimates you to the suit. leaving the helmet on the dresser while you guys get dirty. tinkering with pieces on the dinner table while wearing his sluttiest tank top and flexing more often than usual. then he take you out in the suit, flying with you in his arms. bit by bit, the pieces add up and slowly you start liking the suit like you like your boyfriend. thats the moment he started to introduce it into your sex lives.
he saves you in the suit from danger and carries you to safety and youre back in the penthouse or mansion and before he can say anything, youre stripping off your shirt and kissing the edge of his faceplace where his jaw would be and all over his suit like it's his actual body. cue the suit sex
there's a lot of tony specific moments he would have with the suit.
vibrating suit gauntlet. he's tinkering with the suit's hand one day up to his forearm, and he calls you down to the lab. immiedately he jumps you, one arm flesh and warm, and the other full of the hum of technology. clothes start to come off and he starts slow (slower than usual), because he slips his gauntlet hand down your stomach and under the strap of your underwear. It's hot, he makes it hot, muttering how 'you know how many people this thing has killed? the sheer power it has? there's around 23 types of weaponry in this glove alone, 12 in the two fingers stuffing you full right now, getting soaked by your pussy. how bout that?'. just when you're getting light headed from his words and the situation, he squints his eyes and makes a small move that makes the fingers start vibrating. and tony stark, if anything, is efficent. he will make you come so hard you see stars.
i think he definitely has a 'pin-her-down' function in the suit. if he's ever feeling freaky (which is always), he'll invite you down to the workshop for some lab sex or find you wherever u are and playfully engage like some wrestling and halfway through the suit (without him inside) pins down the wrists he previously had in the palm of his hand, and you look back and realize fuck there’s two of them. tony has two free hands. you have none.
(i also think if you’re into it, he would set up some kind of predator/prey game into it, letting you run until the suit tracks you down and pins you until tony comes by to fuck you senseless and then disable the suit to let you go.)
i think the above can also be the pin-her-down-and-fuck-her-brainless setting, so it pins you down and works essentially as a fucking machine. he gets all excited showing you about it, telling it commands like, “flip her over. fuck her slow. slower. now fast like a jack rabbit, but don’t let her come. fuck, yeah, just like that.” (he is most definitely watching from the arm chair, jacking off tothe fact that his technology, his holy grail, is fucking you an inch of your life. no refractory period for the suit. no need for it to have a break. just overstimulation over and over again for you. he’s man spreading, one hand stroking himself and one holding a glass of whiskey. he’s so fucking hot.
another idea. tony makes YOU wear the suit. not the whole thing (but i mean who knows he’s kinda freaky like that), but parts of it. in my head, he starts with the helmet, holding your face still and sliding it on. you get the light up view from inside, but rather than flight speeds or weaponry details on the inside, it’s your heart beat, showing you how much it speeds up as tony sticks his hand up your shirt and massages your skin, slow and sensual to the point u feel like you’re losing your mind. and while he’s going down on you, kissing up and down your neck, right where your jaw is under the helmet, fucking up into you until your eyes roll back, he mumbles “see that little red dot baby?”, and you search your light up display until u see the blinking dot in the corner. “yeah… it’s recording… your own personal film, baby, for when i’m on a mission, and you miss me!” yeah… he has an issue.
(also, i think tony has enough of an ego and a sexual drive that he gets turned on by the fact you’re gasping and whimpering for life inside his tech, and also the fact he’s kind of looking at himself (the faceplate) while he fucks you? this man’s a freak. it probably gets him off to see his own billion dollar gold titanium alloy staring at him as he fucks it senseless)
in the future, maybe with nanotech, this evolves into using the suit as restraints or as handcuffs. imagine with that what u will.
ok last one last one. he’s fixing something in the interface of the suit, and he gets inside just to monitor how the update is working. he gets the brilliant idea that he wants you to get yourself off by straddling the thigh of his suit and humping like his personal little bunny.
it’s so hot, the suit gets soaked and messy and sticky and he’s laughing like a madman in there by the time you’re down, setting you onto the lab table while you catch your breath to get out of the suit and fuck you for real. you know. as a treat.