Hi, I’m Lara

i cannot emphasise how absolutely perfect the IT crowd would be for tumblr if the creator wasn't such a huge heinous bigoted cunt it genuinely makes me so so sad you do not understand. the male leads are frequently compared to a married couple and at one point make out to avoid arrest. jen is a compulsive liar with the worlds worst dating history and is the epitome of girlfail girlboss. everything about moss tbh what a deeply beautiful non masking autistic man. roy is an also autistic asshole with negative levels of rizz and a tumultuous relationship with masculinity who exclusively wears nerd graphic tshirts. noel fielding is a goth who had a messy situationship with their (male) boss then they later get drunk and canonically fuck. matt berry is there. wearing womens trousers makes moss so confident it fucks up his life. the trio are genuinely codependant. theres fake dating. they work in IT for christ sake and are the biggest nerds humanly possible it should have been so beautiful. i truly mean it when i say i mourn what could have been

Sorry, my what? My pronouns? Oh, yeah I'm between genders at the moment. No, it's cool, I quit my last gender a little while ago because it really wasn't working out. I don't know if I even have a dream gender anymore.

Oh yeah, it did come with benefits, but they weren't really worth it. The culture was really toxic. To be honest I think I'd prefer a part-time gender so I can just be self-described in my spare time.

I mean, in a perfect world we wouldn't need gender, you know? We could just voluntarily be perceived as much as we're able, as much as makes us feel fulfilled. Having a full-time gender shouldn't be a prerequisite for food, shelter, and healthcare.

@victoriansecret I found your friend!!!

my fucking privacy

there is no amount of language learning that is useless. I think it obviously scales up in wonderfulness as you learn more, but even just being at the point where you can recognize what language is being spoken or written is still a more useful thing than not knowing that. it is lovely to say hi to people in their language! any attempt to learn is important. you don't get fluent overnight. and you don't have to get fluent overnight. more knowledge is better than none. it isn't just all or nothing.