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Check your Sun, Moon, and Rising. ✨

♈️ Aries: The Tower

Reality check! Things are not what they seem and it’s time you are aware of aware of that. You tend to be really naive. Sometimes you rush straight it situations that compromise your idea of personal sustainability. You can handle anything you throw yourself into, but keep in mind that you should focus on things that are alighted with your personal journey. It’s time for a change. You can either do it now or wait until it all comes crumbling down. Your choice.

Song of the week: Firefly - Mura Masa

♉️ Taurus: 4 of Discs

Know your “place”. By that I mean your comfort zone. You can form a tendency of falling back into what’s comfortable for you as soon as you meet a blockage. You need to be able to identify when these feelings happen, and find ways to get through them before you get too comfortable with that nostalgic cycle. If you stay comfortable, nothing will ever change.

Song of the week: Beautiful Escape - Tom Misch

♊️ Gemini: 2 of Wands

Be clear and honest. What is it that you actually want? Is it also something that would it be beneficial to your mental health? Knowing the answers to these questions, paired with forwardness and absolute honesty. Will aid you in articulating yourself without the interference of anxiety. Remember the path you created for yourself. Is it really what you want? Now is the time to make a shift. Do it. May your mind be well ✨

Song of the week: Weary - Solange

♋️ Cancer: 5 of Coins

What does love actually mean to you? What do YOU deserve? Don’t put your heart through the same torture. There are better people in your life who will do a better job of handling it. The more you cycle back to the people who hurt you. The more you allow your trauma shape your future platonic and romantic experiences. You are not your trauma. Take back the wet clay that is your heart. Mold it anew 💦

Song of the week: Tempted To Touch - Beres Hammond

♌️ Leo: Five of Cups

Now is the time for release. You have carried a great deal along this journey you’ve shaped for yourself. It’s refreshing to let go of some weight every now and then. Let it go. You can’t hold yourself back anymore. Free yourself from the bondage that you create. Your path is clear ☀️

Song of the week: To Zion - Ms. Lauryn Hill

♍️ Virgo: The Hanged Man

Don’t allow your anxiety to make you a prisoner. Your fear is only keeping you from fully acknowledging your potential. The only thing you’re really scared of is how much power you actually have. Don’t fear it, give it structure. Ground it. Water it. Teach it. Care for it. Your power will only work for you if you claim it and care for it as your own. You are a garden. Ground yourself and align with your element 🌱

Song of the week: No Room For Doubt- Lianne La Havas

♎️ Libra: Princess of Cups

Mkay so it’s pretty. What else is in your plan? Sometimes you get too carried away with solely thinking about the aesthetics of things, you tend to completely disregard the functionality, and as you know, you need a healthy balance of both. Use your beautiful brain. If you find away to make your heart happy and your mind happy about what you birth. Everything will fall into line 🌪

Song of the week: Under - Sampha

♏️ Scorpio: Knight of Swords

Don’t stop now. You’re doing really well. Remember to check in on your head. What are your resources. Who can you call? What are your skills? You have an extensive amount of tools at your disposal. But remember not to use them as weapons against your personal power. Go with it, you have the potential to shape any situation to benefit your needs. May your deep understanding of the emotional self be the catalyst 🖤

Song of the week: You Want This - Janet Jackson

♐️ Sagittarius: Knight of Discs

Your power feels stronger than ever. Spending time with scorpionic themes of death, sex, and transformation will aid you in the understanding of Jupiter’s current flavor (Jupiter in Scorpio) Take what you have observed and apply it to the things that you want/need. What do you desire? Open yourself to it✨

Song of the week: The Less I Know The Better - Tame Impala

♑️ Capricorn: The Chariot

There is a shift ahead. You’ve been doing really well with managing the positive view you have of yourself. It’s easy to slip but you’ve caught yourself each time. Remember how you got here. Remember the people who helped you mend your heart. Keep them close. May you continue to be well 🌱

Song of the week: The Moment- Tame Impala

♒️ Aquarius: Queen of Wands

This strange feeling of contentment takes over you. A burst of creativity has entered your vessel. If would be wise to filter it into your everyday. Make sure your cup has enough before you extend yourself to fill others. Breathe. Not every idea you have can be born immediately. Write it down. Conception comes before birth. Slow down.

Song of the week: Batdance - Prince

♓️ Pisces: 5 of Swords

Your focus is like a dagger. You should apply that to accomplishing your goals. Your dreams can only be manifested if you pair your subconscious intentions with your conscious actions. Program your subconscious by knowing what dreams you actually want to live. What part of your dreams do you want in the real world?

Song of the week: Luxury - Azealia Banks

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- Not being able to say you’re gay out loud right away, even to yourself

- Coming out in a car. Why do we all do this?!?

- That deep breath and inability to look someone in the eye the first time you say it

- The awkwardness after coming out, even to a completely supportive family. Things aren’t bad, they’re just weird for awhile

- Having a crush on literally anyone who looks at you longer than three seconds or who gives any inclination that they may be gay

- Spending literally all day thinking about the fact that you’re gay

- Trying out ‘dressing gay’

- Coming out to someone who knows you less before you come out to the Important People in your life

- Being completely oblivious to straight people hitting on you, cause you’re just not looking for it

After my teacher introduced us to this theory, she asked us, “is love a feeling? Or is it a choice?” We were all a bunch of teenagers. Naturally we said it was a feeling. She said that if we clung to that belief, we’d never have a lasting relationship of any sort.

She made us interview a dozen adults who were or had been married and we asked them about their marriages and why it lasted or why it failed. At the end, I asked every single person if love was an emotion or a choice.

Everybody said that it was a choice. It was a conscious commitment. It was something you choose to make work every day with a person who has chosen the same thing. They all said that at one point in their marriage, the “feeling of love” had vanished or faded and they weren’t happy. They said feelings are always changing and you cannot build something that will last on such a shaky foundation.

The married ones said that when things were bad, they chose to open the communication, chose to identify what broke and how to fix it, and chose to recreate something worth falling in love with.

The divorced ones said they chose to walk away.

Ever since that class, since that project, I never looked at relationships the same way. I understood why arranged marriages were successful. I discovered the difference in feelings and commitments. I’ve never gone for the person who makes my heart flutter or my head spin. I’ve chosen the people who were committed to choosing me, dedicated to finding something to adore even on the ugliest days.