✨chaos✨

Need more completely unhinged platonic friendships. If one of them isn't screaming, "YOU DON'T DIE UNTIL I SAY YOU DIE!" while actively bringing the other back to life, then what are we even doing here?

this disability pride month lets be kinder to folks with moral ocd . no more “if you really care about this minority , you’ll reblog this post” , “someone will die if you don’t reblog this” , etc etc , and all other kinds of guilt tripping reblog bait . at the VERY LEAST tag your reblog bait so we can filter it out and avoid unnecessary spirals . it’s 2026 , we need to move past using guilt to get engagement .

I’ve legit seen people who say that having these spirals makes you a good person and that trying to manage your mental health at all makes you a bad person it’s fucking dire man.

It's not binary like gender, like A and B, it's way more of a this or that situation!

wonder if there's a word for that

I fully support loving a characters’ rights and wrongs (specifically womens’), etc etc, however I think the one thing that Jim’s love and criticism both fail to address is that he’s a wonderful dad but a terrible husband

i genuinely try to stay compose and not tweak out over it but it's so discouraging that people only want to interact with us black people and our issues from a 10 ft pole while claiming to be our allies. it's performativity like that that gets us put in danger + drowns our voices out, it's why I keep asking y'all to boost black voices. not just mine, but the black people around you. especially your friends or family.

*lying in bed next to a corpse of someone i loved and stroking its hair in a way that makes you hesitant to point it out to me, either because i haven't realised yet and you'd be forcing me to confront a level of grief that you're not sure you can handle, or because i might smile calmly and tell you that i already know and you're not prepared to deal with that either*

i think there is a difference between a knowingly flawed character and a thematically uncomfortable character and knowing the difference is half the battle

in my experience dpdr has been such an overlooked part of my dysfunction whenever I brought it up with psych-adjacent "professionals". I was repeatedly told that "oh it's just a symptom of depression, when depression gets better dpdr will go away :)" when it never fucking did? I used to track my dpdr with mood and they did not correlate. and it was almost my chief complaint for such a long time.

this post has become a regular part of my vocabulary and is now all I can think of when talking about From