*Squeaks*

So I am one of the unfortunate souls who goes nonverbal whenever I get severely stressed out and/or self-loathing (because I think I screwed something up between me and my partner)

SO,

To help others out  who have possibly had this issue (or have a partner who have this issue), here’s some tips that might help you!

BE PATIENT! Give them time to formulate words. Give them time to ground themselves. Don’t get mad at them if it’s only a 1-5 word response, and/or they stutter. They are TRYING to speak to you, but their anxiety is preventing them.

Ask questions that will be simple “yes” or “no” answers. This requires precision with your words (for example: “ Do you want me to hug you? Do you want me to put a blanket around you?”).

Offer them a notepad with writing utensil. If they can’t speak for whatever reason, they might be able to write down what is on their mind. There are some applications out there that helps individuals who are nonverbal

Give them something cold to hold that has texture (such as an orange).This can help ground the individual and bring them back to reality.

After the incident, offer to talk about it in a safe, comfortable setting. Your partner might be able to better talk about the specific incident after the incident has taken place. They will have had time to process what had happened. 

I was thinking about how they made that virtual reality art game where you can draw in 3D and I had the thought that what if they made a game sort of like Drawn to Life? But you can draw the entire world!

Like There would be an option to draw an NPC that has premade joints (that you could move based on what your making) or presets if it’s an animal, human, etc. And you would draw on those points to create a character that can move each joint according to what they are doing.

people who understand your need for little space are angels.

I have had friends laugh at my bunny pajamas,

or tell me to put my stuffy away.

but there is no shame in being little!

remember, even if you don’t have a daddy at your side,

you can be little.

if you need to hold a stuffy, play,

if you need a break from adult stuff,

Male littles exist!

Androgynous littles exist!

Tattooed littles exist!

POC littles exist!

Plus size littles exist!

Transitioning folk/other LGBTQ+ littles exist!

Non-sexual littles exist!

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

They’re valid too!!!!!

I kinda wanna talk about a thing I’m excited about, if you guys don’t mind. I don’t know if any of you guys pay attention to my tags, but every once in a while I tag something as Little Town.

Little Town is a pet project of mine that I’m quite fond of and have been working on for years and it’s almost ready to get on the ground.

So basically it’s a complex for Littles/Ageplayers/ABDL/Pet players and located in Central Florida near all the theme parks.

It would have weekend and weeklong retreats where Littles could be taken care of in their littlespace, and even have special therapy weekends with therapists to make it a super healing weekend.

And it would also have rooms that could be rented out for people that live and work in the area and want a safe place to live. And even a program for disabled littles who can’t work but perhaps can make crafts or volunteer time to take care of paying littles so it’s as accessible as possible.

And it would just be a giant house with playrooms, bunk rooms, and a tree house and playset in the backyard. And all the stuff is sized so you guys can run around and play and stuff.

And I haven’t even been able to talk about the Petplay kennels and training programs, and little School, and Scouts, and the Protection Program, and meew.

And so basically. It’s hard to sum it all up in just a couple of words. But it’s like all thought out, in a business plan, numbers all worked out. But the problem is that if I do this it’s gonna cost everything I have financially and more, and I definitely couldn’t do it by myself.

So… I’m asking the little community on this. Is this something you guys want? Is this something y'all can support and back me up on?

I worry that it’s just fantasy. Some niche thing that wouldn’t survive or maybe just put people at risk and I don’t wanna do that.

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