𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐒𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐃 𝐄𝐌𝐏𝐑𝐄𝐒𝐒

so, long story short, as many of you know by now, I was in a relationship ship with my now ex husband for 9 years, for 6 of those years, I have been supporting us financially. We live severely pay check to pay check, have two elderly cats, and I decided it was in my best interest that I cannot do that anymore. So I left him.

Until he’s able to find somewhere to go, I still have to pay for everything, and I’m currently behind on two bills that total up to $158.

I am very torn up about this situation even though it was my choice. I would like to *maybe* try and save up about $200 so I can pay those off and also … I don’t know. Get myself something nice, as selfish as that sounds. I’m really going through it.

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💝 Family headcanon about our muses.

💖  Friendship headcanon about our muses.

💢 Enemy headcanon about our muses.

💕 Soulmate headcanon about our muses.

💗  Domestic headcanon about our muses.

❣  Your choice of headcanon about our muses.

For Yamamoto

[Original reblogged on my other blog] ||Accepting|| @squaletta

[Romantic HC]

I personally HC that it's when Yamamoto had to officially give up baseball (for mafia reasons) is when Squaletta would've started paying more attention to him to begin liking him romantically. It's when you see him truly put his all into swordsmanship that you get to see how he is when he puts all of his effort into something.

Yes, it's said when he trained with Squaletta before in the TYL arc that he put all his energy and effort into the sword, but he said it then: when it's done, I'm going back to baseball. That's not something to forget, so I feel like it was only until he officially went 100% into the sword is when she really started paying attention to the heart and soul he put into it. That's the vibe that I get, and I could be wrong, but I feel like timing-wise it would make sense since he'd be an adult by then.

[Family HC]

She has definitely met his father and they get along, and Tsuyoshi can trust Yamamoto in her care, because it's pretty evident from the start that she was the more skilled swordsperson. Yamamoto just has to keep training over the years before that can balance out some more.

[Friendship HC]

Something tells me that it took time for them to really get used to and accept eachother's 'friends'. Squaletta still kinda looked at the Vongola brats with a side stare, but later comes to really accept them for their skill and power. Yamamoto took time to accept Xanxus after seeing the way he treated the other Varia officers in the Varia Ring arc, and how he treats Squaletta. That really made a big impression on him and he really disliked him for a very long time. He just always kept quiet because he knows Xanxus is someone important to her.

[Enemy HC]

When they were 'enemies' so to speak during the Varia Rings arc, Squaletta probably looked down on him a lot and didn't care for him, but Yamamoto just looked at her like an opponent to overcome. He didn't have hatred or anything in him at the time. Just a desire to beat for the sake of not only himself, but his friends.

[Soulmate HC]

If they were soulmates in any fashion, I think it would be in the way that they're both very passionate about things. Her with the way of the sword and him with both baseball and the sword. Eventually, he did have to give up baseball for mafia reasons, and you really get to see how they're more like-minded in that way.

[Domestic HC]

I could be wrong, but I get the feeling if they either visit and are a guest at eachother's place, they just feel uneasy doing nothing, so they do probably try to be helpful in some ways. Like, i'll help set the table, or let me help with getting some things ready for dinner. I'll tidy up this room a little bit. Neither of them strike me as people who feel comfortable staying still for very long.

What this translates to is, because they eventually become so at ease in knowing where everything is, it just becomes their second home so naturally even before they'd start dating.

[Random HC]

💝 Family headcanon about our muses.

💖  Friendship headcanon about our muses.

💢 Enemy headcanon about our muses.

💕 Soulmate headcanon about our muses.

💗  Domestic headcanon about our muses.

❣  Your choice of headcanon about our muses.

(for Dino)

[Original reblogged on my other blog] ||Accepting|| @squaletta

[Romantic HC]

Despite his Casanova kinda ways, Dino is actually quite serious when it comes to relationships. He may flirt and things with people, but it never crosses a certain threshold. It's just easier to deal with people if they don't think to see past his Casanova ways.

When he truly does care for someone, he's a lot more honest and upfront about it. Sure, flirting can still be there as a way to tease, but he's very upfront about his feelings if he wants to announce it. Not sure if she's notice this fact early on or not, but kekek

[Family HC]

If they ever do become and official couple, I do think that Dino would at one point bring her to a school for a random tour and point through a window and introduce his mom who had split from his father because she couldn't handle the mafia life. So she was given an out. They may have parted ways, but they still care for each other. she's the biggest factor as to why the Cavallone famiglia is so strict on public safety of the civilians. His mother is one and he'd be damned if anyone hurts her.

It's very rare that he does this, but it's just a small thing that he does to check in on her, and she gets to see that he's still well because they don't have any direct correspondence. Maybe, if she's lucky, she'd look over at the right time to see Squaletta. She'd be smart enough to understand why Dino would bring someone over to see her from afar.

[Friendship HC]

I like to think that they had a chaotic kind of friendship during their school years. He was a bit of a mess and she'd tease him for that, much to his chagrin. She never went too far as she did have some respect for an upcoming mafia boss by blood, but it's too easy to mess with clumsiness incarnate.

[Enemy HC]

Even if they ever had to stand on opposite sides to fight eachother, there seems to be a bit of hesitation that you see in canon. Not that they really hesitate to fight, but that they both acknowledge the skills of the other and know that it won't be a simple fight. You really have to have to resolve to want to fight this battle in seriousness, and that would mean possibly really harming someone you cared for in your past. If there was a way to get out of it, they would, but if their pride was on the line? They'd act without mercy as a sign of respect. That's how I see it.

[Soulmate HC]

He doesn't believe in soulmates because his mother thought that his father was that for her, but it turned out he was mafia and she just couldn't acclimate or accept it. Neither parent ever fell in love with anyone else, so neither remarried. It feels like they were meant for each other as they could never find anyone else... and yet... they couldn't be together. If so, soulmates do not necessitate a happy ending, and he'd rather not see it that way.

He prefers to view it as a journey to traverse alongside another person who shares your ideals. You fight life together and see things to the end.

[Domestic HC]

I laugh at the idea that if they were living together for a mission or what, you'd really see that he could make for a good house husband. His mother made sure that he'd be able to fend for himself before sending him off to the mafia. He can cook and clean for himself, though it takes him a bit more time with how clumsy he can be.

[Random HC]

💖  Friendship headcanon about our muses.

💗  Domestic headcanon about our muses.

❣  Your choice of headcanon about our muses.

(for Xanxus)

[Original reblogged on my other blog] ||Accepting|| @squaletta

[Family HC]

They both have troubled history when it comes to family, so I think both of them don't have very good opinions on things like family. They probably wouldn't regard the Varia members as found family or anything like that. They just view each other as partners who have been through shit.

[Friendship HC]

Despite everything, Xanxus does somewhat see Squaletta as something like a friend. He more or less does accept the fact as he gets older and his rage does calm down some. Would he ever verbalize that he sees her as something like a friend and not someone that can be tossed aside when she is useless to his plans? Nope.

[Domestic HC]

I suppose you can say that the way they run the Varia can count as domestic. Squaletta is kept busy because of all the work she has to do because he doesn't like being bothered with such boring tasks. The important stuff he'll oversea, but things like reading reports and stuff? All on her. She can summarize everything in a single sentence and report to him. That's enough.

As he gets older and his rage calms some, he does involve himself in more of the logistics and such. I feel like this is what happened and I'd hazard a guess that it was her way of trying to support him when she knew he was going through a lot emotionally and mentally. Being frozen for that many years is no easy feat. Having to acclimate to now being much older... that's not easy. Deep down he's grateful but mostly he thinks that it was her job to support. Entitled prick, yes. lol

[Random HC]

[Original reblogged on my other blog] ||Accepting|| @squaletta

Shake hands

Hold hands

Sit close enough their legs touch but only if it’s packed

Sit close enough their legs touch even if it’s not packed

Kiss on the hand

Kiss on the cheek/forehead

Kiss on the lips/neck If she'd let me, I'd go for it

French kiss If she lets me do above, why stop there?

Hug as a greeting

Hug just cause

Cuddle

Change clothes in front of them Just a shirt or something

Be nude in non-sexual context e.g. sauna, gym showers

Take a shower while the other is in the bathroom

Wear each other’s outer clothes e.g. jackets She could borrow my jacket, but I couldn't wear hers

Wear each other’s inner clothes e.g. shirt She could borrow my shirt if, but the reverse isn't possible. She'd kill me if I ruined her shirts

Wear each other’s undergarments

Wear matching outfits/Couples costumes

Sleep in the same room/tent

Sleep in the same bed

Sleep all cuddled up

Have a coffee out together

Have a dinner out together

Go to a commonly considered 'romantic’ dating spot together

Play strip poker/truth or dare/other games that might lead to kissing/nudity

Dance together

Dance together sensually

Have a casual one night stand

Sleep with no strings attached

Help with raising a child

Hold hands

Sit close enough their legs touch but only if it’s packed

Sit close enough their legs touch even if it’s not packed

Kiss on the hand

Kiss on the cheek/forehead

Kiss on the lips/neck

French kiss

Hug as a greeting

Hug just cause

Cuddle

Change clothes in front of them

Be nude in non-sexual context e.g. sauna, gym showers

Take a shower while the other is in the bathroom

Wear each other’s outer clothes e.g. jackets I am okay with stealing his clothes.

Wear each other’s inner clothes e.g. shirt I want to see what he'll look like in my shirt. Like an idiot. XD

Wear each other’s undergarments

Wear matching outfits/Couples costumes

Sleep in the same room/tent

Sleep in the same bed

Sleep all cuddled up

Have a coffee out together

Have a dinner out together

Go to a commonly considered 'romantic’ dating spot together

Play strip poker/truth or dare/other games that might lead to kissing/nudity

Dance together

Dance together sensually

Have a casual one night stand

Sleep with no strings attached

Help with raising a child

💕 Soulmate headcanon about our muses.

💗  Domestic headcanon about our muses.

❣  Your choice of headcanon about our muses.

(for Rosa)

[Original] ||Accepting|| @squaletta

[Friendship HC]

I get this feeling that they are friends, but both have some hang ups about defining their relationship as such. So, they do view eachother as friends, but won't call it as such, because it just somehow feels so lacking as a word. Their bond is a bit complex for that as they are technically superior and subordinate within Varia ranks, but also have a sisterly kind of bond, and they can feel safe with one another as they've both gone through their own share of traumas. On Haru's end she's just like 'I don't know what relationship I have with the vice-commander, but 'friendship' feels too weak for that.' People can see that their bond is strong, but they just can't see to what extent.

[Soulmate HC]

Hm... if their souls were bound in some way, I'd say it was in a kindred-familial kind of way rather than romantic- is the vibe that I'm getting. They really somehow gravitated towards the other and view the other as like a sister and want to support the other in any way that they can. Will be fiercely protective of the other if the situation calls for it, and will try to help the other heal- even if they don't realize they need healing.

[Domestic HC]

Does the fact that sometimes Haru will arrive to help Squaletta clean up when Xanxus gets angry and start throwing things around count? Most of it comes from the fact that Haru can't stand messes, but another part of it is that she just wants to ensure that Squaletta is okay physically or emotionally. In the same vein, I feel like if Squaletta heard that Haru was extra mad or sensitive one day, she'd make it a point to check in on her. Maybe at one point down the line, they try to find a day every month to just relax and enjoy the pleasantries of life. Be away from all the guys who are a pain in the ass. Just relax for a bit.

[My choice of HC]

[ N/SFW version here! ]

what’s the best thing about shipping for you?

what’s the worst thing about shipping for you?

do you have a pet peeve when it comes to shipping?

do you prefer to plot a ship, or would you rather “wing it”?

do you prefer fast plots, pre-enstablished relationships or slow burns?

do you have any ship bias with your muse?

what do you think about OC x canon ships? would you play any?

what do you think about self insert x canon ships? would you play any?

what do you think about crossover ships? would you play any?

what do you think about poly ships? would you play any?

do you have any popular ships?

do you ship any rarepair?

do you multiship?

would you rather ship only with mutuals, or are you open for everyone?

what’s your OTP when it comes to your muse?

what’s your NOTP when it comes to your muse?

what’s your BROTP when it comes to your muse?

is there a ship you used to like, but not anymore?

is there a ship you used to dislike, but now you like?

is there a ship you wanted to play, but couldn’t yet?

what’s something that immediately turns you off from shipping with someone?

is there any ship you will likely never play? (apart from the obvious in/cest, pe/dophilia etc, i want to believe you guys are Good)

have you ever been pushed to ship something?

have you dropped a ship in the past? why?

did you ever play a breakup?

did you ever play a hateship?

did you ever play a wedding?

would you play a “bitter exes” relationship?

would you play as a cheater, or with someone cheating on your muse?

is there any “unconventional” relationship you play, or you would like to?

do you have a favorite memory when it comes to rping a ship?

do you have a least favorite memory when it comes to rping a ship?

what’s the first ship you played?

is your muse flirty?

how would your muse react to someone flirting with them?

how many relationships did your muse have?

how does your muse handle breakups?

how easily does your muse get crushes?

does your muse have a celebrity crush?

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🤔 I want to write with you, but I don't know how our muses might interact

💡 I have a plot idea for our muses

😕 I want to ship with you, but our muses have never interacted

😔 I want to ship with you, but I don't know if you're interested

❤ I want us to be mains

💞 I want us to be exclusives

💍 I want us to be ship exclusive

💘 I want to discuss romantic ships with you

💚 I want to discuss platonic ships with you

🖤 I want to discuss hate ships with you

💜 I want to discuss familiar ships with you

😇 Can you write a starter for our muses, please?

😄 Can you send me some memes, please?

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🌟 You're my favorite blog

😊 We should talk more OOC

😓 There's a thread I'm waiting for you to reply, but I don't want to feel like I'm rushing you

😬 I want to send you a meme about (x), is it okay?

❣ I want to write fluff with you

👄 I want to write romance with you

🔥 I want to write smut with you

😭 I want to write angst with you

😱 I want to write horror with you

🤩 I WANT TO WRITE EVERYTHING WITH YOU