i think people are misunderstanding what a “mean femme” is supposed to mean because no it’s not attractive or funny to be mean to butches/studs/mascs and talk about us like we’re ugly, dumb and think being the femme means you are allowed to talk to me however way you want to
i don’t know where the confusion happened but ummmm no i’m not going to allow someone to yell at me or treat me mean just bc i’m the butch and can “handle it”
“mean femmes” are supposed to be mean to those who are being lesbophobic/mean to butches/transphobic/etc. it doesn’t mean verbally abuse butch lesbians
i see this so often and it really irritates me so many people including other lesbians are just so mean to gnc lesbians
i love femmes don’t get me wrong but some femmes i see seriously are just mean towards us ESPECIALLY if they aren’t attracted to butches
maybe some people like that level of attitude or maybe i am sensitive but butches can be sensitive too