You misunderstood. If I'm considering someone as a dominant partner, I'm looking for things like confidence, presence, self control, competence and emotional stability. If a person has unresolved hang ups about their size and lets that insecurity drive the interaction, then that changes the energy of the dynamic for me. And I’d be less inspired to submit. If those qualities aren’t there then I’m more likely to take a dominant role myself since that’s where I lean. This is what works for me, it is not a rule about who can and can’t be dominant, and definitely not a statement that smaller men should be submissive.

If they have hang ups on their size then probably not, they can submit to me. My submission in general needs to be earned

Thank you sweet bby moot 💗