Im Almost Happy

I know this makes a lot of people uncomfortable but some things really are unforgivable and I think the world would be kinder to survivors to be able to acknowledge that, however difficult. That doesn’t mean the person who did something unforgivable is inherently and permanently evil or inhuman. It doesn’t even mean that they can’t meaningfully change their values and actions going forward. They might have the potential to become someone who is genuinely compassionate and trustworthy. But it means that they have done something which cannot be rectified or healed or fixed. Some things cannot be. They are done and we all must live with it and grieve that it will always be done and can never be undone.

If 2/2/22 falls on a Tuesday it could also be known as “2’s Day”

*pushes tear back into eye* not now

be nice to people because the world is a shitty place and we all need a little help sometimes

I need to go on a 6 hour drive and just zone out and listen to music