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I wanted to tell you that it's okay to just feel what you need to feel. You don't need to be strong all the time, happy all the time, or always confident. Just try not to show it around other people because many people take advantage of your situation and wish it would get worse. Today I realized that even though I've achieved everything I wanted and am living the best phase of my life, things still cross my mind. It hurts to realize that I'm actually lonely, it hurts to know that we can't always trust people. But even in those moments, I remember that I have myself. I know I can get through anything alone, and I know that if that's your case, you can too. Take care of yourself, relax... everything always works out in the end. Try not to think about too many things, especially the negative ones.

Here's a tip for you, muses🪷

whenever you distance yourself from someone, get into a fight with someone, or something happens between you and someone, if someone asks you something related to the situation, don't answer!

Have you noticed how you always come across as the villain in other people's stories from the moment you start to love yourself? When you stop accepting the bare minimum, put people in their place, and prioritize yourself, many people change towards you or even distort the story to make you look bad.

When I was younger, I cared a lot about what people would think of me and my behavior. I had terrible friends and every day I was sad, I didn't take care of myself... until I realized that if I distanced myself from everyone, blocked those who didn't like me and started to love myself, everything would change.

And that's what I did. I distanced myself from everyone, I changed every aspect of my life. Nowadays I feel absolutely nothing for anyone and I can distance myself from or remove people from my life very easily. I understood that every day and every moment matters. I started living for myself.

Nowadays I've even managed to improve my depression and, as I said in another post, I'm in my best phase. I hope that if any of you are going through this, you understand that you should love yourselves and stop living for others. If they speak badly of you, it's because they notice you. Stop seeking validation.

🪽If, like me, you're a hardworking muse, here are some tips to improve your productivity, appearance, and performance:

1. Regulate your sleep. Go to bed early. Have dinner 1 hour before bed, and from then on, avoid using any technology for the rest of the night. When we use our cell phones, TV, or computers before bed, our brain doesn't rest; it stays alert.

2. Get ready for bed. Take a relaxing bath, do some skincare, put on comfortable and warm pajamas. Make your bed and make it your own, get your room ready for your arrival.

3- Preparation. When you wake up, don't go straight to your phone. Stretch your back, drink water, and get ready. A tip: wake up at a good time so you have time to do everything calmly. And for those who wear makeup like me, try using basic makeup that lasts all day. Don't forget to apply setting powder. Before leaving home, remember that you stand out, you are beautiful, you smell good, you are intelligent, and you can achieve anything you want!

I waited for more than 5 hours to be seen in just 10 minutes. What matters is that your diva (me) is in optimal health❤️‍🩹

I'm so annoyed at having to wait so long to be seen at this hospital that I'll be seeing everyone soon lol

So because of that, as soon as I get home I'm going to make a series of posts🪷

Anyway, I'm still beautiful🤍

-🪷First: oil. Body oils, hair oils, face oils... just use them! Buy from good brands and highlight grape seed, avocado, tea tree, and rosehip oils. For the face, opt for an almond-based oil

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-🍒Second: basic skincare does work! Just have a facial cleanser (I use Payot for sensitive skin), sunscreen, and facial moisturizer. Focus on products that are suitable for your skin type, cut out sugar (only consume fruit juices), and completely eliminate fried foods and fast food from your life. Eat them occasionally, but I recommend really savoring the flavor.

-🐅third: Makeup and accessories. Makeup is meant to enhance our beauty, not to completely change us! You are all beautiful and your features are captivating. Use makeup that truly makes you look like you're wearing makeup, but don't overdo it! If you suffer from acne, blackheads, or pimples, prepare your skin well and use waterproof, moisturizing makeup, and be gentle with your face. Remember that you don't need a 100% model-like face to be beautiful.

-❤️‍🩹Forth: Music! I know it sounds silly, but believe me, music helps you stay in a good mood, feel beautiful, and change your aura. Listen to positive music; it can even be rap, trap, K-pop, pop... it just needs to make you think that in a crowded room, you ARE the best. (You know you are)

If you have any questions, please don't be shy and ask me without fear!