Another advice for girls and young women: love and sex is supposed to be fun, happy and make your life better. If it’s not, if it’s making you miserable, if it’s making you love yourself less, if it’s making you doubt yourself, and if you feel like you have to sacrifice yourself or put up with things you don’t want to, you are absolutely entitled to throw it out from your life. In fact, you should, because your life is so, so valuable and you have the right to be happy. Being a girl does not mean having to accept misery and pain, even if that’s what we’re often taught. You are allowed to decide what comes into your life. Let it be happy and beautiful.

You have survived every moment of your life, even the ones you swore you wouldn’t. This time is no different; you will last.

i think it’s really cute how on some level we all kind of believe in magic. you can practically wish upon anything whether it’s a shooting star, a fallen eyelash, or even a dandelion. somehow kissing your true love is bound to save the day. cool rocks and flowers can be used for different kinds of magic. even just the concept of people who can conduct magic is adorable. the belief in magic is literally apart of everyday life whether you choose to see it or not and if that’s not the cutest shit idek what is

ok this is actually cool bc doing all of this is a technique called “mindful thinking” that is extremely useful for people with anxiety disorders and dissociation disorders and stuff!

mindfulness sounds like bullshit when you first hear about it but by god it feels like somebody took pushpins and reconnected my soul to my body it feels like the exact opposite of dissociation and it’s so so good for anxiety

wow, “somebody took pushpins and reconnected my soul to my body” is my new favorite way to describe how mindfulness feels

I hope you will find a job that fulfills you, friends that understand you, and love that completes you.

Still tryin to heal from things I don’t speak about

Never trust a man who makes fun of fat women

enjoy the short term!!! sometimes ur not gonna be friends for 46 years and that’s ok, just enjoy the drive!!! some people aren’t gonna have a significant impact in ur life but not every show is a TedTalk, sometimes u needs some Real Housewives!!’ loosen up, the universe is rearing to explode and if that bix isn’t permanent herself, you’ve got nothing to lose! forever is an illusion

bro, i dont even care anymore. fuck it! *continues to try very hard*

I hope the next thing I get addicted to is taking care of my self and loving my body