Be ready for when it gets better

another one i’m not sure if i could upload to soundsofpleasure so i do it here (and also i’m too lazy, tbh) 

Kink is meant to be fun. It is meant to be enjoyed by all parties involved. There's a lot of romantic symbolism in suffering for your D/s but in reality, if the s-type isn't finding joy in the scenes you do, you need to make changes to it.

Having limits or complicated feelings about certain (even common) kinks does not make you a less worthy submissive. The power exchange is granted by the sub, not taken by the Dom.

Feel free to play the music posted and scroll anytime you need a calm headspace to relax

Breathe deep and stay hydrated

Take care of yourself lovelies

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Doms DO NOT actually own their Subs. A submissive can set any boundaries and conditions that they want. That's called consent. Consent is sexy. Consent is cool. Consent is all important. And if a submissive is upset with any part of a power exchange they are in no way a "bad submissive" for speaking the fuck up and establishing that damn boundary. The feelings of BOTH parties are important. Communication is vital.

And Doms.... FFS... Doms pay fucking attention to your partner. It's literally your whole damn job is to pay attention. If your sub partner is upset - it should be your responsibility to 1) notice and 2) figure out why and how to help correct the situation. Everybody makes mistakes (fuck I still make TONS of mistakes) but strive to always do better. Always make sure you are watching the feelings of your partners. Take check points. Ask if things are going well and if everyone is okay. You have an upper hand. They have gifted you themselves and made vulnerable hidden things. That vulnerability can both entice, please, and bring joy but it can also hurt, depress, and devastate when used incorrectly. Eyes open. Be better.

You can absolutely safeword during a punishment.