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“Forget about having an identity crisis and get some identity capital. … Do something that adds value to who you are. Do something that’s an investment in who you might want to be next.”

“We think that by avoiding decisions now, we keep all of our options open for later–but not making choices is a choice all the same.”

“There is a certain terror that goes along with saying “My life is up to me.” It is scary to realize there’s no magic, you can’t just wait around, no one can really rescue you, and you have to do something. Not knowing what you want to do with your life—or not at least having some ideas about what to do next—is a defense against that terror. It is a resistance to admitting that the possibilities are not endless. It is a way of pretending that now doesn’t matter. Being confused about choices is nothing more than hoping that maybe there is a way to get through life without taking charge.”

ALL OF THIS ugh my heart

Don’t allow for the heat of the moment to burn your inner stillness. Breathe. You are in control. There is no amount of anger that is able to overcome you.

If you feel stuck in life or unsure about where you’re going:

me watching the fight scene in Striking Vipers: haha, what if they fucked right now wouldn’t that be crazy?