look at you, being my biggest fan 🥰 also way to ban me after i call you out for your hypocrisy rather than try to defend yourself. the only thing that ended badly was you, cunty 💁♀️
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"Call you out for hypocrisy" brother in christ that's literally the softest insult in the english language, be for real. Y'all defending an ableist and target me for saying nuts, lol. Zzz estos me los como de desayuno.
brother bear. can’t be ableist against something that’s not a disability, silly head
Thanks for the heads up, doctor. I didn't know a personality disorder that is medically studied because it has effects in peoples mental health, isn't a disability. Silly me, studying medicine all these years when i could just ask @ sniv-vy to tell me about psychiatry and how ilnesses work !!!!!
boy, sit down and shut your mouth you’re not even a med student, you’re a tumblrina lmfao
You don't need a psych degree to know that PDs (personality DISORDERS) are disabilities. I think you're just being purposefully dense and salty that you and your friend got called out for being ableist
how is it being ableist to share one’s experience with a narcissist that paints said narcissist in a bad light?
Because you're implying that it's EVERY narcissist. Someone can be an abuser and not have NPD, just like someone can have NPD and not be an abuser. The implication that "narc abuse" is a real, valid thing is the same as saying "autism abuse " or "generalised anxiety abuse" are real
Get a grip
okay except narc abuse is a real thing??? where did you even come from anyway lmfao get off this post and go do something productive like your homework
Narc abuse is a term made up by ableists like yourself. Would you call me ableist for saying I've experienced borderline abuse? I bet you would. Just because someone has a personality disorder doesn't mean they're abusive. I think this whole conversation is indicative that you have some serious internalised ableism that you need to reflect on.
Also, deflecting the valid arguments I'm making by saying "do your homework" just shows how emotionally immature you really are. You're (supposedly) a grown adult, yet can't handle valid criticism of your actions and instead resort to middle school comebacks.
If anyone should be doing something more productive, it's you doing some soul searching.
no i would say that’s valid because everyone is capable of abuse.
how about you reflect on and search deez nuts
You're right, anyone is capable of abuse.
So why label it with a disorder? Especially one you're not even sure the abuser had? Sounds like you're just looking for an excuse to perpetuate ableist rhetoric. Both you and your friend need to seek help, since this kind of behaviour is clearly poorly masked self hatred.
actually it’s bare unmasked hatred of narcissists because my friend was abused by one 💅
You do realise that NPD and BPD have a lot of symptom overlap, correct? They're in the same cluster for a reason.
You cannot be one to talk about "getting to know someone before making ableist generalisations" when that's all you've spent the last hour or so doing.
Plus, like I said, she said herself that he wasn't diagnosed. You cannot armchair diagnose someone with a disorder you don't like just because you want to rationalise your hatred for both them and the disorder.
Also, I thought you were going to bed? What happened to being the bigger person and doing something more productive?
you want to sleep with me so bad that it makes you look stupid lmfao get off my blog
I'm a gay man LOL
Just say you don't have an actual argument and that you enjoy being ableist for the love of the game. At least then people might have some sort of respect for your honesty. No point in guarding your dignity when there was clearly nothing to guard in the first place.
okay sure, i’ll say it: i hate narcissists because my friend was abused by one
You hate narcissists because popular media told you that's the correct option to have and you're scared that you share similarities with them. You need to learn to think for yourself and not just what media and your friends tell you to think.
girl i literally hate narcissists because they’re all terrible and one of them abused my friend, like i said??? like be so for real, name one “popular media” that even mentions narcissism let alone paints it incorrectly
You can say that all you want, but no one believes you. I'm sure not even you fully believe that's why you hate them. Genuinely, seek therapy for your own internalised ableism. If you can't handle getting called out to the point that you continue responding to people with non-arguments and insults for nearly 24 hours, you don't belong on the internet, let alone mental health support groups.
You and your friend were banned for a valid reason, you just can't handle being wrong.
Also that's my bad, I misspoke. I meant to say popular culture, not popular media, though I'm sure that's applicable as well.
“no one believes you” girlfriend you and i are the only ones here lmfaooooo
i fully believe i narcissists for being shitty abusers because they are. you just can’t stand that someone hates people like you because all people like you care about is being worshipped by everyone
There actually are a few people keeping up with this thread believe it or not. Just because they're not replying doesn't mean there aren't people reading and talking about it without you there to see it.
Also I'm not a narcissist. Never been diagnosed with NPD and I never will, since it was ruled out during my psych evaluations. Jumping to calling me a narcissist just because I'm against ableism towards other personality disorders really does show how deep your own self hatred and bigotry goes.
Like I've been saying, seek therapy and stay out of mental health support spaces until you get your ableism under control.
can’t be ableist against something that’s not a disability pumpkin.
also note i never called you a narcissist, just said “people like you”. you’re jumping to conclusions based on me stereotyping you which if anything shows your own ableism, if we’re playing that game.
Refer back to my initial reblog about how it's common knowledge that personality DISORDERS are in fact disabilities.
And we both know what you were implying with that statement, don't feign ignorance just because you don't have an actual point to make.
let me know when someone gets disability payments for being a narcissist lmfaooooo
i’m not feigning anything sweetums, just stating facts ☺️ my point remains what it always has been which is narcissists are shitty and shouldn’t engage in society until they get serious help for their abusive behaviors. they can probably be rehabilitated, but the first step to that is owning up to your faults and taking accountability for them
The legal and medical definitions for disability are two seperate concepts, though I'm sure you know that and are just looking to make yet another ableist statement.
You of all people cannot be one to talk about owning up to faults and taking accountability. You have spent this entire thread deflecting, making ad hominem attacks, and defending an objectively indefensible stance.
You have responded to and twisted every statement I've made except for the ones about your own recovery. Your own self importance and ignorance will get you nowhere in this discussion or in life overall.
Educate yourself outside of tumblr discourse and pop culture definitions of what a narcissist is, get therapy, and stay out of supportive spaces until you can acknowledge and take accountability for your own ableism.
*separate
i think i’m doing a pretty good job of defending a perfectly defensible stance tbh. and besides that, there’s not a single thing i need to “recover” from. all you’ve done is tell me i need therapy and call me an ableist when i myself have a true disability, not that it’s any of your business.
and btw, i’ll go wherever i damn well please💁
You've done nothing to make an actual, defendable point. You just keep making the same statement with no evidence or actual argument to back it up. You clearly do have something to recover from if you're in PD support groups, whether you want to admit that or not.
Also, acting like having a "true disability" makes you immune to being ableist is, once again, just plain ignorance. That's called being a pick-me. Hating people with a disability that is closely related to yours won't make people who hate ALL personality disorders like you.
At least when I repeat my points, they're actual arguments and valid criticism. Yours have just been personal attacks and the same baseless statement.
mad because you fucked up your grammar, aren’t you sweetie?
not everyone in a support group is trying to recover from something and you can’t recover from a personality disorder anyway. again, you show your ass and your own ableism smdh
i don’t need to continue to justify anything to you or continue to defend my position to you. it’s been real. real what i’ll let you decide, but i for one had a great time. ✌️
