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(Modified from a very well thought out post by @m4mdiscipline. Most of the credit is his. My modifications were to remove whatever i disagreed with, add in some thoughts of my own, improve formatting and readability, and correct mistakes)

1. Get into his head

Learn his fantasies and what turns him on. Use this information to your advantage.

Find out what humiliates him, and to what level.

Make him show his loyalty to you regularly. Reward him when he does, even if it’s just with praise.

Aside from family, close friends, and work, give him minimal privacy. Don’t hide this process from him. Make him partake in handing it over to you in ways that demonstrate how he is “losing the privacy.”

2. Punish him for infractions, no exceptions!

Don’t let him get away with anything! When you let your sub get away with something, you are telling him that you don’t care for him and that what he did was ok.

You can spank, paddle, or whip him.

Humiliate him past what is easy for him.

Corner meditation time

Food restrictions

Write a short essay explaining why his behavior was wrong, or a report on some reading you assigned.

Ground him/take away privileges.

Make him do something he hates.

Get creative and make the punishment match the crime.

Never use separation or the threat of leaving/ending your control over him as a punishment. That is counterproductive to the end goal (trust and service) and is detrimental to the faggot.

3. Routinely discipline him. This is different than punishment.

Spank him at least once a week, just because you can. Not too hard, not too soft. For lots of subs, some pain can really help elevate their mode for the rest of the day or longer.

Humiliate him often.

Five to ten minutes of corner time can do wonders, to promote meditation.

Routine discipline will save you time and energy in the long run. You will have to punish him less as a result.

Taking care of you is an essential of his discipline. Have him do your laundry, cleaning, etc.

4. On some level, even if it’s small, keep your sub horny for you.

Talk sexy to him.

Sexualize nonsexual things or activities you are interested in. He will see whatever it is you’ve sexualized as such and be more interested and eager to engage.

Have your sub do some or all of your body grooming. This can be your bath, shower, nails, shaving, trimming, etc.

Tell him when and what you’re going to do to him in the near future.

Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual.

Make him give you orgasms. This is different from sex. This is a service.

Let him rest on you to smell you as you watch TV or read.

Give him underwear/items of yours to smell as he sleeps.

5. Control your own feelings of guilt.

When it comes to your control over your sub, be firm!

Some toughness will be needed from time to time to help break your sub down.

Your sub may not want everything you give him or do to him, but he needs it.

Letting your sub get away with insubordinate behavior because you feel guilty adequately addressing it is weak.

Sub faggots need a real man who is close to them to guide them. Sometimes real men need to show the fag that he is inferior. This can’t always be done by talking. And if it is done my talking, the talking can’t be politically correct/kind.

Humiliation/breaking him down, teaching him to serve long term, these are all things he needs. You are filling his needs.

Remember, you both need to be happy. But happiness comes from different places for different people. Where there is good communication, and your sub has communicated that he needs this life to be happy, then you are doing him a service and loving him by breaking him down and controlling him.

A good sub is hard to find. Don’t let the guilt of giving him what he needs stop you from doing so. What he needs may be overwhelming for him and he may break. If he does, be there for him.

6. Humiliate/degrade/break him down on some level daily, some days more than others.

Have him wear a butt-plug, perhaps Wi-Fi enabled, or with a hollow rattling core, or with a dangling bell.

Have him be naked or nearly so, around you and or your friends.

Make him wear a collar or other symbol of inferiority.

If he has trouble keeping his hands off his penis without permission, make him wear a chastity device.

Teach him commands or hand signals such as “drop to your knees,” “kiss my crotch,” etc. In public or with friends randomly call out a trick every now then. Make sure your sub does this flawlessly without hesitation.

Make him masturbate for you.

Slap him in the face.

Spit on him.

Treat him as an inferior in public, such as by carrying bags, opening doors, etc.

Make him eat his own cum sometimes.

Talk down to him in front of others.

7. Rearrange his life/time to better serve/please you. Make sure this does not interfere with his time with loved ones or work.

If you want to change his body to your liking, do so. Control his workouts, diet etc. Make sure to be realistic with this one.

Make sure he is available during some of your leisure time each week so he will be able to serve you during those times.

Put him on a sleeping schedule. Lots of fags are unable to adequately manage their sleep times. The better rested he is, the better he will serve you.

Go through his closet or dresser and set aside any clothing you don’t like him to be wearing.

Sign him up to learn new tasks or perfect tasks/skills that will help you, such as massage classes, cooking classes, pet care, etc.

Change his grooming habits to your liking.

8. Help your sub be grateful for everything he has. Make sure you are at the top of that list. One great way to do this is to deny him things. Yep, it’s time to say “No.” Subs need boundaries and saying “No” is a great way to help them with those boundaries.

You can take away certain foods, comforts, leisure time, sex, masturbation, etc.

Make him show his gratitude to you often. Faggots will show this to you in their own way. Most faggots will need some help/instruction on exactly how to show their gratitude to you.

Make him explain why he deserves something. If he can’t explain, take it from him.

You can take things/items from him that you know he does not need but likes. A caution here: Make sure he can afford for you to take them, and that they are not of sentimental value. Let him know from time to time that you enjoy something that you took from him.

Offer him a reward of getting to have something back. Make what you give him back relevant to what you make him do. 

9. None of these actions will work without real trust.

If your sub is your partner, let him know how much his sub-ass completes you and your power.

If your sub is not your partner, make sure you are real friends. Let him know you appreciate how his inferiority completes you. The more you two know about and do with each other, the more thoroughly you can control him.

Part of trust on the sub’s part is knowing you will follow through when you say you are going to do something to him or for him or are going to make him do something.  Follow through always.

 When a sub fully trusts you, he can submit to you his mind and privacy. Letting you go in and rearrange/manage his life.

Subs need constant reassurance. Let him know that no matter what, he is yours. If a serious sub feels disposable, he will look for another Dom who appreciates his surrender.

If your life is getting too hard for a bit or you need help with something, trust that your sub will be able to take over for you and act in your best interest until you are back in shape. Giving a sub this responsibility will either make him feel trusted and good, or upset that you are not actively controlling him 100% of the time. If he gets upset and does not step up and take over for you, he is not a right match for you.

Talk to your sub often. Ask him how he is feeling. Let him honestly know how you are feeling on anything and everything.

By taking things away from him, you are in a sense rewarding him when you give them back. Also, nothing he has is his forever. You need to retake things and privileges away from him periodically so he knows they are a privilege and not a right. Think of it like taking a food bowl away from a dog. Your sub needs to be docile enough that you can take his food away from him as he is eating. He will not make a fuss and will patiently wait until the food is returned.

So you think you’re a subhuman? If you have limits, things that must happen in order to play, or have any expectations of having a warm or friendly relationship with your dom, then you are a BDSM sub and NOT a subhuman. BDSM is based on the idea that the power exchange is safe, sane, and consensual…that limits are discussed and each scene is negotiated before it happens. It’s based on a mutuality that does not exist in a relationship between a master and a subhuman. If you are a true subhuman, then BDSM rules do not apply to you.  BDSM is “Let’s pretend.” This is the real thing.

1. You have no rights. When you offer yourself to your master, you relinquish all rights you have to what he does to you. He can do anything he pleases: hit you, torture your cock and balls, burn you with cigarettes, cut you, leave you chained for an indefinite time period, force you to publicly humiliate yourself. Your “limits” are the limits of his imagination.

2. You are property. Your master owns you. Everything you do in life is now secondary to your service to him, and will only be allowed to be pursued if he allows it. Your “he” pronoun will be replaced with “it.” You will refer to yourself as “it” instead of “I.” Forget he has a name…to you, he will always be “Sir” or “Master.”

3. He WILL hurt you. A sadist enjoys inflicting pain. Your job is to take whatever pain he plans to dish out.

4. You WILL eat disgusting things. Think of shit, piss, cigarette butts, food waste, and garbage as things you will be consuming as food and drink. If he’s really sadistic, add dog food to that menu as well. Not only will you eat those things, you will thank him every time he feeds them to you.

5. He is NOT your friend or your lover. Your master is not there to be kind to you, to consider your feelings and desires, or to treat you like an equal. This isn’t a BDSM scene that ends with a nice aftercare session, where he treats your marks and bruises before wining and dining you. When he’s done beating you, you go back into bondage wherever he has you stored when you are not in use. Forget having any feelings for him. They will not be returned. He will love and fuck anyone he wants, but it will not be you. The only thing you may get to experience from that is being fed the used condom when he’s done.

6. If he’s straight, you will NOT have access to his cock. Forget being used as a dick sucking machine. If he’s straight, he’s straight. He will torture your cock, but will not suck it. He will torture your ass, but will not fuck it. He will make you wear a device that will torture your dick as soon as it gets hard, just so that you don’t get the idea that he has any interest in pleasing you sexually.

7. If he’s gay or bi, you are simply a masturbation device. You will only suck his cock or be fucked by him when he can’t get it or doesn’t want it from a better source. With you, he knows he does not have to practice safe sex or wear a condom. He also knows he can just fuck you and then chain you back up when he’s done. He can also use you as a party favor for his friends, who also know they don’t have to wear condoms when they fuck you. As a subhuman, you accept any load you are given, poz or neg. Asking about status will get you severely punished.

8. There is no such thing as rape. All sex done to you by your Master or your Master’s friends is inherently consensual. As a subhuman, you have no right to refuse.

9. Life will get dull and boring most of the time. When you’re not in use, you are stored in what will likely be a hot, cold, smelly, untidy, and filthy place. This is where you will stay the majority of the time. You will have no books to read, no laptops, no television, no phones, nothing that isn’t specifically authorized by your Master. You will stare at walls for any hours you are not sleeping. And when it’s time to be used, it won’t matter whether you’re sleeping or not. Because as a subhuman, your comfort does not matter.

10. A subhuman is at peace with its reality. Unlike a BDSM sub, who goes back to a normal life once the scene is over, you know that your place is below that of humans. Nevertheless, you have a useful function in society. Violent men hurt you so that they don’t hurt people. Rapists rape you so that they don’t rape women. You help a person to show his best face to others because his worst face is reserved for you. Your servile and subhuman existence nurses the need of a person with low self-esteem to feel superior to something. The function that you serve is one no person ever wants to. But a true subhuman is at peace knowing that it has purpose and lays down and takes the beatings and the abuse gracefully.

I see lists like this that aren’t actually viable and find them so annoying and lacking real imagination.

Fantasies can have a time and place and I prefer to stay closer to things that can be an actual reality.

These are all things I would legitimately hate and wouldn’t blame my owner for doing to me because we both know I deserve nothing more and he enjoys torturing me and I want so desperately to entertain him and to earn his cum, whatever it takes.

I’m privileged that my owner already does some of these things as they are very helpful in keeping me in my place beneath him where I belong. Even though it’s hard to enjoy them, being able to demonstrate my devotion always feels good.

1. Ask it questions like, you know you’re stupid right? You know you’re ugly, yes? You do know that you’re worthless and nobody cares is you live or die?

2. Compare it to other cunts you fuck or see and make sure to keep it feeling insecure… my cunt’s cunt in so much tighter than yours pig, I love fucking her cunt… her cunt taste so good, I’d never put my mouth on your disgusting gash… my cunt actually knows how to use her mouth, yours is just good for fucking.

3. The first thing you do when you see your pig is spit on it’s face… the last thing you do before leaving is spit on it’s face.

4. Never call your pig by it’s name. Don’t call it her or she either. It’s a thing, property, not a person.

5. Ask your pig to tell you what it’s good for. Slap it for every wrong answer. Slap it for every correct answer. Pigs are only good for abuse and that’s about it.

6. Piss on and in your pig as much as possible.

7. Make your pig piss outside as much as possible. Or in a bowl. Or on the floor… if it uses a toilet it gets punished.

8. A pig’s tits should always be bruised. If they’re not bruised your pig should be beat for that.

8. Get one of your other cunts and fuck her in front of your pig. Tell the cunt how good she feels and how pretty she is and how much happier you are to be fucking her than a dumb pig. Cum in or on the cunt and make your pig beg to clean it up. It’d probably be extra humiliating to deny it that pleasure.

9. After spitting on your pig make sure to always have it kiss your boots and feet. Your pig is stupid and always needs reminding it’s beneath you.

10. Make your pig beg for the things it doesn’t want. Make it beg NOT to cum. Make it beg for you to abuse it more when it’s at it’s limit. Make it beg for your cum in it’s eye. Make it beg for you to call it names. Make it beg for humiliation.

11. Whenever it says it’s thirsty or hungry always make it drink and eat out of a bowl or off the floor. It should always have to be wearing it’s snout when eating.

12. Have it rub it’s cunt on inappropriate objects trying to get off while you laugh at it and contemplate out loud disposing of it because it’s so disgusting.

13. Make fun of your pig for how wet it gets from the abuse it receives. Let it know it is it’s own fault it gets treated this way.

14. Ask your pig to tell you what it needs for itself and then make sure to never give it that.

15. Find out what your pig hates and do that. It hates anal make it anal only. It hates having it’s picture taken, do that. It hates verbalizing, make sure it does that. If it likes something you do find a way to make it hate that thing.

16. When it’s broken and crying remind it that it has no other purpose. Ask it if it wants to be replaced and watch how desperate it gets. Then make fun of it even more.

17. When you’re bored make your pig jiggle it’s fat. Train it so that when you say, I’m bored, it automatically knows what to do. Don’t even pay attention to it (too ugly to look at) just make it do it.

18. Inspect it and critique it. Or worse make it point out it’s flaws to you. Head to toe. Make tally marks on it’s fat gut for each flaw and whip it that number of times.

19. Get some treats you know will motivate the fat pig and make it do tricks like a dog. Then pervert the tricks… make it lick your ass… etc.

20. When you’re together make it suck a dildo whenever your cock isn’t in it’s mouth.

21. Suffocate or drown the pig… push it as far as possible then tell it you’re disappointed in it for not suffocating/drowning for you… really drive it in how worthless it is for not being able to please you, that you don’t think it’s worth your time any longer, kick it’s cunt, spit on it and walk away.

22. Use your pig to entertain other people. The more people who laugh at it the better.

23. Pick a snack or food the pig really loves… get the pig really excited for it and then cum on it for the pig to eat.

24. Find out your pigs insecurities, use them against it. Maybe if it was better at it’s job it wouldn’t be laying in a puddle of your piss. Maybe if it wasn’t such an idiot it’d have friends to be with instead of licking your asshole so desperately. Maybe if it was a better mother it wouldn’t be on it’s knees begging for cock in it’s ass. Nothing is off limits, make it as personal as possible.

25. If it’s in the middle of talking tell it to shut up.

26. While you’re driving or just sitting around relaxing make it keep it’s mouth open. No swallowing, then punish it for the mess of drool.

27. Tell the pig, if you really wanted to please me you’d take my fist to your fat gut without crying about, ‘I can’t, I can’t’. Then watch it cry and laugh at it.

28. Make sure it is thinking about you especially when you have more important things to do than to pay it any attention. A pig needs to be ignored to keep it in it’s place because the one thing a pig thrives off of is your attention. Can’t have a pig thriving.

29. Each day have the pig write something awful about itself on it’s body. Sometimes tell it what to write, sometimes make it decide. Make it show you and then ask it why it’d write that.

30. Edge the pig. For hours. No orgasm, no relief.

31. Randomly ask or check to make sure your pig’s gash is wet. If not punish it until it’s gets wet.

32. Tell it you’d rather fuck skinnier pretty cunts but they take too much time and effort and it’s holes are so easy because it’s so desperate, why not, you think laughing at it is fun.

33. Tell it you’d rather fuck fatter prettier cunts… the ones that are soft and sexy and fleshy and round. They’re much more interesting and actually have self respect… it’s just old and saggy, gross, and stupid.

34. Ask it how many cocks it’s sucked and fucked recently then make fun of it, no matter what the answer is.

35. Make it confess it’s filthiest fantasies and then use them against it. Tell it how you told other people and how they reacted in disgust.

36. Have it hold and carry things for you with it’s mouth. Your keys, an implement of torture, it’s bowl, a rock.

37. Feed it cum covered food in a bowl on the ground tell it is because you want to make it fatter. You want to see it’s tits get bigger so they’re more fun to punch. Don’t forget the snout if it’s eating!

38. Tell the pig if it really wants to please you it’ll not eat and suffer for you so that it won’t be so fat and ugly, that you’re tired of the way it’s belly hangs.

39. Let others use it but only if they promise not to be nice. How it feels doesn’t matter. It’s already ruined, it won’t make a difference. Make sure it knows that.

40. Make it bleed for you. Carve PIG into it’s skin so it can’t escape it and pretend it’s normal when not with you.

41. Make it confess it’s love and devotion, pretend to be nice for a moment, like it’s in a safe place. Then laugh and make fun of it, who could ever care for, want, or need such a disgusting thing.

42. When you finally tire of the stupid pig and never want to see it again take a shit on it’s chest, kick it in the cunt and walk away forever.

          (The writing below is some of this faggot’s original content.)

Ten Things a faggot Needs From a Dominant…

Rules

Structure & Routine

Consequences

Honesty and Trust

Proper Nutrition & Rest

Humiliation & Degradation

Chores & Responsibilities

Goals and Special Projects

Hard Use and Abuse

Assurances (A Second Chance)

Thanks again to fistfuckgaygr for providing valuable insight into a few things a Dominant needs from His submissive creatures.  After reading fistfuckgaygr’s blog posting, this faggot thought it might be a good idea to compose a similar posting from a faggot’s perspective – this faggot’s perspective anyway.  And while BDSM activities are inherently grounded in a deep, dark sexual nature, this faggot also realizes there is much more to being a Man’s slave than simply serving Him sexually.  It is attempting to remember that important construct as it scribes this post.  Although parts of this writing do resemble sexual content, this posting was composed in a concerted effort and with the express intention to increase its quality of service to the Master.

Rules –

As a noun, RULES are “a set of explicit or understood regulations or principles governing conduct”. As a verb, the Master RULES His faggot when He “exercises ultimate power or authority” over that property.  Rules should be clear and understood by both parties. Rules not only define the expected actions of the sub, but they also serve to define the parameters of the relationship between a Dominant and His slave. It is an important dynamic for the faggot to be given clear and distinct rules which it is then expected to abide by and those rules should always lend themselves to making the Master’s life better.  

Examples of rules may include:

Following proper protocol when addressing a Superior

Knowing when it may or may not speak freely

Responding immediately to orders and commands

Being home and completely available to Him (aside from work responsibilities)

Having to ask permission for anything/everything beyond its normal pre-defined routine

Without rules, faggots run amuck and gain ego, losing focus on what’s important to both parties.  And that is having the Master in charge – in total Control of the faggot. This quite simply, is what they both want.  So, the Dominant should always feel comfortable and secure in making Rules for the faggot to follow.  And likewise, the faggot should accept each new rule with a sense of gratitude for a Man who is willing to provide firm control and structure to its life. The more rules imposed upon the faggot, the better opportunity it has to improve the life of its Master.

Structure and Routine –

As rules provide the framework for expected behaviors, structure is what gives those rules meaning. Structure is the organizational foundation on which a rich and dynamic relationship is built.  And without structure, a faggot is likely to wander aimlessly throughout the relationship never quite addressing the Master’s needs in an efficient and effective manner that enhances the quality of His life. Routine is the use of structure to develop patterns of (in) behavior that further guide the faggot’s daily actions. Routine equips the faggot with the knowledge and skill set needed to accomplish tasks at various intervals with a consistent degree of quality.  It’s important for the faggot to know what is expected of it and what its daily responsibilities are – structure and routine help the faggot learn the Master’s expectations and the parameters of its responsibilities in the relationship.  Routine (and structure alike) both provide the faggot with ample opportunity to study and learn from the Master and to carefully discern His likes and dislikes and sub-sequently respond appropriately to His daily needs and desires.

Examples of structured routine might include:

Properly greeting the Master upon (either of T/them) entering a room

Maintaining a clean and orderly household for the Master – without being instructed

Preparing His morning coffee or other meals as He prefers them – without being instructed

Sitting in a particular spot when not directly serving the Master’s needs or desires

Waking up, addressing the Master’s day, going to work, returning home, addressing the Master’s evening, addressing the Master’s night, sleeping, wake up again…

Consequences –

For every action… there need not be an equal and opposite reaction.  However, there are (and will be) times when the faggot’s action(s) require some degree of corrective measure. When the faggot fails to follow the rules set forth by the Master, or when the faggot lacks structure and routine, this could result in the faggot falling short of its true potential.  It would therefore necessitate the firm hand of the Master to set the faggot back on the right track.  It may be something as simple as the Master looking down at it and saying “Excuse ME…?” Or it may be something requiring a more sub-stantial reinforcement of the structure and agreed upon rules. Such as putting the faggot in a particular physical and mental state where it can ponder its actions and why those actions were not appropriate.  Or – it might even be something that requires a more strict and rigid punishment in order to curb in-sub-ordinate behavior. “Spare the rod, spoil the child.”  

A lack of discipline contributes to laziness which in turn leads to a lesser quality of service provided to the Master.  Even good boys need spankings sometimes to help them remember (a) Who is in Charge and (b) what the faggot’s role and purpose truly is in this relationship. And while every act may not require correction, there should be a well thought out Program of Discipline that the Master imposes upon His property.  Perhaps a point system where each violation incurs a certain number of points and when the faggot “earns a certain number of points” it is disciplined appropriately. Other times – the faggot’s actions may require a more immediate response, based on a multi-tier level of punishment depending upon the severity of the infraction.

Examples:  Level 1, Level 2, and Level 3 Infractions may include (or exceed):

Level 1 – An attention commanding smack across the face…  

Level 2 – An unexpected and surprisingly powerful punch to the gut followed by some corner time for the faggot to reflect upon its     indiscretion

Level 3 – Binding the faggot and subjecting it to a more intense, rigorous and long-term beating coupled with repeated affirmations of what it did wrong and why it was wrong and what it will do in the future to improve its quality of service to and for the Master

Whichever level of consequence the Master feels is best suited for the faggot at the time of infraction and that will bring about the best positive outcome – He will decide. And the faggot knows that He employs punishment and other consequences only to help it become a better faggot for Him and to help it make His life better.  The ultimate goal of both Master and slave.

Honesty and Trust –

Honesty and trust are the guiding principles that give the previous three constructs validity.  Much like fistfuckgaygr explained in the original post, trust is not earned overnight.  It requires complete and open communication, takes a long time to build and it is most definitely a two-way street. When it was younger (like a teenager) and worried about getting into trouble, the faggot would sometimes conjure up some mistruths in the hopes it could avoid receiving a punishment.  It soon realized that telling one lie would lead to another and eventually it couldn’t remember any of its stories. So many years ago, the faggot realized it was simply easier to always tell the truth – no matter what.  And it continues to practice that policy today.  As a faggot who, over the past several months, has been diligently “working to demonstrate its value and dedication and commitment to the Master in the hope that HE will decide to take ownership of it” the faggot has never shared a mistruth with the Master.  Ever.  Furthermore, if the Master is really in charge – He also has no need to lie.  About anything. Ever.  

Trust is absolutely critical in a BDSM situation.  In another similar posting by fistfuckgaygr on what it means to be a slave, this faggot agrees that “Even a simple “white lie” can destroy the trust so necessary to really establish [and maintain] this type of relationship”.  This sense of complete and utter trust is even more critical when the Master wishes to subject His object to various forms of extreme acts of depravity.  Even after months or years of developing a strong sense of trust, one lie or mistruth can cause significant and unfortunate results.  Therefore, even “little white lies” are totally unacceptable.

Proper Nutrition and Rest –

In order to fully serve the Master, the faggot should be fairly well nourished and should acquire a fair amount of sleep.  This is not for the comfort of the faggot as much as it is to ensure quality service is delivered to the Master.  You see, when a faggot gets overly hungry its blood sugar may drop.  And before it realizes it, the faggot has become somewhat of a cranky bitch.  Same principle applies for rest.  While everybody likes to sleep, especially on the weekends, a faggot (only) needs a fair amount of sleep in order to provide a level of high quality service to the Master. If the faggot is deprived of sleep (which by the way – is within the rights of the Master) then it again may become somewhat cranky and as a result, the quality of service and its usefulness is therefore diminished.  It’s really just about finding a balance between acceptable levels of deprivation and the quality of services required by the Master.

Humiliation & Degradation

When it comes to subjecting the faggot to humiliation, much of that is conjured up during sexual games. However, the Master should know that in addition to the Dominant fix He gets by humiliating a faggot, the faggot also internalizes much of that action beyond sexual means and accepts that type of treatment as part of the BDSM relationship.  In doing so, the faggot realizes, recognizes and accepts its position within this dynamic and it is because of the humiliating acts that the faggot learns to become submissive and to remain in a subservient position in relation to the Master.  There are many forms of effective humiliation including verbal, sexual, physical, psychological and emotional humiliation. Any of these types of humiliation can be employed at any time the Master feels like He needs to put the faggot back down in its place.  Faggots realize they innately respond with Respect for the Master when this occurs.

The Master once asked, “I wonder what is the most depraved thing I can do to you…”  Like humiliation, degrading a faggot, whether during sexual acts or other times, helps to put it in its rightful place below the Master. In fact, humiliation and degradation oftentimes go hand-in-hand.  Forcing a faggot to engage in degrading acts (for the Master’s entertainment let’s say) can bring about a significant amount of humiliation upon the faggot.  These two constructs working together are highly effective in pushing the faggot to the depths of its own level of submission and free it to become a slave that follows orders and meets the Master’s expectations with increasing levels of quality.

Chores & Responsibilities –

Faggots need to be kept busy when not engaged in direct service of the Master.  This is important for a couple of reasons.  First, it keeps the faggot out of trouble by not giving it the opportunity to run amuck.  Also, and more importantly, it provides the Master with on-going indirect service that helps to make His life easier.  By taking care of errands, washing the dishes, doing the laundry, grocery shopping (with proper permission to leave the house) maintaining a clean house, tending to other animals in the dwelling, etc., the faggot performs services for the Master much as a maid or personal assistant might provide. The key difference is that the Master doesn’t have to pay someone else to complete these services.  He owns the faggot and so He simply orders the faggot to take care of these tasks and the faggot does it.  The faggot views this kind of work as meaningful tasks that allow the Master to focus on other more important activities.  Activities which make Him happy.   And isn’t that what this is all about anyway?

Goals and Special Projects

In addition to routine chores and other responsibilities, faggots should constantly be working on a set of clearly defined goals as well as being assigned any special projects to work on during their spare time.  This sub-sequently provides the Master with additional pleasure or leisure time since He has passed the assigned task off to His property.  Goals might be physical or intellectual in nature. Things like making the faggot workout in order to tone its belly so it can therefore accept more direct and high impact abuse when the Master wishes to use it as His personal punching bag.  Goals might also include planning a trip for the Master (and slave) and being diligent in its work to ensure the journey will be both relaxing and enjoyable for Him.  Of course, finding new and exciting ways to honor and show Him respect is always a goal the faggot should be working on accomplishing.  Special projects might involve work around the house, preparing for a special event, conducting research on specialized equipment, tools and toys for the Master’s use and entertainment, taking care of any out-of-the-ordinary tasks to help make the Master’s life better and more enjoyable, etc. The length of time spent on special projects can vary depending upon the nature of the assignment as well as the depth to which the Master requires the slave’s services.

Hard Use and Abuse

It goes without saying that the faggot was born to serve a Man who captures it and to serve Him in all ways that suit His needs and desires.  And of course, that includes being the object of His desire – in other words – what that really means is the faggot is the subject of His abuse.   Whether engaged in a fun Saturday afternoon of sexual deviance or if the faggot simply opens its mouth one too many times when the Master is seeking some quiet solitude, He holds unmitigated Rights to treat the faggot as nicely or as sadistically as He enjoys at any given moment. While the faggot may beg and plead for mercy – and it may even cry out in pain (simply gag it), the faggot requires this significant level of abuse in order to frequently remind it of its true place in the hierarchy of nature.  It is there to serve.  Of course, on the flip side of things, the Master could also decide He wants the faggot around simply to provide Him with meaningful companionship – much like a pet – while allowing Him to continue His regular activities.

Assurances (A Second Chance)

Even with the best laid out Rules and forms of structure, all faggots fuck-up.  And as a result, all faggots require appropriate punishment and abuse when they do.  And as indicated above, that abuse should be MEANingful.  So, MEANingful that the faggot learns something from each lesson. And therefore it works harder and with more focus to please the Master and satisfy His needs and desires.  This is a very simple, but complex concept and after a good beating, the faggot should know in its heart that it was beaten because the Master cares for it and He wants it to be the very best faggot it can be.  Period. And while the faggot will always strive to do the best job it can, eventually something will occur that the faggot does (or does not do) that is considered a major infraction.  It may be so out of the norm for the faggot, that even the Master is surprised and has temporary fleeting thoughts of discarding the piece of property.  Please, please, please always give the faggot a second chance to demonstrate its adoration, commitment and dedication for the Master. And if the faggot has been beaten down to a point where it appears mopey, etc., just give it a bit of time to rebound.  Having a temporary mopey attitude is not a sign that the faggot dislikes its place in the relationship. It simply the faggot’s processing of (a) what it did wrong, (b) how disappointed it is in itself and © how it wants to do better for the Master. Every thought it has – be it good or bad, is always centered on the Master and what makes Him happy.

Opportunity to Worship Him and Honor Him on its own accord

First off, let me be clear that i am not using the term faggot in a pejorative sense. One of the most effective ways of taking the sting out of a word is to re-appropriate it from the haters, and redefine it yourself. This must of course happen in a supportive environment, among those who accept you as you are. That enables you to defiantly and bravely own up to what you are. And to realize that there are appreciative Alphas/Men out there who would love nothing better than to have their own personal fag. Don’t let others keep you from living the life that fits you best. And without shame.

In this re-appropriated meaning, the following are some pretty strong indicators that you are a faggot:

1. Your primary sex organ is not your penis.

Most males (gay or straight) derive most of their sexual pleasure from their penises. Men love to ejaculate, and they find great satisfaction in the power of their ejaculations. They take great pride in their penises and in phallic symbolism.

Faggots, on the other hand, are often embarrassed by their penis. It may be relatively small. Many have weak erections. Some have low testosterone levels. On the other hand, faggots generally take great pleasure in their butts and assholes. They are compelled to play with this area, stimulate it using fingers, dildos, or butt plugs, and learn to have prostate-induced anal orgasms rather than (or in addition to) penile orgasms. For faggots, their asshole becomes their primary sex organ, not their penis. Most regard their mouths as a primary or secondary sex organ. 

2. You are unable to top.

In general, Men are born with a natural desire to penetrate and ejaculate. It is their prime instinct. Men love to watch their cocks slide into their partner, love to hear their moans as they fuck them, and enjoy the feeling of pumping their warm seminal fluid into them.

Faggots, on the other hand, cannot see themselves as anything other than a receptive hole for a Man’s cock. A faggot will never penetrate anyone else. The idea has no appeal, and there is no motivation to do so. My penis does not get aroused at the thought. It remains flaccid.

When being fucked, faggots typically feel little or no motivation to touch their penises, preferring instead to focus on the penetration. Many faggots remain flaccid while getting fucked, so focused are they on their asshole as primary sex organ. 3. You dislike receiving oral sex.

From my first sexual experience with another male, I noticed that I did not enjoy receiving oral sex. My penis remained flaccid, and the experience was embarrassing and made me intensely uncomfortable. That is not atypical. There are at least two reasons for this. One, already described above, is that a faggot’s penis is not experienced as a primary sex organ. Another is that the position of power a blowjob bestows upon the receiver is antithetical to the true nature of a faggot. 

Almost all Men (gay or straight) love to receive a good blowjob. Faggots are the exception. They typically recoil from the idea. Now that I’ve come to understand my true nature, the very thought of receiving a blowjob fills me with disgust and horror. I’ve heard the same from many faggots over the years.

4. You are service oriented.

All gay bottoms are submissive to some degree; taking a dick up the ass requires at least a degree of submissiveness. But most are submissive only in the bedroom, and their bottoming is how they prefer to get off. In other words, there is a reciprocity. They seek their own orgasm as much as their partner’s. They consider themselves on a level plane to the Man who is fucking them. This is very similar to how most women view their relationships with Men.

A faggot is not only not equal to a Man (except in certain fundamental human rights as a human being), but the faggot itself knows and acknowledges that it is not equal. A faggot doesn’t focus on its own pleasure at all, in or out of the bedroom. At all times a true faggot focuses on the Man’s pleasure. Its own pleasure is merely incidental, and in no way central. 5. You have certain fetishes, and open to deeper forms of submission.

Certain fetishes tend to distinguish faggots from conventional gay bottoms. For instance, almost all faggots seem to have fetishes for aspects of a Man’s body that denote masculinity and power asymmetry. 

Faggots tend to very willingly kiss and lick a Man’s feet. They also tend to their lust for the smells of a Man. A Man’s used underwear might disgust most people, but a faggot typically desires these items. Faggots love to sniff and lick musky balls and armpits. While gay bottoms may enjoy such aspects, too, they rarely have the worshipful lust faggots reserve for them.

These fetishes might drive faggots to do things that ordinary gay bottoms would never do, such as swallow a Man’s piss, or get spanked.

6. You derive satisfaction from service.

Faggots achieve emotional satisfaction from serving a Man through menial tasks. A faggot finds great satisfaction while cleaning a Man’s bathroom, doing a Man’s dishes, or washing a Man’s laundry. Very few women or other gay Men exhibit this level of servitude, nor do they seem to derive pleasure from such tasks. 

In addition, a faggot does such chores without the expectation of reward. Contrast that mentality with women and gay Men, who often perform chores for a Man in the expectation that they will be rewarded in some way. Faggots do not have such expectations. Their reward comes from performing the service itself for a special Man.

Summing up, you are a faggot if: • You are more interested in your ass as your primary sex organ • You seek only the sexual satisfaction of the Man, not yourself. • You are attracted to the power of a Man • You are attracted to a Man’s intimate scents and, and not repelled by his spit and piss • You can derive pleasure from serving a Man through menial tasks

Humiliation is an important part of every faggot’s training. When a Man humiliates a faggot, He’s teaching him humility (a faggot must remain humble and not allow his ego to get in the way of his ability to serve and obey superior Men), respect (a faggot must learn to show appreciation and esteem to superior Men) and obedience (a faggot must learn to cede all control to superior Men). Plus, it’s just plain fun to embarrass or shame a faggot sometimes — and faggots exist to amuse as much as they do to serve.

Unfortunately, faggots have very little shame. Therefore, it can sometimes be difficult to imagine new ways to humiliate them. With that in mind, i’ve created a the following list of 57 ways for Men to humiliate Their faggots. Go forth, Men, and have fun playing with your subs!

Make him wear a butt plug and send him to the gym to workout — ensuring that he changes and showers in the locker room with the butt plug still in.

Cum on his face or in his hair, then send him out to run errands for You; make it clear that he’ll be severely punished if he returns and You discover that he’s wiped the cum off.

Call or text him at will and order him to piss his pants and send You a picture of it. If You do it when You know he’s out in public — at a bar, perhaps, or on the train during their evening commute home from work — even better.

Serve him his dinner in a dog bowl and make him eat it — sans utensils — kneeling like an animal on the floor next to You while You sit and eat Your dinner at the table like the Man You are.

Make him serve as a piece of furniture — a footrest, perhaps, or a coffee table on which people can set their drinks — during Your next party.

Make him address You as “Sir” in public. He should already be doing it in private, but addressing You that way in public will take Your power dynamic to a whole new level. To kick it up yet another notch, make him call You “Master.”

Outfit him with an ashtray mouth gag and station him on Your patio for smokers to use during Your next get-together.

Spontaneously order him to jerk off to completion in front of You or others in a random or inopportune time and/or place. Then, make him eat his load.

Forbid him from using the restroom for the day and make him wear a diaper, instead. Let him know you’ll be inspecting the diaper later, so he’d better make use of it.

Make him use the bathroom — piss and/or shit, Your choice — in front of You or others.

Perform an unannounced strip search and/or cavity check in an unexpected time or place — out at a bar, for instance, or in the parking lot when You’re out running errands.

Piss or cum into his food; make him eat it while You watch.

Forbid him to walk in front of You; faggots have to crawl on all fours.

Lock him in a cage naked during Your next party and let Your guests ogle at him like a zoo animal.

Dress him in slutty clothes and send him out in public to run errands for You.

Make him give himself an enema while You watch.

Make him use the urinal in a public mensroom with his pants around his ankles; or, if he has to shit, make him do so in a stall with the door wide open. Alternatively, or in addition, require that he always keep the door wide open when he’s using the bathroom at home.

Make him wear a leash and collar in Your presence. Or, even better, out in public.

Forbid him from making eye contact with You.

Handcuff him in public.

Make him kneel in a public restroom with the word “toilet” written on his forehead.

Lock his cock in a chastity device.

Lock his cock in a chastity device, then make him change at the gym, the swimming pool, the beach, etc., with the cock cage on.

Shave his head.

Shave all his body hair.

Scold him like he’s a little boy.

Reprimand him in public when he does something bad.

Spank him in public.

Write “faggot” on his face or body with suntan lotion, then take him sunbathing and let the sun “brand” him.

Make him wear a T-shirt out in public that says “i’m a faggot,” or “slave,” or “pussyboy,” or “cumdump.”

Put him in a timeout, standing naked in the corner facing the wall for a period of time.

Spit in his face — bonus if it’s a loogie — and make him keep it there to dry. Forbid him from wiping it off.

Take him to the bathhouse with messages like “breed me” or “i drink piss” or “cocksucker” written all over his body in permanent marker.

Next time he’s eating Your ass, rip a fart in his face.

Next time You take a dump, take Your finger — or even Your turd itself — and wipe a streak of shit on his upper lip. Demand that he wear Your shit mustache there all day.

Make him suck a dildo in a public place — in the car on the highway during rush hour, for example — so others can see.

Only allow him to use the bathroom outside, like a dog.

Make him eat things out of Your ass.

Gag him with Your cock until he pukes, then make him lick up his vomit.

Make him sleep on the floor next to your bed, instead of in the bed.

Slap him. Hard.

Make him lick your shoes or boots — on command, in public.

Pee next to him at the urinal when You’re out and about; turn and face him so that You piss on him instead of in the urinal. Laugh, and make him walk around with Your piss all over him.

Make him wipe Your ass for You. Either with toilet paper, with his hand or with his tongue. All three are extremely humiliating.

Make him verbally recite a list of five, 10, 20 — whatever — things he loves and admires about You.

Cut or a rip a hole in the seat of his pants and send him out wearing them without underwear on underneath.

Give him an enema and then take him on a walk around the neighborhood with it still in. Make sure he’s wearing light-colored pants or shorts. Heheheh.

Make him flash his hole to strangers in the car on the highway, at a rest stop, or another location of Your choosing.

Whenever You need to use the toilet — at home or in public — escort him in with You and make him lick it clean for You so you have a pristine place to relieve Yourself.

Clip a clothes pin to his tongue and make him say “i am a faggot” 10 times until he’s drooling all over himself.

After you fuck him, hose him off naked in the yard like a dirty animal.

Make him approach a stranger and “confess” something dirty and embarrassing. Like, “Hello, i’m a faggot, and i like to sniff Men’s asses.” Or, “Hello, i’m a faggot, and my cunt is filled with cum right now.” Or, “Hello, i’m a faggot, and i drink piss.”

Make him make animal noises for You on command: “Bark like a dog!” Or, “Meow like a cat!” Or, “Show me what sound a pig makes!”

Make him clean his cunt every time he shits. Pre-mix a cleaning solution for him to use — Your piss, perhaps, mixed with some dish soap — and store it in a spray bottle labeled “fag bath” or “cunt cleaner.” Make him display this cleaner next to the toilet in his home, where any guests are sure to see it.

Take him into a photobooth and make him pose for pictures with Your cock in his mouth, then walk away and make him leave the pictures for the next patron to find — not knowing who will find them or what they’ll do with them.

Make him approach a stranger at a bar, in a bathroom or at a sex club and beg for their cock, piss or cum.

Check out this AMAZING Chastity Letter from a Master to a Boy posted on metalbondnyc’s website. Fuck it makes me fill my cage more than the rest…. ( metalbondnyc is my hero)…

Find the link to this awesome website here: http://www.metalbondnyc.com/

“By Unknown

Rob:

You’ve long had a desire to explore Chastity, and although I’ve indulged you at times over the years, we’ve only played at the edges of your desires.  That, Boy, is about to change.

I’ve carefully thought through how best to make sure you have the opportunity to explore your desires and explore a period of Chastity while keeping in mind that your fantasy may be more than you’d bargain for.

I’ve also considered our schedules, lifestyle and your high need for sexual release and believe I’ve found the perfect solution to meet your desires.   This may not be what you’d choose if it were you making the decision, but the decision will not be yours.

I know you far better than you know yourself, and I understand that an exploration into your desires and fetish won’t work while we remain equal partners, so I’m making you my Chastity Boy.  Understand that Boys don’t have cocks (those are for men); Boys don’t have erections; Boys can’t be trusted to stand and pee (you will sit to urinate); Boys don’t have pubes;  Boys have chores with ramifications and/or punishment if they don’t perform them to my satisfaction; Boys don’t have orgasms.

I have no interest in your being a boy in any other area of our relationship, but until I decide otherwise, you will be a boy when it comes to your dick and exploring your chastity fantasy.

As my Chastity Boy:

You will be shaved from the neck down..   Chest, Ass, Crotch, Arms, Legs, Armpits will be completely smooth. You will shave yourself and present yourself for my inspection.

We will have sex one more time before you’re locked in the cock cage. Enjoy this sexual release, because it’s the last one I’m guaranteeing for awhile.

To ensure that this is a consensual agreement, you will beg and plead with me to lock up your cock as you’re approaching orgasm. You will beg me to take complete control of your cock and orgasms. You will beg me to make you my Chastity Boy.

Immediately upon achieving orgasm, the cock cage will be locked on your cock. I want it locked on while the last of your cum is dribbling out of your dick and before you even clean up.

The instant the lock snaps shut, you give up all control of your penis and orgasms to me. I will decide the next time you touch your penis as well as the next time you have an orgasm.

I demand the following as owner of your penis:

You will learn the benefits of chastity, the enjoyment of orgasm control and the pleasure of handing over all rights to your penis.

You will learn how to gain sexual fulfillment though bringing ME to orgasm and learn how your ass, mouth and other areas of your body can provide enjoyment despite not being able to cum.

You will not speak of your penis or your orgasms. The penis belongs to me, and you simply don’t have orgasms until I choose otherwise. When asked, you will respond with how MY penis is doing while locked in the cage.

You will learn to embrace your interest in chastity without complaint. You will not ask for release, or ask when you will be released.  You will not like what happens if you complain or beg.

Since there are times when wearing the cock cage will cause undue discomfort or not be appropriate, I will allow it to be removed in the following conditions: Doctor Visits, Social Situations, Travelling or other situations as I deem appropriate. Unless otherwise instructed, you will not touch yourself or seek sexual gratification when out of the cage.  On demand, you will put it back on and surrender the keys.

Your period of chastity will not impact my sexual needs. You will ensure that my sexual needs are met in any way that I choose. You will learn how satisfying it is to provide total pleasure to me without regard to your own sexual release.

Get used to this. I know you have a strong desire to be a chastised boy, but lack the initiative to do it on your own.

There are few limitations to the ideal diet for a slave and given time every Dom/me will find the best solution. If you’re still looking for some inspiration, here’s some ideas about what and how a slave should eat.

1.) A realistic gruel should be something that keeps the slave nourished but is simple enough that preparing it or washing out its bowl won’t distract the slave from its duties for too long. Consider fuelling your car. You want it to run and run well - you don’t ask it how it likes its fuel the best. Any slave-food should also be void of any taste - the reason a slave should eat is hunger, not because its feeling like a gourmet all of a sudden. Keeping it as tasteless as possible might even make the occasional addition of a little cum very welcome. I’m thinking unseasoned scrambled egg and pieces of white bread in a bowl full of water would fit these criteria nicely. 

Another option: Soggy cereals mixed with bits of cooked liver. Or cooked rice put through the blender and then mixed with water. There’s always Soylent, if you’re feeling particularly generous. Maybe you can remember something particularly bland you’ve eaten in your life time and think of ways to rob it even that last bit of taste.

2.) Preferably a slave should eat from a single bowl on the floor, ideally metal because its easy to clean and can’t be confused with a human’s piece of kitchenware. Maybe even write its petname onto it with permanent-marker, just to be sure. Keeping the bowl clean and out of the way of its Master’s feet is obviously part of the slave’s duties.

Its bowl is both for eating and for drinking - seperating solids and fluids is a luxury that has no room in a slave’s life. Both goes into the same stomach. If a slave can’t be bothred to finish its water before dinner-time, its gruel goes into the water. If it doesn’t finish its dinner (and you allow that) the next time it gets water it will be swimming with pieces of gruel. A great way to assure it will get its proteins nevertheless.

The bowl obviously has no business in the cupboard where real people keep their kitchenware or in the dishwasher. A brush, a litte soap (cheap and rationed!) and the hose in the garden should be enough to keep it clean. If the Master’s place doesn’t have a garden (or a hose) or the slave cannot be trusted outside, a cold shower can do it. This way, it cleans two things at once. One benefit of allowing it only one single bowl for which the slave is personally responsible is that it will quickly grow attached to that bowl. It will react strongly if you threaten to take it away as punishment for any light misbehaviour. 

If you’re bored, you might even hide it and when your slave’s mealtime approach it, observe its increasing panic as it looks for its bowl (while trying to hide what it’s doing from you to avoid punishment for its carelessness). It knows that if it doesn’t find its stupid bowl before mealtime is over, it won’t get anything to eat.

For additional fun, put the bowl back before the next mealtime arrives. When the slave wants to continue its search, it will find the bowl exactly where it put it. But it already looked there, right? How can that be? It might even dare asking you for help with its search and you can reveal the bowl exactly where it belongs and chide your slave for its stupidity and show it why it needs a Master. It just can’t get by on its own. A great fun for everyone, right?

Tipp: When eating, I particuarly recommend a small bowl and cuffing the hands of the slave behind its back. That way, the slave has a harder time eating. This will not only make the slave feel more sated in the end, but burying its face deep in the gruel is a nice, disgusting way to reinforce its status. You might even take a picture of its gruel-smeared face and have it make it its phone wallpaper. So adorable! 

Of course, when or whether you allow it to wash off the food from its face is up to you.

3) Food can and should reinforce the slave’s status and the current satisfaction of its Master with its services. There are plenty of good ways to punish a slave via its food - mostly, ruining it with the help of some spices or body fluids of the Master’s choice.

Especially if the slave complains about the lack of taste to its food, a few nice spoons of hot sauce in its food should cheer it up. It better be grateful!

If you feel like your slave didn’t keep up with its cleaning, you might take away its bowl for a while and have it lick its food directly from the floor. You’ll be surprised how motivated your slave suddenly is to keep the floor clean. (Works best for kitchens and bathrooms, not so much for any room with carpet.)

If you feel your slave spends too much time lazing about or you feel it uses its meal-times to postpone its duties, you can apply a time-limit. Estimate or secretly measure the time your slave usually takes to feed - and then cut it in half. 

Watch it eat like a pig, trying to slurp down as much gruel as possible before you take the bowl away. The hurry will even help the slave overcome any hesitations about the food being ‘disgusted’ and help it learn that the taste doesn’t matter as long as it gives the slave the energy to fulfil its duties. To be helpful, you can remind it how many seconds it still has left every once in a while.

You want a task done quickly? Tell your slave to do it after preparing its food. The gruel will taste even worse cold so it’ll hurry with your task to be allowed to eat something warm. Of course, the results of it work still need to pass muster, so it better doesn’t work half-heartedly!

As I said, an easy way to punish your slave is to take away the bowl - and there better be no argument about it! You can do that whenever you want - just get up and remove it or wait until mealtime has arrived and the gruel is in the bowl. Then order your slave to flush it down the toilet.

To make eating additionally difficult for a naughty slave you can do various things:

put your slave in a corset. Eating on your knees with your hands behind your back in a corset? Not easy.

Frozen peas where it will place its knees. Not only is it painful, but your slave won’t miss the irony that the food you use to punish your slave is better than the food it gets to eat.

A blindfold. Better do that outside though. You can even spice that up with an additonal flick from your riding crop when it doesn’t expect it.

I’m a nice person, so I will mention that one advantage of a particularly bland gruel is that the slave will appreciate anything that has a taste even more. You can reward it by adding a flew slices of orange or an apple to its gruel or even allow it a bite from your food for real people. But be sure that it earned such luxury or you spoil it. Tipp: If you have a long-haired slave, the question whether its allowed to tie back its hair or not before eating from its bowl (again, no hands allowed!) is a simple but entertaining form of punishment. Or just entertaining. 4.) Outside food is obviously a problem. Slaves are like animals - the moment you turn your eyes off them, they’ll eat anything put in front of them. And since they go around pretending to be people in their every-day life, they’ll get a lot of it. Cookies at the christmas party at work? Check. They go to the movies with their ‘friends’ and order popcorn. Try your neighbour’s cake when she drops by.

They’re practically stealing food meant for real people - not to mention confusing their own minds with these notions of humanity. The best thing you can do is make sure that your slave thinks twice about taking up any offer

Enforce honesty. The moment it’s at your place it must report anything it has eaten since it last saw you. If that was a long while or your slave has ‘poor memory’ a journal might help. OR: Have it create an Instagram account where it posts pictures of everything it eats. To any other person it will only look like a complete tool but its a great way for you and the world to keep track.

Make a catalogue of punishments for any wrong or unneccessary foods: Making its gruel more water-y for a few days, additional time added to its chastity, a nasty quick flogging before its next meal, washing out its mouth with soap or any of the punishments described above. Be creative. And then: Save the catalogue on your slaves phone so that it will always have it with it. No: “I didn’t know…” or “I wasn’t sure it was on the catalogue!” No excuses. Best make it google docs, so that you can add any new ideas you come up with - your slave better check its catalogue once in a while!

Have your slave write up a list of its favourite foods. Then when it’s finished, you order your slave to pick 3 ingredients from the list that it will from now on claim to be allergic against. It will be forced to recline any offer of foods containing it - it can’t even give in one time, otherwise it’ll look like a liar in front of people it knows. Now you control when and whether it will eat its favourite foods. You might even order it to become vegetarian or vegan to the public.

Order your slave to carry a small bag of salt or hot sauce or any other taste not to its liking around with it. If it can get away with it, it is to ruin its own food- This way it’ll be conditioned to dislike people-food, especially any not served at your place.

Alcohol is a no-go (and you can easily test your slave for it). If anything, it should happily endure the mockery for ordering water at the pub if it means it gets actual clean water that’s not from a little bowl on the floor mixed with gruel and tasting of metal. More than it deserves!

If it can’t control itself, have it wear a corset under its clothes in public - maybe even lock it on. It really helps against hunger!

It’s your place to take / swallow anything a Feeder wants to give you from His Cock. you will be a willing cum hole, urinal and spit receptacle. If it comes from a Superior Male, it belongs inside you.

your mouth goes where ever your Feeder wants it to go. If He wants your mouth on His Cock, it goes there. If He wants you to lick His balls, lick them. If He wants you to lick His Asshole, lick it.

All Feeders are your Superiors. you will address every Man that uses your mouth as SIR, unless instructed otherwise. A Feeder may address you however He sees fit, including names like “bitch” “cocksucker” “cunt” “whore” etc. He’s not being mean, He’s just pointing out the reality of what you are.

You will eagerly service your Superior, as well as ANYONE else He wants you to service.

If a Man offers you His cock, it’s your job to suck it. No questions asked. you have chosen to make your mouth available on an as needed basis, and it should be available when ever a Superior Male needs it.

Learn to deep throat Cocks. Men have the right to be taken all the way to the balls if that’s what they want.

NEVER push a Man away just because He gets a bit rough with you. you are servicing a MAN and should be willing to deal with everything that that entails, including a little rough treatment.

When being used by a Superior Male, you hands should be anywhere but on your own dick. (See Rule 1). If you are jerking on your little cock, you are NOT adequately  focused on your Feeder.

You will update your Feeders with your availability on a regular basis, and make sure you are available at those times.

Keep your mouth and body healthy and clean. See your dentist every 6 months to prevent gum disease or any other condition that might put your suckhole out of commission. Keep your body clean, and if you are overweight, work on getting lighter. This will allow you to appeal the broadest range of Feeders.

When a Man is done using your mouth, you will thank Him for using you, and thank Him for His Sperm. If He has brought another Man with Him, you will thank Him for doing so, and thank His friend for using you.

Faggots desperately want a Man who is willing to take total control.  Faggots don’t want to be asked.  They need to be TOLD.  

As soon as a faggot walks into your home, it wants to feel the firm hand of a Real Man grab it, slap it, and demand it strip.  It wants to be manhandled, groped and molested.  By placing your hand firmly around a faggot’s neck and beginning to squeeze, you immediately take control and get the complete attention of the fag.

A faggot needs to have its cock and balls pulled, slapped and twisted.  Some men prefer to lock their faggot in a chastity device before they use it.  The faggot should immediately understand that its cock and balls exist for the amusement of other Men, not for its own pleasure.

A faggot isn’t looking for a Man who consults with it as to what it wants.  Once a faggot is naked in front of another man, it needs to feel that it has surrendered all power, all decision making, all self-worth.  It is in the hands of a Man and it lives to serve.

When a man decides it is time to fuck a faggot, the faggot needs to feel the power of the Man taking charge and using its ass.  Pounding hard.  Owning the faggot and its ass.  It is the greatest compliment of a faggot’s life to feel the thick cock of a Real Man entering its faggot ass.  The faggot should always be grateful that a Man is willing to spend his valuable time in fucking the faggot’s inferior ass.

Surrendering power is the essential first step.  But to achieve its proper role in life, a faggot needs to experience deep, genuine, intense humiliation.  Constant verbal degradation is key.  Keeping your faggot stripped naked in your presence is a must.  Ordering a faggot to strip and clean your bathroom and home is often useful.  Exposing your faggot in front of other people is very effective.  My favorite way to humiliate a faggot is to fuck it with other men watching, then offer the faggot’s ass for use.  Very little is more degrading to a faggot then having its mouth and ass offered to another man (or several other men) without first consulting the faggot.

When I get done using a faggot, I like to throw its clothes out the door, make it leave naked and then get dressed outside.  It helps emphasize that the faggot serves only one purpose, and when that is done, the faggot is useless.

In the end, faggots need to feel inferior, used, humiliated and ultimately disposable.  They may return to their normal lives when the encounter is done, but while they are naked in front of other men, make them surrender everything, expose everything and accept everything you want to do to them. It is good for the Man, and it is what the faggot desperately needs.  

Men are entitled to use faggots as a source of pleasure, entertainment and service. It’s a basic law of nature. And yet, some Men are not fully enlightened about the ways in which fags can be utilized and leveraged. To assist them in their exploitation of faggots, therefore, i have compiled a list of 115 ways for Tops, Alphas, Doms, Superiors, Masters and Sirs to use and abuse faggots, bottoms, betas, omegas, pigs, slaves, sluts, pups, subs and all other variety of inferiors:

Sit back and make him suck your dick, nice and slow.

Train him to deepthroat your cock.

Fuck his face, balls-deep, like it’s a pussy.

Cock slap him.

Make him lick your sweaty balls.

Straddle his face and teabag him.

Spit on him.

Make him clean your sweaty ass after you work out.

Make him clean your dirty hole when you haven’t showered.

Piss on him.

Piss down his throat.

Piss in his ass.

Make him drink your piss from a glass.

Piss on a pair of underwear, or a jock strap, then wring it out over his face.

Finger his hole.

Fuck his ass.

Spank him.

Paddle him or whip him.

Fuck him with a dildo.

Make him clean a dildo after it’s been in his ass, your ass or another faggot’s ass.

Tie him up and use his holes.

Smack or slap his face.

Call him names.

Tag team him with a buddy.

Gangbang him with a group of friends or strangers.

Whore him out to friends or strangers.

Make him sniff and lick your piss-, shit- and/or cum-stained underwear.

Gag him with your dirty underwear, jockstrap or cum rag when you’re fucking him.

Cum on his face.

Cum on his face and make him wear the load out in public.

Cum on his ass.

Cum directly down his throat.

Cum in your hand, and make him eat it from your hand like a dog.

Organize a bukkake and cover his face with multiple cum loads.

Make him eat your cum off your buddy’s cock.

Cum on the floor or a table and make him lick it up.

Make him drink your load(s) from a shot glass.

Cum on food and make him eat it.

Save your loads on a cum rag, jockstrap or pair of underwear when you jerk off; when the cum rag is rank and full, make him suck the cum crust out of it.

Double-penetrate him with another Top or with a dildo.

Make him suck your cock while you’re taking a shit (i.e., give you a blumpkin).

Use his tongue as toilet paper after you take a dump.

Make him eat your shit.

Make him eat his own shit.

Make him jerk off with shit.

Make him smear his body with shit.

Flick or twist his nipples.

Write names (e.g., faggot, bitch, pig, slut), pictures (e.g., a cock and balls, a pig face, a toilet) or phrases (e.g., insert cock here, with an arrow pointing to its holes) on his body.

Make him lick your dirty toilet, or a public toilet, clean.

Make him wear a butt plug out in public (e.g., to the bar, to the gym, to the grocery store).

Piss on his underwear, or take a dump in his underwear, then make him wear them home.

Fart in his faggot face.

Tie him to your toilet when you have guys over, and tell them to use him instead of the toilet.

Fuck his face until he vomits, then make him clean the puke off your cock.

Don’t let him cum.

Make him ask your permission to jerk off or cum.

Make him eat his own cum.

Make him jerk off or finger himself while you and/or your friends watch.

Make him watch while you fuck another faggot.

Position him beneath you while you’re fucking another faggot and make him lick your cock as it goes in and out of the faggot’s hole.

Make him eat your ass while you’re fucking another faggot.

Make him clean your cock off after you fuck him.

Make him clean your cock off after you fuck another faggot.

Make him eat your load out of another faggot’s ass.

Make him clean out another faggot’s ass after you’ve fucked it.

Take photos and/or videos of him servicing your cock.

Finger your ass, then make him sniff and/or suck your stink finger.

Tie his cock and balls with a shoelace.

Blindfold him when you use him.

Fist his hole.

Fuck him with a condom and make him drink the cum out of it.

Make him drink the cum out of used condoms (e.g., at a party, at the bathhouse, at the park).

Cum in his ass.

Make him fuck another faggot, or get fucked by another faggot, while you watch.

Make him and another faggot fuck themselves on a double-ended dildo while you watch.

Make him lick your feet.

Use him as a footrest.

Make him give you a massage or footrub.

Hock a loogie in his face or down his throat.

Blow your nose on him.

Shoot a snot rocket in his mouth.

Take him to a bar; when his beer’s empty, refill the glass or bottle with your piss and make him drink it in public.

Make him pee at the urinal (e.g., at the movies, at the gym, at the bar) with his pants around his ankles so everyone knows he’s a faggot.

Shave his body.

Shave his head.

Save your piss in a bucket, and make him bathe with it.

Keep him in chastity.

Decide what he wears.

Make him wear a collar and leash.

Keep him in a cage.

Make him do domestic chores for you (e.g., laundry, cleaning, shopping).

Make him sniff poppers, then use him.

If you’re uncut, make him clean and eat the smegma from your cock.

Make him wear a ball gag.

Make him crawl in your presence, like a dog.

Make him eat his meals out of a dog dish.

Torture him with hot wax.

Make him give himself an enema — with water, or perhaps your piss — while you watch.

Give yourself an enema, then release it all over his face or body.

Make him service anonymous cock at a gloryhole.

Engage him in forced workouts.

Fuck him with found objects around your home (e.g., a broom handle, a beer bottle, a carrot, a cucumber, a wooden spoon).

Make him beg for your cock.

Feed him your pre-cum.

Make him lick your sweaty pits.

Make him call you “Master” or “Sir.”

Make him wear a hood while you use him so that the only sensation he has is the feeling of your cock in his hole.

Cum in his ass, then make him fart your cum into his hand and eat it.

Felch your cum out of his ass, then feed it to him.

Make him lick you head to toe.

Make him pick your pubes out of your underwear or off your toilet and eat them.

Make him wear a puppy tail in his ass.

Make him lick your boots.

Make him do a strip tease for you.

Make him service you in a public place (e.g., a restroom, a park, your car).

A slave is:

obedient;

respectful;

humble;

submissive;

well-presented;

punctual, and;

productive.

Ground Rules

1. Know your place.  Your Owner, other Dominant men, and all men less submissive than you, are your superiors. Even if you dislike them personally or disagree with what they say, you will acknowledge their superiority at all times.

This does not mean doing anything you are told by anyone, but it does mean raising any objections in a respectful way; check with your Owner if in doubt.

2. It’s HIS decision. You may query an order if you need to find out more information or you need to make sure your Owner knows all the facts. You don’t get to disobey or ignore an order on the grounds that you think you know better. Your Owner always knows better than you.

3. Bulk up, boy. Go to the gym as often as possible, work out hard, take your supplements. The more muscle you have, the more valuable a piece of meat you are to your Owner.

4. Slaves don’t cum. Your cock should be locked in its cage for every moment that it’s practical. Whenever it’s not practical, hands off it! The purpose of all sexual and bdsm activities is the pleasure and amusement of your superiors. You can touch your cock to clean it, put it in its cage, or if told to touch it by your Owner. You cannot touch it to pleasure yourself.

The cage will always be worn when you’re engaged in any sexual activity with another man. The one exception is your current vanilla partner. Even in this situation, you will only orgasm if that is his express wish. You will make it clear that cumming is not your preferred option.

You’ll report any orgasm to your Owner for him to decide if you obeyed this rule.

5. Total. Submissive. Bottom. Firstly, stop all pretence of being in any way sexually versatile. Superiors fuck, you get fucked. You pleasure their cocks with your holes. Secondly, you never, ever attempt to dominate another man. Your fundamental nature is completely submissive - be true to it always.

Your Owner can decide who gets to use you, when and how.

6. Wear your collar. Wear visible evidence of your slavery wherever and whenever possible. The chain and lock should be worn whenever it is unlikely to seriously upset those around you, cause a work problem or place you in harm’s way.

You will wear the chain and lock as a rule, removing it as the exception. You’ll report the exceptions to your Owner for him to decide whether it really needed to be removed.

7. Make it obvious. In addition to your chain, you’ll dress in ways that draw attention to your body and accentuate your status as a muscle-jock slave. If in doubt, go for slutty. When possible, go for fetish. In short, do everything you can to make it easy for superior men to sexually objectify you and identify you as the submissive muscle slut you are.

The exceptions to this are situations where dressing this way would cause undue upset to your friends or family, or risk your employment. Report exceptions to your Owner so he can decide if they’re genuine or not.

8. Slaves have tits. Take any and every opportunity to encourage superior men - both strangers and open-minded friends - to play with them. 

Make your tits grow, but keep them sensitive and supple. Take proper care of them.

9. You will change. You will cooperate with your Owner to change you in physical and mental ways that make you a better slave. Some changes may be temporary, some will not be. You may become a dumb beast fit only for menial labour, sex, pain and entertainment by the time this process is done, never doubt that is a good thing for you to be.

Humiliation public and private, physical trials, hypnotic conditioning, new rules governing behaviour more closely, or more subtle manipulation may play a part. Embrace this process, accept its inevitability - and cooperate fully. Suggest to your Owner anything you think would help make you more humble and less human.

Wearing a chastity device is not like any other sex toy. It’s not a toy at all. It’s a piece of bondage equipment that locks up your dick. Your dick isn’t just physical. As you know it’s hardwired to your brain. All those hormones, sexual drive, ability to orgasm — locked away. And then there’s just doing normal life activities in a chastity device. Think of working, pissing, types of clothing, etc. It’s a lifestyle. Here are a few considerations.

Never Being Able to Get Off

How often do you jerk off? If you’re like most guys, you’ve shot off quite a few loads in your life. In a chastity device that all but goes away. Here’s the thing, you still get aroused but can never let loose. Imagine being horny all the time but with no way to have an orgasm. Many guys will watch a few minutes of porn and then do their thing. In a chastity device, you can actually watch the whole porn movie.

Because there’s no way to orgasm, you have to manage your sexual energy differently. Many people, for example, use that energy to exercise more. Many men report a new found vigor and increased strength after being in chastity. They also report increased mental focus, better sleep (after they get used to sleeping wearing a cage around their dick), and more creativity. Everyone is different. But there are some advantages to not jerking off.

Milkingslave dripping

You may have seen or heard about guys cumming while wearing a chastity device. The most common way to do that is by prostate milking. That’s massaging the prostrate gland, which may trigger a release of cum. For those that don’t know, the prostrate is massaged through anal penetration (such as finger, dick, dildo). There’s definitely a technique to it. But keep in mind, you still can’t get a full erection if you’re being milked. So it’s not the same as an orgasm.

There’s some evidence that ejaculating has some positive health effects and never ejaculating may cause some health issues. Milking is one way to allow a chastity wearer to occasionally cum without breaking the chastity period. Of course, your Key Holder may allow you to jerk off on special occasions, if you’ve been good.

Prprecumecum

You probably don’t give precum too much thought. However, once you’re in a chastity device, you will think about it all the time. It will be become a new hygiene routine you will need to learn to deal with. Most guys in a chastity device precum a lot. I mean a lot. When you get horny, you will leak lots of precum. And when you’re not horny, you will still leak out some. It really can get messy. It usually starts a day or two after you’re locked up. Over time it decreases. You will have to make some lifestyle adjustments. No more sleeping nude…

Cleaning

The point of wearing a chastity cage is to restrict your access to your dick. One of the issues is trying to keep your dick and the device clean. Things will get nasty if you don’t. Showering will take extra long to try to work your way in there to get everything clean. And drying is not so easy too. Some people use a hair dry (low heat). Using is q-tips is a common technique for cleaning too. Try taking more baths. But dick and cage cleaning will become a new routine in your life…

Pissing

Pissing won’t be quite so easy in a chastity device. You are probably already familiar with splash back when pissing. Now you have something diverting the urine flow. The spread can be wide and unpredictable. Imagine your thumb over a water hose and think what that does to the direction of the water. Pissing standing isn’t as feasible anymore — not to mention who might look over and see you in a chastity cage. You’ll probably be sitting on the toilet to take a leak from now on.

Additionally, the quick shake and off you go isn’t going to be your reality anymore either. Urine can get trapped in the device. You need to be sure it’s all out and clean.

Public

Chastity devices come in different sizes and shapes. Generally, they can be hidden under

From 2013 MTV Music Awards From 2013 MTV Music Awards normal, everyday clothes. But there’s some things you will need to be conscious of. Wearing anything too tight might show the cage. Anything that would have shown your bulge before will also likely show the cage. Most cages have a lock. The lock can move, making noises or be seen. People sometimes wrap a rubber band around it so it doesn’t bang against device. In any event, it has to be managed.

If you travel, there’s the issue of airport security. If there’s metal in the device or lock, it will set the metal detector off. The body scanners will also pick it up, even if everything is plastic. Your best bet is to ask for a pat down and let the security guard know it is a piece of body jewelry. No matter how you slice it, awkward.

If you workout at the gym, the locker room becomes an issue. Showering there would be pretty embarrassing. Best to avoid the locker room altogether, if possible.

Be careful of hugs. Getting too close may reveal your dirty little secret. Just go back to the days of being a teenager when you always hug leaning in from the chest but keeping the hips away to avoid your constant hard on being revealed. Now it’s to prevent your chastity device from being revealed…

Pubic Hair

You’ll want to keep your pubes trimmed close or shaved. The hair can get caught up in the device and pinch. And it always happens when you least expect it. Like in a meeting or at dinner with family and friends. You get the point…

Life of Obedience

Being locked in a chastity device puts you in a submissive role, especially if you have a Key Holder. Based on your relationship, you may be expected to do things or act in a certain ways. The Key Holder usually has the discretion to decide when you get out, which is often times tied to your obedience. You may have to do extra chores, provided photo proof of lock up at random times, perform sexual tasks, etc. Unlike voluntary submission, there’s a consequence to failing to comply — a longer sentence for your cock.

Is It Worth It?

1. CHASTITY

Lock its genitals in order to restrict access. Make sure it is chaste most of the time, free only in your presence from time to time. This way, its body parts become your property and it is unable to play with itself, which ALL men do.

2. INSPECTIONS

This might seem like unnecessary play only but it is not. It send a strong impulse to its mind about who is in charge and has unlimited freedom. Do it on regular basis.

3. ROUTINES

Routines are very important, any kind of routine. To begin with, decide upon a daily routine with which it will show its respect and humility to you. Make sure there will be no skipping on routines.

4. DISCIPLINE

This is a complete must, done on daily basis. Discipline is the most essential ingredient. It doesn’t need to “deserve it”, it is simply necessary. Find the time and the will every day.

5. TEASE, EDGING, DENIAL

Having and keeping its balls full will ensure its full attention towards you. It will make it beg and it will make it soft on its mind. Have you tried it for hours? No? Try it. Bigger balls equals more obedience and willingness to do anything for you.

6. RUINED ORGASMS

Your slave needs to cum and it will do anything to cum. You will allow it to cum on occasion but you will also slowly take away its right to have that pleasure. Ruin iits orgasms often and make it thank you. In time you could easily have it pleasure-less and without actual orgasms, up to you. Remember, an orgasm is not a right, it is a health necessity. It is not a reward either. Yours are important and only orgasms that should be cherished.

7. HUMILIATION

As bad as this might sound, subtle ways of humiliation are extremely effective. It needs it, it wants it. Do it. Find ways, decide up on them and act upon them. Humiliation makes it more humble. Then humiliate some more, subtly.

8. USE IT, MAKE IT FEEL USED

slaves like being treated like objects or toys. So that’s just what you need to do, use it for your pleasure and needs and then simply discard it. It’s a play, nothing more but it works just fine. Make sure you train yourself for such acts properly, in order not to appear silly.

9. EMASCULATION & PEGGING

Chastising your slave is the begging of emasculation. Pegging is another great way to emasculate. Make it your bitch, bring out its feminine side. Bringing out its feminine side works beautifully in favor of emasculation. Emasculation kills the ego every man has. Ego is an absolute enemy. 

A slave is:

obedient;

respectful;

humble;

submissive;

well-presented;

punctual, and;

productive.

Ground Rules

1. Know your place.  Your Owner, other Dominant men, and all men less submissive than you, are your superiors. Even if you dislike them personally or disagree with what they say, you will acknowledge their superiority at all times.

This does not mean doing anything you are told by anyone, but it does mean raising any objections in a respectful way; check with your Owner if in doubt.

2. It’s HIS decision. You may query an order if you need to find out more information or you need to make sure your Owner knows all the facts. You don’t get to disobey or ignore an order on the grounds that you think you know better. Your Owner always knows better than you.

3. Bulk up, boy. Go to the gym as often as possible, work out hard, take your supplements. The more muscle you have, the more valuable a piece of meat you are to your Owner.

4. Slaves don’t cum. Your cock should be locked in its cage for every moment that it’s practical. Whenever it’s not practical, hands off it! The purpose of all sexual and bdsm activities is the pleasure and amusement of your superiors. You can touch your cock to clean it, put it in its cage, or if told to touch it by your Owner. You cannot touch it to pleasure yourself.

The cage will always be worn when you’re engaged in any sexual activity with another man. The one exception is your current vanilla partner. Even in this situation, you will only orgasm if that is his express wish. You will make it clear that cumming is not your preferred option.

You’ll report any orgasm to your Owner for him to decide if you obeyed this rule.

5. Total. Submissive. Bottom. Firstly, stop all pretence of being in any way sexually versatile. Superiors fuck, you get fucked. You pleasure their cocks with your holes. Secondly, you never, ever attempt to dominate another man. Your fundamental nature is completely submissive - be true to it always.

Your Owner can decide who gets to use you, when and how.

6. Wear your collar. Wear visible evidence of your slavery wherever and whenever possible. The chain and lock should be worn whenever it is unlikely to seriously upset those around you, cause a work problem or place you in harm’s way.

You will wear the chain and lock as a rule, removing it as the exception. You’ll report the exceptions to your Owner for him to decide whether it really needed to be removed.

7. Make it obvious. In addition to your chain, you’ll dress in ways that draw attention to your body and accentuate your status as a muscle-jock slave. If in doubt, go for slutty. When possible, go for fetish. In short, do everything you can to make it easy for superior men to sexually objectify you and identify you as the submissive muscle slut you are.

The exceptions to this are situations where dressing this way would cause undue upset to your friends or family, or risk your employment. Report exceptions to your Owner so he can decide if they’re genuine or not.

8. Slaves have tits. Take any and every opportunity to encourage superior men - both strangers and open-minded friends - to play with them. 

Make your tits grow, but keep them sensitive and supple. Take proper care of them.

9. You will change. You will cooperate with your Owner to change you in physical and mental ways that make you a better slave. Some changes may be temporary, some will not be. You may become a dumb beast fit only for menial labour, sex, pain and entertainment by the time this process is done, never doubt that is a good thing for you to be.

Humiliation public and private, physical trials, hypnotic conditioning, new rules governing behaviour more closely, or more subtle manipulation may play a part. Embrace this process, accept its inevitability - and cooperate fully. Suggest to your Owner anything you think would help make you more humble and less human.

1. No stable father-figure. 

This is a common genesis point of all issues pertaining to Men, especially men of higher status or authority. Maybe your dad was absent or tyrannical, or maybe you didn’t have one at all. Because you have no male role model, no one ever taught you how to be a man. Even as you have come of age, the hole in your heart still pains you, and draws you to superior authoritative Men.

2. Acclimatization to inferiority. 

Most probably you were bullied as a kid. Somehow, if you are reading a list like this, I highly doubt you fared well against them. You probably learned early you aren’t strong enough to fight them, or quick enough to talk back to them. If you ever tried to resist them, you learned it was futile soon enough. In those situations, you unconsciously accepted you have no power, that you are inferior. Even when the situation changed, and you meet new people, or people who treat you well, you still know how powerless you are. It’s not all bad though. You have discovered that in every episode of misery, there is a kernel of perverse sexual pleasure. Many is the time you have touched yourself at the thought of the humiliation and domination you experienced. Maybe you recreated real life scenes in your head, pictured the faces of your bullies and ejaculated as a testament to the power that they continue to lord over you to this day. As soon as the seed is out of you, the shame rushes back in, and you feel more inferior than before, and so the cycle continues.

3. Involuntary reflexive submission.

Maybe this comes from the bullies too, or maybe from other venues of conflict. You learned the best way to resolve and avoid conflict is to simply submit to the desire of other people without a fight. It’s not even a choice at this point, its just a mode that you snap into whenever danger is brewing. This has changed the fiber of your being. With every action to try to communicate to people around you that you are harmless, that you ose no threat, that you area door-mat. At this point, any argumentative skills you once had have atrophied from years of neglect, while your peers have been self advocating for years, and are so much better at you than it. 

4. Conflation of sex and fear. 

When you realize that you have no power to assert yourself, it dawns on you how easy it would be for anyone to take serious advantage of you. It would be one thing if you were attracted to your peers, but your not, you like men who are older, bigger, more confident- in short, superior. The power they weild could put even a confident smaller person in their place, but you? All they would have to do to you is give you a hard look, and your brain would work overtime thinking about how you can best appease him, and the minute ways you can cow to him. When the power difference between you and the men you desire is so disparate, you would be stupid to not be afraid. To but it bluntly, it woudl be so easy for smoene to rape you. Physically you could be overpwoered, and you would be too scared to resist anyway. If someone pushes you to do somethign sexually that you dont want to do, you do it, why? Your too scared to refuse. You cannot imagine sex without fear. The two are inexorably linked. The tow are one. Even when you masturbate, the fantasies you spin for yourself scare you. 

5. Conflation of love and misery

Of course. Fear of violence or domination isnt the only reason you would never refuse a man anything. You fear putting him off you, you fear displeasing him, you fear losing him. Just the thought of Real Men makes you uneasy, just the sight of them makes you afraid, and yet you are drawn to them. Your mind is against you. Any sane person runs from fear, but your libido has it in for you, fag. You have learned that unfaltering submission pleases people. the only way you can please people. you so long for a Man to be pleased with you, to approve of you. And sometimes, it seems to work.  He might smile at you when he realises how easy you are, he might smirk as his ego feeds off your submission. You might be lucky enough to feel his heavy arm around you after he has seeded you. you might get to see him again, on the condition of course, that you accept you have no power, and that you obey him at all times, and swallow his abuse. You have subconsciously learned that the only way you can get moments of good feelings is by paying for them with your misery and pain. The only way you can feel love is by being hurt. When those two wires are crossed, your a lost cause.

6. Loneliness.  

Normal people don’t feel like you do, fag. You already know that. No one knows what its like to be you, and it would shame you if you ever thought they did. You are encahnted by a spell of isolation, what ever self worth you stil lhave fades away slowly. your standards get lower, you get more desperate. Whatever kind of treatment people are willing to give you, you drink it up, and fixate on it. Your mind is being primed for absolute submission when the time comes. And at this point, you would take anyone. Youre social skills are poor and your mind is torubled, You think you are unlikable, but you are jsut waht a certain type of older man is looking for. Maybe he pretends to offer you help, or affection, or maybe he makes no pretense about what he wants form you. The beautiful thing is, it dosent matter: he could be the most thuggish psycho and you would become infatuated with him just as much as if he where a genuinely nice guy. You cant distinguish good men from bad men, they are may as well be as fearsome and powerful as gods compared to you.

7. Sorted priorities

Sure, you know by now the hard life of a fag. Maybe you’ve compared yourself to a Real Man or a normal person, and realized that most people life happy lives and good sex unmarred by misery. When you meet Men, you feel an intoxicating mixture of desire and dread. Sometimes you loose your bottle while they’re on top of you and get distressed and wish for it to stop. But you never say a word, you even try to so much as try to get him to go softer. Why? Because your feelings matter one sot compared to his momentary pleasure. After its over, you are physically hurt, and emotionally fucked.. But the Man, the Alpha, the Dad got a few fleeting moments of pleasure out of it, an orgasm, and an ego boost. That more than justifies everything you’ve been through. Your lifetime of mind-bending abuse and damage has perfectly primed you to serve that Man, and that makes your heart light. You would endure much worse if it would make him happy, or amuse him at least. Maybe your eagerness to submit might please him, it might make him feel big. His needs and desire are the only thing that matter to you, yours are an afterthought at best.

8. Entrapment in submission mode.

 Many fags will play the Boy or the Slave or the Sub. A lover game for fun and kicks. Your are different, you are worse. It’s more than playing to you, and you are not a playmate, you are a toy. For luckier fags, they play the game, they lose and submit to their Man, and the scene is over. But for you, your whole life is the scene.  If you are allowed to sleep next to him, it will be a disturbed and restless sleep, your shoulders stiff and your ears pricked to his every move. Even as he sleeps easy, and snores next to you, your mind is stuck in hyper-vigilance mode. ‘Am I taking up too much space?’ ‘Would he prefer if he kept me pinned by his arm? Or if I gave him more room?’ ‘Did I disturb him? Is he rousing? Is he going to start on me again?’

9 Relief in submission.