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I never post because I’m just here to kill time lol but I’m writing a novel series that has a lot of LGBTQIA+ characters and I’m trying to get as many opinions on representation as I can (totally anonymous unless you choose otherwise) so please help a writer provide decent representation!!
NOTE: If anything in this form is offensive please know that is not my intention and feel free to let me know so I can edit/remove it! The
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This is like the American version of that one British guy reacting to the tea
“just put the cow in there next time” “girl, you are oppressing that coffee”
“You’re gonna put that in your body?” broke me
This is exactly what it’s like workin at Starbucks
This is a potion to make you shit yourself.
“But I didn’t consent to see kink” yes you did by coming to pride,
a place you know and have repeatedly said you know kink is at, a place built by kinky people, the mother of pride Brenda Howard was a queer kinky polyamorous sex positive anti war bisexual Jew and to try and remove its history or sanitise it is is spitting on her grave, you are consenting by choosing to go there
The last ride of Paul Revere
biblically accurate angel
Thank you.
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If you have a big, emotional, self hating meltdown every time someone tells you that you hurt them or crossed a boundary of theirs, then that means you're not a safe person to say no to - and that's something you need to work on. Even if you're genuinely just really upset that you hurt someone, if every attempt at communicating a boundary to you results in the person you hurt having to repeatedly reassure you that you're not actually a bad person, then you need to work on controlling yourself and taking constructive criticism.
i think it's helpful to work on redirecting that shame into gratefulness.
someone telling you no or that you've hurt them is a gift. it is a very brave thing to say, and it helps you know what you need to do to fix things or prevent future harm.
even if you can't stop having a breakdown, first stating really clearly that you recognize how vulnerable and generous the other person is being, thanking them for telling you, asking what they need right now.
if you can delay the breakdown long enough, you can have it with a friend or a journal or a therapist.
i think people get into this cycle where all of their tough conversations turn out badly and then it's much easier to panic when the next tough conversation starts.
but when you break that cycle, you'll find out that (while they're still tough) these conversations can actually make your relationships feel stronger at the end. they can make you feel more confident that you know what to do. they can build trust.
it takes a lot of learning and practice to get that way, but dealing with this stuff is probably the best first step towards getting there.
I want to emphasize here: you're allowed to feel these emotions. Being upset is not a bad thing -- it means you really care about this! Plus, you can't stop a breakdown by beating yourself up about having a breakdown.
What's important here is: the person who was brave enough to be upfront about this? Should not be the person helping you through the breakdown.
I usually just thank them and get outta there. If you have questions or need to talk details, you can come back to it once you've calmed down and organized your thoughts.
To add on to this: if you really can’t delay the breakdown, like they’ve barely finished their piece and you’re fighting back tears or about to snap back with anger you know is not real, don’t try and rush a conclusion. Excuse yourself and give a concrete time to continue the discussion.
“I’m sorry, I need to collect myself - can we continue this in 10 minutes?”
And go to the bathroom or something, cry if you need to, take deep breathes, splash your face with some water. And when you return, once you have gathered yourself, then channel that gratefulness. Make it very clear that you appreciate their honesty and patience, and address the concerns.
hot girl throwing up in a dumpster outside the club
okay so decided to reverse image search and it's apparently a memorial to unborn babies lost during or immediately after pregnancy due to genetic defects (website says trisomy 18 specifically)
so as much as I love to make a joke on here, I'm going to retract my last comment and replace it with:
fuck you, that's absolutely ghoulish behavior to co-opt someone else's grief, strip it of context, and warp it's meaning to fit your personal beliefs i hope you die in a car fire
Rescued otter learning to get over it's fear of water
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Why the fuck did Amazon just send me and this one other guy in our building a free sample package of Coke Zero
Why
Hey guysssss I’d like to take a moment to talk to you all about this new product. Coke
There’s a real explanation! This is actually a SCAM called ‘Brushing’ to raise their ratings on amazon artificially. They create a fake account with a random real address, purchase the item themselves and mail it off and as it goes to a real address, random people get it.
Then they leave themselves a nice five-star review with the fake account. This sounds like a victimless crime, but this means your information is compromised, they have your account info, and possibly your credit card information, and can lead to people purchasing garbage because they believe the multiple verified five star reviews.
If you receive a random package you did not order, you should report it immediately to both Amazon and the Federal Trade Commission, change your password, and monitor your cards. You’re free to keep the package though.
It’s that time of year again.
Monitor your credit and debit cards regularly. Be wary of pop up sites offering deals too good to be true. If you get a package you didn’t order, investigate, be cautious, but US law also allows you to keep anything sent to you without obligation (you know, to prevent scams where people send you something you didn’t ask for and then sue you for an inflated purchase price).
Oh, and shop small / fuck Amazon if you are able.
people forget that there are literally no rules to being queer. if you feel queer, congrats, you can be queer. its not my or anyone else’s job to investigate or interrogate you. you are the sole authority on your identity
Absolute biggest bipedal fuck-up is that we can't lie down and look forward comfortably.
Dogs and cats and cows are out there lying down in the grass and just seeing everything and what do we have? Lie on your stomach and fuck up your neck? Lie on your back and shove 400 pillows under your head? Lie on your side and just accept everything's fucking sideways? I hate this fucking evolutionary form
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BIDEN IS TRYING TO AMEND TITLE IX TO PROTECT TRANS ATHLETES.
This is currently in its open comment phase and it’s getting bombed by TERFs, surprise surprise.
If you live in the US, you can fight back by leaving your own comment HERE. Don’t get cute or make threats, just explain why you think we should protect trans kids. And for fuck’s sake if you’re not actually in the US don’t get the idea you’ll just use a fake address. This is a government form, doing so can get the entire amendment thrown out.
Spread the word!!!
We must reframe the narratives/dialog.
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